How to flirt with lesbians...

[djak]

What are your tips/experiences/preferences of flirting as both a flirter or flirtee ???

[just_dance]

I wish I had a clue! lol. I haven't a clue how to flirt, let alone figure out how to approach someone... I'm so screwed aren't I? lol

[gold_femme]

i like it when they do push ups for me .... swoooooooon

[ammonite]

i lol'd

[ammonite]

i never notice if someone is flirting with me at the time they're doing it

i sometimes realise later when there is no way to do anything about it

[Happy to be me]

Some people are naturally flirtatious and its hard to know if they are just nice or if they are interested ...But I guess if you never try you never know!

Lily x

[pho3nixphir3]

i've never flirted nor had anyone flirt with me, so yeaaaaahhh.

[ammonite]

you must have at some point. maybe you're not good at seeing the signs like me

[pho3nixphir3]

people don't flirt with me ==. i don't think it's happened...

and i don't really get out much, sooooo...

[velvety]

I wish I had a clue! lol. I haven't a clue how to flirt, let alone figure out how to approach someone... I'm so screwed aren't I? lol

ME TOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[bellsforher]

Um...I think my method of flirting may be misconstrued...as just plain creepiness. I tend to stare longingly at the girl, give a little tentative smile and then give up. I am hopeless. Absolutely hopeless!

[shechef]

Flirting? It's foreign to me! I think I would die with delight if someone would just try it once. Please someone, anyone, pleassssssse.

[gold_femme]

Right! I'm going to open up a flirting school, I can't stop and constantly flirt - occassionally it works too ;)

[shechef]

Right! I'm going to open up a flirting school, I can't stop and constantly flirt - occassionally it works too ;)

Where do I sign up?

[naughtylion]

Right! I'm going to open up a flirting school, I can't stop and constantly flirt - occassionally it works too ;)

Show em how it's done babe.

[maddybt90]

I hardly ever get flirted with, but when I do I tend to not notice and just think she's being friendly, until someone tells me later that she was flirting, it's pretty frustrating! I can't flirt, either.

[ammonite]

Flirting? It's foreign to me! I think I would die with delight if someone would just try it once. Please someone, anyone, pleassssssse.

i don't believe you either

[gold_femme]

Julesnox and I will be happy to demonstrate at carnival on sunday ;) and she's a total expert!

In receiving the flirt I opt for the traditional giggle, twirl hair, and throw back a compliment. Keep it cool but not so cool you appear uninterested.

Summer is a great time to ramp up the flirt factor....the heat only helps.

X

[Happy to be me]

Lol!

Write a book of tips for flirting with girls By Goldfemme & Jules Nox It will be a best seller....

Or go Global Go on Oprah....Or better still Ellen!!!

Man its so hot 2 nite ....

Lily xo

[sookey]

I never get flirted with but my other half gets hit on ALL THE TIME so i see how others play their moves lol.
Most of them ask where she was born (in australia or philippines) how long she has been here and they start closing the gap between them. Slight touching of the arm, sayings she has beautiful eyes, asking for a hug and the list goes on. But my other half is so sweet she has no idea what is happening until i tell her.

[trina2004]

people don't flirt with me ==. i don't think it's happened...

and i don't really get out much, sooooo...

I can sympathise, I've never recieved the flirt. I think I've done it, unconsciously though.

I have been told by friends 'you were flirting with her, it was soo cute' (or something equally patronising) but I don't know the difference between being polite, friendly and nice to someone, and flirting. lol.

[bellsforher]

I think it's difficult because, as females, we show affection to our other female friends even if we are straight. Hugs, and smiles, friendly hellos and friendly chatter with the stranger next to you are all seen as perfectly normal "girl" behaviour. So how do you make it clear you are trying to be more than just nice?

[pho3nixphir3]

i don't flirt, i'm clingy xD

[just_dance]

actually... i correct myself... i dont know how to flirt *properly* but i go balls out with my friends. they know its just play (altho theres one that im only pretending to play...) so i know i can do in and be really obvious... but i can only do it on the internet!! lol. real life i cant. the best i can try is just smiling a lot... lol. not that ive ever been able to approach someone yet anyway lol

[tweety]

maybe throw in a suggestive remark...see how she reacts....if reaction positive: go for the kill! i sound like a guy....

i don't know how to flirt either, not in real life anyway, i can flirt very easily with written words though.
i only had one huge crush on a woman so flirting with her would have been a slow death for me...so i just got some alcohol and let the dutch courage take over from there...worked like a treat! :D

[boozehag]

i get really drunk
lift up my skirt at people
and make strange gurgling noises
dont try it it doesnt work

[bellsforher]

hahaha! Boozehag that's hilarious! When drunk i tend to become more honest. Very bad.

I always thought I was a terrible flirt but just recently I seem to be getting into the swing of things (she knows who she is ;))

[Light-Bearer]

Why not eat something seductively with your vagina.

