Still Remembering Those WhoHave Fallen

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In November 1998 the murder of transgender woman Rita Hesler sparked a movement, a push to annually mark a day on the calendar to remember those transgender people who have fallen. Transgender Day Of Remembrance is now in its tenth year, and as the statistics continue to mount annually against the transgender community, November 20 is a day for all of us around the world – transgender or otherwise – to take stock.

On average two transgender people are murdered each month, according to global figures. This year alone 26 transgender people were killed. People like Duanna Johnson who died from a gunshot wound to the back of her head on September 11 in Tennessee. She made the news back in June when two police officers bashed her and were caught on camera doing so. When she died she was in the process of suing the City of Memphis for $3.1 million.

The body of 18 year old Angie Zapata was found beaten to death with a fire extinguisher after the man she met online became enraged after finding out she was transgender. Juan Carlos Aucalle Coronel’s life also came to an abrupt end when her body was found with multiple face and head fractures before being run over by a car in Italy. In February 2008 Lawrence King was shot by a classmate because he wore girls’ clothing to school in California. These are only three who have lost their lives simply because of who they were.

Out of the 26 recorded murders this year all were brutally violent, apart from one person who died by drowning – a pattern which has repeated over the past ten years and 245 murders. In the Middle East and some parts of Asia and India murders are still rife and often they’re committed by law officials so the deaths are not recorded.

In Sydney this past February transgender woman Brigitte Fell became headline news when her partner was taken into questioning for an unrelated crime by Surry Hills Police. Brigitte’s transgender status was revealed to him by police , which led to Brigitte’s boyfriend brutally assaulting her after he was released from custody. Such an irresponsible act put Brigitte’s life in danger and very easily could have made her another statistic.

Everyday transgender people around the world face a variety of abuses – verbal abuse is the most common and physical abuse can sometimes result in death. There is still little understanding of transgender people, despite the fat that we’ve been a part of society right throughout history. Many indigenous cultures treat transgender people as the healers or the shaman of the tribe and are often revered. Western society on the other hand, riddled with religious fear, continues to ostracise transgender people. It’s not hard to see the results of this fear – year after year transgender people continue to be slain.

On November 20 people have the chance to remember those who have fallen at events held all over the world. At many of these events the names of those fallen are announced and candles are lit in their honour. Often groups hold talks on the day, and so it can also be a chance to connect with government to push for better prevention and education. It is also important to involve our gay, lesbian, bisexual, queer and intersexed allies to join in solidarity and better understand each other to move forward. Transgender Day Of Rememberance is not only a day to remember those who have been murdered, it’s also a celebration that we are still here and always will be a visible part of society.

In the past year Australia lost some very valuable transgender community members, people who were instrumental in past Transgender Day Of Rememberance events. Victoria’s Zoe Belle and New South Wales’ Eleanor Lister both worked tirelessly on transgender issues in this country.While their deaths were not the result of murder, they are still tragedies, and have left a huge hole in the transgender community. Even this year in Sydney I was planning to put on a Transgender Day Of Rememberance event in Elanor’s absence, but there was very little response to the call out for volunteers. Even last year’s event in Sydney barely drew twenty people. It would be fantastic to see the transgender community and our allies come together more strongly to put on an event that states that we are here and we wish to be heard.

So even if you cannot get along to a Transgender Day Of Rememberance event please take a moment on November 20 to stop and remember those who have fallen victim to these vicious hate crimes. Transgender people walk amongst us. You may pass them in the street and not even realise they are transgender. Just because they pass or don’t pass in public that doesn’t mean they are safe from violence. To know we have allies on this day of remembrance makes the journey towards social acceptance that little bit easier for future battles that lie ahead.

Australia is hosting a few events also this year.

In Sydney the Gender Centre is holding an event at the Twenty10 Hall – level 2, 45 Bedford St in Newtown on Nov 20 from 2pm to 4pm.

In Melbourne the Metropolitan Community Church are holding a special worship service on Nov 23 7pm at 271 Burnley St, Burnley.

In Canberra you can go along to Glebe Park from 7pm on Nov 20 for a 2 hour TDOR memorial.

How much has changed in a year? Read last year’s story about Transgender Day Of Rememberance here.

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oktobr

oktobr said on the 20th Nov, 2008

As one of the few who actually attended last year, and one of the few who actually took our CHILDREN to the event, I think I am more than qualified to say what I have.

An example of trans being killed for allegedly being gay is Lawrence King, a 15-year-old student from Oxnard, California, who was shot and killed in class on February 12 by a 14-year-old classmate because of King’s sexual orientation and gender expression. The hate crime received little media attention but has served as a rallying cry for the need to address anti-LGBT name-calling, bullying and harassment.

Another example of the gay/trans association problem is that of Brigitte Fell of Sydney, her own story written about here in SameSame...
http://www.samesame.com.au/news/local/1935/Youre-Rooting-A-Bloke.htm and I draw your attention to what Ms Fells' attacker said to her, "Your fucking mates the cops told me you’re a man – is it true?” and then proceeded to assault her to unconsciousness, and didnt stop until her apparent death after she fell from the balcony of her loft bedroom.

