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Sandee Crack

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The Melbourne drag queen who stars in Libra’s controversial tampon ad – which has now been yanked off TV screens – says she never intended to portray a transwoman and will not apologise for the resulting storm.

Shown below, the commercial’s portrayal of a tall partygirl’s bathroom battle with a ‘real woman’ who uses tampons prompted stern criticism from many transgender people who were disgusted at being seen as figures of fun.

“The blatant transphobia is disgusting,” read one of many online comments blasting the promotion. “This ad is ridiculous and offensive.” An online petition ensued, attracting almost 2,000 signatories this week.

The company itself quickly responded. “Libra regrets any offence taken to our recent tampon advertisement,” it said. “It was never intended to upset or offend anyone. Independent research was undertaken and the advertisement was viewed positively during that testing.

“Libra takes all feedback very seriously, and in response to this, we will immediately review our future position with this campaign based on the feedback received. There are no further advertisements scheduled in New Zealand. The advertisement has not aired in Australia.”

Now Melbourne drag queen Sandee Crack has spoken up, saying she was proud of the Libra ad and is disappointed by the resulting controversy. She tells her side of the story, hitting back at her critics, below…


My name is Sandee Crack. I am the drag queen that you have all seen in the Libra commercial that has been shot down by some of the transgender community.

I would firstly like to state that I am in fact a gay man that dresses in drag as a performer. I have been doing so for many years and will continue to do so. I have never considered myself to be transgendered and never will do.

When I was presented with the Libra commercial and saw it as a great opportunity to participate in a positive step towards acceptance for drag queens and gay men among the wider community.

Libra were both sensitive, professional and accepting of my needs as a drag queen and as a gay man throughout the production process. I never felt for one moment that I would be depicted as a trans woman, nor do I believe that I have been.

We consciously kept my arm hair, chose strapless dresses to accentuate my broad shoulders and if you look carefully you will notice my stubble is slightly visible. They also ensured I looked much taller than the girl next to me.

I was shown the ad prior to release and I was thrilled with it. I have received enormous support from both transgendered, gay and straight individuals from all over the world since the ad was released in New Zealand. I believe strongly that by putting a drag queen into the mainstream media, we are one step closer to acceptance and this is something I am very proud to be part of.

Unfortunately, a small portion of the trans community have chosen to view the ad as a personal attack on their fight to be viewed as equal women within society. This is a fight I also feel strongly about and I hope to help educate the wider community on.

However, I feel hurt that representing myself as a drag queen on television and playing out a common place scenario in my life has lead to a clear “Dragphobia” among some transgendered individuals who wish to pull the plug on something that reflects true honesty about the life of a drag queen. A drag queen is a man in women’s clothing and if that offends a trans woman I am afraid I cannot apologise, as by doing so I am apologising for being me.

I hope that the campaign goes to air in Australia, it would be an enormous step forward for Australia and for the world.

Thank you

Sandee Crack

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Nevarro

Nevarro said on the 7th Jan, 2012

Nevarro, what gives you the right to make any comment about my well being? You have no idea what kind of trauma I have experienced, what kind of justifiable phobias I have developed and what kind of mental illnesses I suffer from for growing up trans. If I feel at all unsafe by those words then it IS an ATTACK. Fuck you very much for telling me that it is not.

Furthermore, Irene does NOT make a good point in that most people are curious. Most people are fearful and hostile. You do not have the personal experience in dealing with it to advise otherwise or correct me and invalidate MY experiences for being victimised and vilified. Once again, fuck you.

EvilEmpress, so now you feel it appropriate to attack me? How charming.
How are you any better than those of which you speak of that have/do attack you?
I have not attacked you here or anywhere on this site or anywhere else for that matter.
Your attitude is unfortunate.

Perhaps I don't know your personal story, the history of your childhood into adulthood, what you have experienced in your time.
I am sorry that the world is not as nice to you as you so obviously feel it is to me.

You have misinterpreted my post, which is also unfortunate.

I could choose to be offended by your response, I could feel attacked and victimised by your horrible behaviour but I choose not to be, its simply not worth it as to take that path could impact my mental wellbeing.
Instead I choose not to absorb your hateful and negative tone.
You are possibly angry, well that is how I interpret your reaction but it in no way justifies you attacking someone.


I hope that you find peace some day, that you find a way to work through your anger and hurt, and if as you say, you suffer from a mental illness as a result of growing up trans that you are seeking the help that you need.

I find no joy in seeing people suffer.

I wish you well on your future journey

MrAsh

MrAsh said on the 8th Jan, 2012

I think that attitude stems from a lack of understanding of the psychological factors at play. I have suggested in the past that transgendered people, and in particular intersex people need to be more engaged in education of the broader public, to make them more understanding and more aware. But I was shouted down by the angries, just as I have been here. The angry attitude, although understandable, works against them as the public (not me) just sees them as psychos.

Personally, I've never felt particularly female (or particularly male for that matter), just a person born with particular genitalia and a healthy libido. Many of the trappings of gender (clothing etc) are passing social associations and are not intrinsic to the gender they get associated with. I think many people are similar and don't understand the need to change gender - they cannot understand what the fuss is about. And this is where education is so important. Imo, if they want to gain greater acceptance and more tolerance, the transgender community needs to try to understand the broader community and educate, educate, educate.

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Education is vitally important for the understanding of gender issues and to reduce the predjudice and discrimination surrounding them.

One such education venture is a fanzine called 'Dude' created by (the very handsome) Jez Pez, which in very creative, approachable and matter of fact ways educates people on Transmen's issues.

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