[naughtylion]

Why not eat something seductively with your vagina.

I only found out this weekend that girls can't hide drugs in their underwear coz their vagina will suck it up. I didn't believe it but I had 6 chicks tell me it was true.

[tweety]

hahaha! Boozehag that's hilarious! When drunk i tend to become more honest. Very bad.

I always thought I was a terrible flirt but just recently I seem to be getting into the swing of things (she knows who she is ;))

who is it????
sorry....couldn't help myself! :D

[bellsforher]

I am a woman of mystery..........;)

[tweety]

I am a woman of mystery..........;)

mystery is sooooooooo overrated!!! spill the beans, you woman of mystery! :p

i'm gonna have to explain something to you bells: us women gossip well, very well. it's in our genes. we like stories. we luuuurve "ooh" and "aah" moments. i know you're 100% woman! :D

[ItsAllInTheEyes]

Nothing beats a good sense of humour combined with confidence to have this girl as putty in your hands. :p

[ItsAllInTheEyes]

mystery is sooooooooo overrated!!! spill the beans, you woman of mystery! :p

i'm gonna have to explain something to you bells: us women gossip well, very well. it's in our genes. we like stories. we luuuurve "ooh" and "aah" moments. i know you're 100% woman! :D

Mystery is good....provided the mystery can be solved ;)

[pho3nixphir3]

ahhh. i have mysterious friends. one's starting to open up , and i tease her about being mysterious, so she's giving it up a little. then there's this other girl i knew who was bum bum BAA!! mysterious. but it was too much of a put on and i think she's gross.

SO SPILL ALREADY!

[just_dance]

lol a little bit of intrigue and Ladies Lounge gets a tiny bit of life! ;)

[bellsforher]

my lips are sealed. ;)

[ItsAllInTheEyes]

Now you are into the swing of things, time to share some of that lesbian flirting wisdom with us ;)

[bellsforher]

I really wouldn't know.............. ;)

[boozehag]

saturday night i invented something called the "birth dance"
it stopped these men from trying to dance with me
they literally did a "dance away from here" move
it was AWESOME

[trina2004]

saturday night i invented something called the "birth dance"
it stopped these men from trying to dance with me
they literally did a "dance away from here" move
it was AWESOME

That sounds fantastic:) funny.

[Carmen 2010]

How do you flirt, its hard with woman, if your out in public,
you may be scared of rejection or exposing yourself, or
if your at a club, you can't be sure if their friends are their GF's or
just friends, so ummmm, what is a girl to do, can't we all start using some sign
or code???

C x

[trina2004]

How do you flirt, its hard with woman, if your out in public,
you may be scared of rejection or exposing yourself, or
if your at a club, you can't be sure if their friends are their GF's or
just friends, so ummmm, what is a girl to do, can't we all start using some sign
or code???

C x

I've thought the same thing! Or make straights get Str8 tatooed somewhere visible.
Actually I thought once upon a time there were signs and codes, back in the early days...

[tweety]

it's all in the eyes (no, not the lovely girl posting in this thread): if you can hold a woman's glance, you can be pretty convinced she's one of our tribe :)

[ItsAllInTheEyes]

it's all in the eyes (no, not the lovely girl posting in this thread): if you can hold a woman's glance, you can be pretty convinced she's one of our tribe :)

I agree totally, tweety!!

I rely very heavily on that gaze to guide me. How many times have you felt like someone is staring at you, then turned your head to see that someone actually is?? I've noticed that very few straight women (excluding friends) will hold that gaze. I sense that gaze only to look at them staring at my shoes, or what I'm wearing lol As soon as I look at their eyes, the eyes are gone or remain on my shoes if they are more confident!

With flirting, not only can you communicate and flirt with your eyes (battering eye lids, wink, cross them if you are so inclined lol etc), but you can read how receptive the flirtee is, simply by looking into hers.

The one thing I find with the eyes is that sadness always come through more strongly than anything else regardless of how big that smile is. You've soooo got to dig deep for those happy, sexy thoughts if you're feeling down but keen to find Ms Right.

My name is Hels and I'm an eye addict :p :D

[ammonite]

http://www.afterellen.com/node/56392

[tweety]

I agree totally, tweety!!

I rely very heavily on that gaze to guide me. How many times have you felt like someone is staring at you, then turned your head to see that someone actually is?? I've noticed that very few straight women (excluding friends) will hold that gaze. I sense that gaze only to look at them staring at my shoes, or what I'm wearing lol As soon as I look at their eyes, the eyes are gone or remain on my shoes if they are more confident!

With flirting, not only can you communicate and flirt with your eyes (battering eye lids, wink, cross them if you are so inclined lol etc), but you can read how receptive the flirtee is, simply by looking into hers.