I myself was attacked with a car clublock, with the threat of death, in a carpark under the Italian Forum here in suburban Leichhardt, by several young men, beaten all over and nearly raped one afternoon 4 years ago. I count myself fortunate that a woman in a car happened along and scared them off. They did not assault me for being trans, no, the trans word was never mentioned, but the words, poof, fag, gay and homo were.

But I suppose even this doesnt qualify me to speak out...

oktobr,
(devil incarnate and corruptor of community goodwill)

datkindagal

datkindagal said on the 23rd Nov, 2008

Thursday's Sermon by our good friend Pastor Robert Clark

Transgender Day Address November 2008.
2010 Newtown Sydney

I thank you for the invitation and the honour of addressing you on this special day.

Too often transpeople have had to deny their sense of true self in order to “fit” comfortably in this world, in this city, in this community; too frequently allowing the discomfort of others to dictate their level of integrity. It is internalised transphobia that drives transpeople underground and into their closets.

It is liberating when transpeople – as is true when all people – can be authentically who God created them to be, to celebrate their unique and wondrous creation. Living with integrity is a calling made more challenging when one is marginalised.

In Australia, we live in a culture that mandates everyone fit in the gender binary as male or female, and within those roles a certain appearance is acceptable, while variations that are perceived to be too extreme, are not acceptable, and in fact, are often seen as a cause for violent response – especially among the so-called “macho males.” And we are reminded of a recent case, in which injury was inflicted upon Brigette Fell by her partner.

Behaviour perceived to be masculine or feminine must coincide with one’s gender appearance. Variations are problematic in certain tightly structured social situations or ethnic groups, and while we perceive variations as “God-given,” some in our society do not. It is usually in these circumstances where violence breaks out and the transperson’s life is in jeopardy.

Friends, being transgender is not a choice. It’s not a decision you make one morning while sipping your morning latte. It’s not a choice that you make by flipping a coin. People do not decide to become a man or a woman any more than we decide how we want to look.
(I would like to be two metres tall, but I’m stuck with 1.74 metres and shrinking!)



The process to gender change is a never-ending story – Once in Transition, Always in Transition.

Once a person begins the journey of their gender identity and expression, whatever that may be, that process of change never ends. The journey never reaches a finale. Many transgendered people have lived for many years in what they consider to be the “wrong” body, and some feel they have lost much time. Often, they try to reclaim lost time while celebrating their newly embraced self. Once one begins to recognise and accept their gender identity, there is no turning back.

While gender change can be remarkably hard on family and friends, it is most difficult for the person in transition and their partner.

This process is about the person “coming out,” coming into their own, and feeling brave and free enough, to embrace who they were created to be.

I journeyed with a colleague through gender change over 18 years ago. There were many times of despair and lost hope during the process, but I recall that one of the most exciting times and exciting moments was when a name had to be chosen – and there were many suggestions!! He finally decided to go from Bill to Wilhelmina, honouring his Dutch ancestry and probably the former Dutch Queen!! She later became an Elder in the Metropolitan Community Church, and continued to promulgate the cause for Transgender persons until ill health curtailed her activism.

Folks, whether one is Jennifer becoming Steve, or James becoming Amanda, or Bill becoming Wilhelmina, there is nothing like the experience of naming the person, one has always been.
Sometimes it can be difficult for the larger community to change the names or pronouns they use for transpeople in their lives, but there is no excuse for denying people the freedom to be who they are. With every intentially mis-stated pronoun or name, we undermine this freedom.

In the same way, with every use of the preferred name, we are showing that we are keeping open minds and open hearts, in helping to create a louder voice for the people we love and support.

How many here today struggle knowing how to understand and support trans identity and expression?

I would like to give you an exercise that you might be willing to use to gain a different perspective.

1. Go out one day, preferably with someone, in a gender role different to the one you identify with! By that I don’t mean just donning a bit of mascara guys, and a baseball cap ladies!

2. Try with all your ability to pass as another gender!

3. Every time you encounter people take note of how they treat you, how they look at you, what they say, what is said about you behind your back. Are people staring?

4. Every time some addresses you with an incorrect pronoun or gender specific term, consider the many trans people who are encountering the same frustrations every moment.

5. Every time someone says something negative about how you look, notice how you feel inside. Did you say anything in response, and if you did not confront it, Why not?

I hope and trust you find this an exercise that you will never forget. It is an experience that happens every day to our transgendered sisters and brothers.

Folks being transgender is not role playing; it’s not dress up; it’s not a game!
It is about the person in transition, in all its forms, in whatever ways the trans person participates, or does not participate, in surgical or hormonal treatment.
It is about freedom and liberation. It is about authenticity.

On average two transgender people die each month, usually violently. This year alone 26 have passed into eternity. This is a tragedy that should not happen.
I would like us now to remember the names of those no longer with us, and if you feel comfortable, to say their names aloud. Let us remember them with dignity and respect.

Zoe Belle (VIC), Eleanor Lister(NSW), Duanna Johnson, Angie Zapata, Juan Carlos Coronel, Lawrence King.


In memory of those named, let us today determine to be proactive for the cause. Let those who have passed, not have died in vain. Let their legacy live through each one of us here as we continue the struggle for Rights, Equality and Equity. Together you and I can be activists for the cause.


Acknowledgements to:
Metropolitan Community Church
SameSame.com.au
Gender Education and Advocacy USA