The one thing I find with the eyes is that sadness always come through more strongly than anything else regardless of how big that smile is. You've soooo got to dig deep for those happy, sexy thoughts if you're feeling down but keen to find Ms Right.

My name is Hels and I'm an eye addict

sitting right next to you in the meeting hels!!!!

there's a reason why they say the eyes are the mirror of your soul...that is so true...

ppl with dead eyes scare me. a little cross-eyed can be sexy...have to say that coz my wife told me my one eye leads a life of its own when looking closely at something! :eek:
am a sucker for blue eyes....and very dark eyes...the ones you can't seem to get in to....love eyes with little wrinkles on the side from laughing...would have to say that at my age! :p

flirting with lesbians is extremely easy: ItsAllInTheEyes just wrote the manual!

the battering eye lids...am not with you on that one...my friend (since we were kids) used to always use that tactic when around boys when we were teenagers...absolutely hated it, thought it looked so stupid!!! should have known back then that i was on the road to lezziehood.... :cool:

so, in short: if a girl doesn't look at your shoes but at your "kommisfeu", then you know you're in with a chance. sorry guys, that's flemish slang for boobies....too cheeky a word not to use! i want ozzies to know that word! :D

[just_dance]

well I'm huge fans of the 'kommisfeu'! Can't say I walk around staring at other girls tits though...

I'll join the Eyes Anonymous as well! lol. I love eyes. Eyes and boobs, thats me! lol

[ammonite]

well I'm huge fans of the 'kommisfeu'! Can't say I walk around staring at other girls tits though...

i do, it's really embarrassing

[boozehag]

ooh i dont like the eyes idea
im way too mentally handicapped to hold the gaze of someone i think is sexy i go bright red... god im a loser!

[tweety]

well I'm huge fans of the 'kommisfeu'! Can't say I walk around staring at other girls tits though...

I'll join the Eyes Anonymous as well! lol. I love eyes. Eyes and boobs, thats me! lol

a huge fan of the kommisfeu just dance?? hahahahaha
well they can be rather appetising, not so?

i don't care if i stare...i'm gonna put it in a very rough way but if they're on display, why can't we look?

during my straight days, i used to stare at guys packages and asses and felt no shame whatsoever. i liked the look of it and if the thing's there staring at me, for sure i'm gonna stare back! same with the kommisfeu! :D

[tweety]

ooh i dont like the eyes idea
im way too mentally handicapped to hold the gaze of someone i think is sexy i go bright red... god im a loser!

isn't it flipping annoying turning red!!! even at my age, i sometimes feel my face is turning bright red...so embarrassing but then again, some may consider it to be endearing.
but boozehag, you know what? if you turn red, the other person knows something's going on which could be a good thing!! try pulling off an embarrassed smile with the bright red face: you're flirting!

[tweety]

i do, it's really embarrassing

shamelessly? and do you get caught? and are you embarrassed or do you just act embarrassed then? :p

[ItsAllInTheEyes]

Well this girl loooves the boobage http://i870.photobucket.com/albums/ab262/ItsAllInTheEyes/boobage.gif?t=1268897856 ....and the "kommisfeu"!

Blushing...guilty!! There is this girl that reduces me from my age to my shoesize whenever i'm around her...without fail! mind goes blank and face goes red. Actually, Im blushing now :o lol I like to leave a little to talk about and a bit of mystery, without showing what I'm thinking with the blush AND the eyes.

I think we need to call a meeting to order. Homework girls......see how many gazes you catch over the next week and report back....with details :p

Unlike other groups, this one doesn't preech abstinence ;) and practice can only make perfect!

[pho3nixphir3]

omgsh! i went out last night with mann, he kept asking girls if they were lesbian, and tried to hook me up xDD

[tweety]

Well this girl loooves the boobage...and the "kommisfeu"!

Blushing...guilty!! There is this girl that reduces me from my age to my shoesize whenever i'm around her...without fail! mind goes blank and face goes red. Actually, Im blushing now lol I like to leave a little to talk about and a bit of mystery, without showing what I'm thinking with the blush AND the eyes.

I think we need to call a meeting to order. Homework girls......see how many gazes you catch over the next week and report back....with details

Unlike other groups, this one doesn't preech abstinence and practice can only make perfect!

thank you all for using the word "kommisfeu"; didn't know it would become such a hit down under! would love to hear you girls pronounce it though... :p

a girl my age needs small feet if she wants to use that cheeky "from my age to my shoesize" expression! :eek:

dear itsallintheeyes....the blushing kills all mystery, let me tell you that. ;)

seeing as i'm married, i don't think i can do my part of the homework..but you girls please report back to mama!! :D

[just_dance]

thank you all for using the word "kommisfeu"; didn't know it would become such a hit down under! would love to hear you girls pronounce it though... :p

mind spelling it phonetically? right now im saying it kohm-miss-few

omgsh! i went out last night with mann, he kept asking girls if they were lesbian, and tried to hook me up xDD

Lol! My godsister is like that... Thank god I don't have to deal with that anymore!!!

I think we need to call a meeting to order. Homework girls......see how many gazes you catch over the next week and report back....with details :p

I'm afraid I'm out for this one too. But I look forward to hearing everyone elses ventures!

a huge fan of the kommisfeu just dance?? hahahahaha
well they can be rather appetising, not so?

very appetising! my second favourite body part ;)

[tweety]

mind spelling it phonetically? right now im saying it kohm-miss-few



Lol! My godsister is like that... Thank god I don't have to deal with that anymore!!!



I'm afraid I'm out for this one too. But I look forward to hearing everyone elses ventures!



very appetising! my second favourite body part ;)

well, it would be something like: come-is-fö (english doesn't have that sound i think so i'm using the german way of showing you guys and the "o" of come has to be the british english sound for an o) and you have to pronounce it in a nice fluid way...you girls are good sports! :D

just_dance, you and the booberellas.... i'm at work right now and getting all hot and bothered!!! :p

[tweety]

my lips are sealed. ;)

how are those sealed lips of yours these days? :p

[ItsAllInTheEyes]

I'm afraid I'm out for this one too. But I look forward to hearing everyone elses ventures!


....and whats yoooour excuse??? :p

[just_dance]

well, it would be something like: come-is-fö (english doesn't have that sound i think so i'm using the german way of showing you guys and the "o" of come has to be the british english sound for an o) and you have to pronounce it in a nice fluid way...you girls are good sports!

just_dance, you and the booberellas.... i'm at work right now and getting all hot and bothered!!! :p

does this help? http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_gTJMEP-c2fo/SHpBdkC47QI/AAAAAAAABfU/GNDcTM-QrVY/s400/megan_fox_sexy_4.jpg

....and whats yoooour excuse??? :p

I don't care to give my girl cause to punish me ;) then again... It depends on the type of punishment.... ;)

[ItsAllInTheEyes]

I don't care to give my girl cause to punish me then again... It depends on the type of punishment.... ;)

On that basis, do I put you down as a maybe?? :D :cool:

Tweets I'm going to have to find myself a good utube example of the "o" pronounciation lol. You know, once mastered, not a bad, little les - code word for "dinner and a show???" :D

[tweety]

does this help? http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_gTJMEP-c2fo/SHpBdkC47QI/AAAAAAAABfU/GNDcTM-QrVY/s400/megan_fox_sexy_4.jpg



I don't care to give my girl cause to punish me ;) then again... It depends on the type of punishment....

man i'm a weirdo: i am used to seeing the guys post stuff on here that's rather in your face and it doesn't bother me but then when i clicked on this link and this hot girl appeared, my face went literally like this :eek: have to say i didn't expect to see a hot chick but some kind of grammar thing or so....
how stupid is that! :cool: like all of a sudden this precious little girl wakes up inside of me....let's just say that after the first "shock", i quite (read: a lot) enjoyed the view although deborah hutton's the one who pushes my buttons....although, she doesn't have much of a kommisfeu, does she?

don't know if that pic'll allow you to pronounce it the right way but it sure does allow for all sorts of other stuff to happen! :p

[tweety]

On that basis, do I put you down as a maybe?? :D :cool:

Tweets I'm going to have to find myself a good utube example of the "o" pronounciation lol. You know, once mastered, not a bad, little les - code word for "dinner and a show???" :D

that's an excellent idea!!!
i already like a show during dinner.....

you have to promise me that our code word also means a big yummie scrumptious dessert! :p

[just_dance]

man i'm a weirdo: i am used to seeing the guys post stuff on here that's rather in your face and it doesn't bother me but then when i clicked on this link and this hot girl appeared, my face went literally like this :eek: have to say i didn't expect to see a hot chick but some kind of grammar thing or so....
how stupid is that! :cool: like all of a sudden this precious little girl wakes up inside of me....let's just say that after the first "shock", i quite (read: a lot) enjoyed the view although deborah hutton's the one who pushes my buttons....although, she doesn't have much of a kommisfeu, does she?

don't know if that pic'll allow you to pronounce it the right way but it sure does allow for all sorts of other stuff to happen!

lol the pic was in response to you being hot and bothered ;) I'm a huge fan of Megan Fox! There's only one person who gets me going more ;) as long as i can still look at them, then it doesn't entirely worry me about pronouncing it... although im pretty sure i got it now

On that basis, do I put you down as a maybe??

ahhh no. I'm still a no. but you have fun doing doing it!

[tweety]

lol the pic was in response to you being hot and bothered ;) I'm a huge fan of Megan Fox! There's only one person who gets me going more ;) as long as i can still look at them, then it doesn't entirely worry me about pronouncing it... although im pretty sure i got it now



ahhh no. I'm still a no. but you have fun doing doing it!

i have to admit that a classy looking chick like debra hutton does more for me than ladies with a sex kitten image....am i even more of a weirdo now? :confused:

does the "breakthrough" have anything to do with the person who gets you going more than megan fox??? :D

[bellsforher]

Debra Hutton?!

[just_dance]

Deborah is a fine looking lady. I'm more into brunettes though. And I solely picked that picture cos I knew it was a hot photo :)

the breakthrough is actually with my best friend. Her gf broke up with her recently and she's been in a pretty bad way. She finally saw sense last night and cut off contact with her ex. not quite the way i think she should, but its something!! after so long of her holding onto it, its a relief! and here was the best place to vent since she wont see it lol

[tweety]

Debra Hutton?!

yes bells, deborah hutton, your aussie debra hutton...less shock please ;)

i think she is gorgeous...i like classic faces...blond hair....great smile.....heard she's quite funny....
i find that type of women sexier than those pitstop chicks....

[tweety]

Deborah is a fine looking lady. I'm more into brunettes though. And I solely picked that picture cos I knew it was a hot photo :)

the breakthrough is actually with my best friend. Her gf broke up with her recently and she's been in a pretty bad way. She finally saw sense last night and cut off contact with her ex. not quite the way i think she should, but its something!! after so long of her holding onto it, its a relief! and here was the best place to vent since she wont see it lol

thank you JD! :D
we're all so different: this debra gets my engine running...big time to be honest....and then there's peeps like bells prolly thinking deborah's a dog....and i'm thinking "what??" :eek:

well i go on about the blond hair and all but my wife isn't blond and i love her more than anything on this planet so there you go....

difficult to kick a habit, even a bad one...good your friend came to her senses....i'm sure we all did stupid stuff like that...love tends to have that effect on us.....

JD, a question: are you into your friend or are you just happy coz you know she made the right decision? don't mind me being a bit straightforward.. :)

[just_dance]

hahaha! i prefer straightforward! no, i'm definitely not into my friend! she is my friend for life and it'll never be more than that. besides, I've got my own special girl who makes me all warm and fuzzy and happy (and hopefully she wont shoot me for writing such lovey sappy stuff on here! hehe). But apart from that, I care for my friend deeply and I hated to see her hurt so badly. Love does silly things to us!!

I find Deborah very attractive, and often that type of woman is more appealing. You just cant go past a sex kitten tho... lol. maybe i'm just not as mature minded as you yet ;) but overall, hair colour doesn't matter to me. I just find brunettes sexy!

[tweety]

hahaha! i prefer straightforward! no, i'm definitely not into my friend! she is my friend for life and it'll never be more than that. besides, I've got my own special girl who makes me all warm and fuzzy and happy (and hopefully she wont shoot me for writing such lovey sappy stuff on here! hehe). But apart from that, I care for my friend deeply and I hated to see her hurt so badly. Love does silly things to us!!

I find Deborah very attractive, and often that type of woman is more appealing. You just cant go past a sex kitten tho... lol. maybe i'm just not as mature minded as you yet but overall, hair colour doesn't matter to me. I just find brunettes sexy!

ok, i'm not with you....your status says 'single' and now you're talking about a special girl....spill the beans JD coz i am a curious joe (jane) and thick...and not shy about it either :D

i know what you're saying about our partners reading this stuff....i don't hide anything from my wife but when i reverse roles and i think about her raving on about someone on here....i would be a bit upset to be honest....so as of now, no more talking about the delicious, absolutely gorgeous and oh so scrumptious deborah hutton.......naaaaaaah! :p

the blondes really cannot be cheap looking. and they must be good spellers.

oh and thanks for pointing out the mature factor :cool: , you cheeky bugger! :D

[just_dance]

huh? oh oops! lol. I actually never looked at ur age. I'm rather mature minded though so I'm probably not really all that far behind! lol I most certainly dont act my age!

lol theres not much to tell... its kinda too new to really change it i think. doesn't stop her making me feel warm and fuzzy and special tho ;)

I don't really mind if she admires, as long as I'm the one she comes home to! lol. and she shares ;)

[tweety]

huh? oh oops! lol. I actually never looked at ur age. I'm rather mature minded though so I'm probably not really all that far behind! lol I most certainly dont act my age!

lol theres not much to tell... its kinda too new to really change it i think. doesn't stop her making me feel warm and fuzzy and special tho ;)

I don't really mind if she admires, as long as I'm the one she comes home to! lol. and she shares ;)

you recovered nicely! good job! i still think you're a cheeky bugger though... :p

oh JD, that's just the best part...the beginning, great feeling! sounds like the start of something wonderful....here's hoping!! good luck girl!

that's a smart way of looking at it....she shares??? what does she need to share?? see, now that i told you that i'm curious, there's like no stopping me! ;)

[just_dance]

well it sure does seem like the start of something wonderful :) so thank you!

im always a cheeky bugger ;) ull learn that as u get to know me! just ask Bells. She knows! lol

and i meant sharing her admiration! so we can both appreciate the view ;) surely thats fair? provided the admiration doesnt go too far ayway... i might get jealous! ;)

how come ur up so late anyway?

[tweety]

wouldn't mind if you'd tell me about it...i'm a sucker for romance...i genuinely love hearing other people's nice love stories..restores my faith in mankind you know :p

i'm not talking to bells no mo-ah, she thinks my debra's a do-ag! ;)
cheeky's nice...i like cheeky...my wife's cheeky, our dogs are cheeky, i'm the only serious member of our family...not!

oh thÃ*t kind of admiration....bummer...i thought i was getting a spicy story on top of the romantic one! :D

well i was thinking exactly the same thing about you! my reason is that it's not that late....being in europe..it's 5.40PM right now
so what's your reason?

[just_dance]

lol! well I'm in WA soI'm a few horus behind everyone else... Thatsaid, It's still nearly 1am! lol. I'm currently watching Loving Annabelle. I'm a sucker for a good movie! (especially a lesbian one ;) ) lol. It's almost done though so I'll say goodnight now :)

cheeky is fun! thankfully my cheekiness appears well received!! And you shouldn't stop talking to Bells. She's a wonderful girl once you get to know her :)

as for spicy... thats a topic that hasn't come up yet ;)

[tweety]

sweet dreams... :)

i love cheeky ppl! more ppl should have it in 'm! it's a very very nice trait JD!

of course i will continue to talk to bells! i like her a lot! that was me being cheeky...guess i'm not good at it... :(

i am patiently waiting for stories from perth... :D

[just_dance]

mmm I had very sweet dreams, thank you ;)

I don't think I could not be cheeky if I tried! It's just such a big part of my personality! lol. And I'm sure you're very good at it, it just doesn't always travel well over the internet. Plus Bells is quite dear to me, so of course I'm going to defend her :)

So now it's your turn to dish. How long have you been with the wife? and how did you meet?

[tweety]

mmm I had very sweet dreams, thank you

I don't think I could not be cheeky if I tried! It's just such a big part of my personality! lol. And I'm sure you're very good at it, it just doesn't always travel well over the internet. Plus Bells is quite dear to me, so of course I'm going to defend her :)

So now it's your turn to dish. How long have you been with the wife? and how did you meet?

ooohlalah....... did it involve a certain very nice lady?

then we would get along very nicely!!! ppl have to be able to talk about serious stuff in a serious way but cheeky behaviour and humor do make a lot of situations bearable or just easier to digest.
i think i was born cheeky. did it in school, do it at work, do it in my relationships...and it's the reason why i never get into trouble....also allows you to speak your mind but in a non-offensive way....soooo many advantages to being a cheeky bugger :)

oh you stop right there! i need to reveal all the details of my relationship/marriage and all i know about you is a vague "there's this very special lady"?? not good enough for me to give you that kind of personal information! give us more and i'll review the situation :p

i like peeps who take other peeps' defence. but no need to defend bells from my vicious nature....i like the girl! :)

[just_dance]

glad to hear you like her! she really is a sweety! I have a very protective nature anyway, hence I'll defend anyone that I like! lol

and yes, my dreams did involve a certain very nice lady ;) they usually do these days!! Although I was rather expecting a very nicely attired Eliza Dushku to appear in them after watching a scrumptious episode of dollhouse :D

[tweety]

i'm starting to get worried now....i though it was clear i'm a fan of bells! have to work at my communication skills... :o

hey you!!! no elizas for you!!!! you have a special lady friend now....someone's easily distracted.... :p

now to cure you from all this dreaming about ladies: :D
http://skeptisys.files.wordpress.com/2008/05/tough_guy_i_mean_girl.jpg
:eek:

[just_dance]

ARGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH *covers eyes* WTF was that for?????????????????????????????? seriously!!! My girl is the only one I daydream about ;) but im still allowed to admire aren't i?

and I know u like bells :) dont worry! ur safe!

[tweety]

ARGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH *covers eyes* WTF was that for?????????????????????????????? seriously!!! My girl is the only one I daydream about ;) but im still allowed to admire aren't i?

and I know u like bells dont worry! ur safe!

just thought i'd make sure :D
she is quite disgusting...shame....she obviously thinks she's eye candy..... :eek:

ok, i'll make up for that horrible picture
http://media.ebaumsworld.com/mediaFiles/picture/713575/80597847.jpg
better? ;)

[just_dance]

mmmmm much better!! me likes!!!

i like this too:
http://www.inquisitr.com/wp-content/eliza-dushku-maxim-hq-04-500x497.jpg

[just_dance]

hmmm we ought to move this to muffs poon n pussy :P

[tweety]

LOL !!!!

no, we'll post this one in the muffs' thread coz the boys are way too enthusiastic so with this pic, they'll remember again why they're gay! :D

warning: not for the faint hearted.....

http://www.funpicsfree.com/photogallery/funny-pics-061908/hot-chick-ugly-wow.gif

sorry JD, i couldn't help myself! :D

[just_dance]

do itttt lol!!!! fuck im drunk :S

[bellsforher]

Oh my! I do love it when the ladies talk about me! ;)

Why are you getting drunk without me JD?! :P ;)

[just_dance]

You're a popular lady Bells ;) and if you were here, I would have happily gotten drunk with you! Distance is a slight problem though... We must fix that!!

I warn you, I'm a lightweight though! lol

[trina2004]

How light weight? One beer and one cruiser= falling down drunk? Cause that was me for a long time sweetie, don't worry.

[just_dance]

i dont drink beer! but after 2-3 drinks, im pleasantly buzzed. a few more and im good. after that, i can really hold my liquor. it takes me a while to even start feeling remotely sick

[trina2004]

i dont drink beer! but after 2-3 drinks, im pleasantly buzzed. a few more and im good. after that, i can really hold my liquor. it takes me a while to even start feeling remotely sick

Cool. Why don't you drink beer? Too classy? :)
I used to, but since I got my appendix out alcohol has made me feel quite ill. I think I can't process it yet like I used to. I absolutely cannot mix drinks anymore either which I really liked to do.

[just_dance]

beer is gross!! lol. i just dont like the taste. i can only drink girly drinks. vodka is my alcohol of choice! and mixing drinks is great :) im not very experienced with that tho. about the best i ever made was a mix of OJ, vodka and malibu

[trina2004]

I can't say I really liked the taste of beer either when I first started drinking it- but it was cheap and less nasty than goon. I just drink light beer, and you sort of get used to the taste.

[just_dance]

lol. meh. im a fussy girl! I'll probably never aclimatise (sp?) to beer. ill stick with spirits :)

i dont like rum either...

[sputnik sweetheart]

Eye contact is a huge flirting tool.

I shamelessy flirted with my gf for months before we got together. And all my friends thought that she was straight! Ha!

[Carmen 2010]

omg, i can't hold eye contact for too long, i'm too much of a woos :P

[sputnik sweetheart]

Practice makes perfect ;)

[bellsforher]

mmm...I stare too much and then freak people out. Usually it's because my eyes have glazed over with fantasy situations and I forget I'm looking ;)

[just_dance]

Eye contact is the way to go :) Carmen, its scary, but if you dont try, you wont know!

Bells, you have a lady of ur own now so I would hope its her you're fantasising about ;)

[ItsAllInTheEyes]

Well this girl loooves the boobage http://i870.photobucket.com/albums/ab262/ItsAllInTheEyes/boobage.gif?t=1268897856 ....and the "kommisfeu"!

Blushing...guilty!! There is this girl that reduces me from my age to my shoesize whenever i'm around her...without fail! mind goes blank and face goes red. Actually, Im blushing now :o lol I like to leave a little to talk about and a bit of mystery, without showing what I'm thinking with the blush AND the eyes.

I think we need to call a meeting to order. Homework girls......see how many gazes you catch over the next week and report back....with details

Unlike other groups, this one doesn't preech abstinence and practice can only make perfect!


so, did anyone do their homework???

i've caught a number of gazes, and now need to practice somewhere where I DONT have to go back to the office ;)

And where is our biker dyke hottie that started this fine thread??? I'm looking forward to hearing about her pearlers in the flirting dept ;)

[bellsforher]

I'm not allowed to flirt anymore, but my words of wisdom are this:

Just be yourself. Yeah, it's boring, yeah it's been said a billion times, but if that hot lassy doesn't like you for who you really are, she ain't worth it honey!

And trust me, I've only ever been myself, it took longer than usual but I'm very very happy.;)

[ItsAllInTheEyes]

woohoo! I am so very happy to hear you are happy Bells!!! Unexplainably happy?? ;)

Can't agree more, nothing more spesh than someone loving you for exactly who you are!

[lindamichelle1]

i never notice if someone is flirting with me at the time they're doing it

i sometimes realise later when there is no way to do anything about it

LOL that is the same as me.

[cornflakegirl]

LOL that is the same as me.

LOL!!! I just think girls are being nice to me :rolleyes: I need help!

[lindamichelle1]

same here, whenever a girl talks to me or is really nice im oblivious. then when they leave im like...oh...damnit

[cornflakegirl]

same here, whenever a girl talks to me or is really nice im oblivious. then when they leave im like...oh...damnit

Maybe before they leave ask for their phone numer or if they want a drink or something? I have been out of the single scene way to long and don't know how things go anymore. :o hehe

[ShadowsDoor]

I'm apparently always flirting. But i'm not....cause i really don't know how. I don't know what it looks like when someones flirting with me and i wouldn't even know how to start! Mainly because most lesbians I meet are in a relationship. And I don't go after those in relationships. I find that rude. ^^"

[Tiarne]

Baby told me the other night that I flirt with everyone... And I was a little baffled coz I don't think I do. :-/

[cilipadi]

hmmm... i will have to watch for this. i didn't think that you did, but maybe that's because we have the same sense of humour ;)

i think my method of flirting is just getting overexcited and making increasingly silly comments about lovable insects and chocolate factories and why i wish i could be a seal. the problem is that this is also what i do with friends. i don't think anybody would be able to tell that i was flirting.

[Carmen]

There is a fine line between friendly and flirty, unfortunately two people can have completely different ideas as to where the line is and it can be confusing

[faeriegoddess]

yeah, friendly for me gets confused as flirty by others.

[Tiarne]

Yep, you gotta let me know. Makes me worry about the kind of impression I'm giving people all the time. Lol.
I just have a small prediction here ladies - It's gonna be the best weekend ever!
Thursday-27
Friday-26
Saturday-27
Sunday-30
Love it! Hello Summer!

[Hessy]

When I flirt with girls I'm blunt, when I flirt with guys, I'm much more subtle.

I don't think I've cracked girls yet.

[paxie]

Tiarne, you and me both haha. Have no idea how to flirt but people think I do it all the time with my inappropriate jokes and it seems to work. It amazes me how many girls are actually giving their numbers/doing things I say when I was just joking around. Unfortunately, I tend to be shy and clumsy if I like someone...youch. But I agree with eye contact, when eyes meet it is magical :)

As for being friendly, I hug, cuddle, spoon, hold hands, hot dance with my friends. I was with a girl once and asked her to hold my hand and she said,"It's not special anymore...you do it to everyone" lol. I think one of my new years resolution is to be less affectionate to randoms/friends haha.

[cilipadi]

hehe, that made me think of cracking an egg, hessy ;) solololop into a bowl

tiarne, i dearly hope you're right about the weekend :) i need a good one i think :)

[cilipadi]

As for being friendly, I hug, cuddle, spoon, hold hands, hot dance with my friends. I was with a girl once and asked her to hold my hand and she said,"It's not special anymore...you do it to everyone" lol. I think one of my new years resolution is to be less affectionate to randoms/friends haha.

to paxie giving fewer hugs, australia says no ;)

[Tiarne]

I agree, big No from Australia - We need more hugs! :D

This weekend is going to be awesome, I have no doubts about it!

[Baby]

I'm the same Pax and Tiarne, I'm sooooooooo inappropriate with both men and women I get myself into major trouble. I currently have an old (male) school buddy of my brothers chasing me because I said I'm going to sleep with my brothers friends in alphabetical order. His name starts with A. Woah boy.

[faeriegoddess]

baby: did you specify *which* alphabet?

[ej912]

is there stuff happening on thursday, friday, saturday and sunday this week???!!!! :eek: whats happening???!!!!!!!!

[ej912]

ok oops so that comment for some reason just posted itself in the wrong conversation . . . please ignore!

[ej912]

oh no wait, it was the right thread . . . because randomly in the 'flirting' thread tiarne wrote about having a great weekend so that what i was replying to! baaaaaaahhhhhh i am very much confusing myself today today hahaha. sooo the question still stands . . . is there really stuff on 4 days/night in a row? :)

ps. sorry i have nothing useful to add to the flirting part of this conversation . . . i can flirt just fine with girls i already know kinda well and have a crush on when i know they do or may possibly return the feelings . . . but meeting new girls . . . no idea!

[Tiarne]

Hi my names Tiarne, nice to meet you. ;) lol

I have plans, not sure about everyone else though. Check out the Lesbian social fun club thread.

[Tiarne]

I'm the same Pax and Tiarne, I'm sooooooooo inappropriate with both men and women I get myself into major trouble. I currently have an old (male) school buddy of my brothers chasing me because I said I'm going to sleep with my brothers friends in alphabetical order. His name starts with A. Woah boy.

I know first hand if your inappropriateness! Lol. But you were the one that said I flirt with everyone. :P

[Sazzles]

Hiya ladies, I thought I had no idea how to flirt, but have done so on occasion lately. Lots of joking and innuendo, dont know if it works but I enjoy it.

[cilipadi]

is there stuff happening on thursday, friday, saturday and sunday this week???!!!! :eek: whats happening???!!!!!!!!

well, on thursday there's this:

http://www.samesame.com.au/forum/showthread.php?t=20142

hope you can come :)

[mzk68]

oh i have to come back and read this all later when i have more time!
Im hopeless....I can only flirt with straight girls! :(