mzk68
2nd July 2010, 10:19 AM
Ok girls, I have so far found you lot very helpful so.....
Heres one for your grey matter.
I recently met someone in real life that i met online a couple of months ago
I live a fair distance at the moment and only get to that area every couple of months.(altho at the end of the this year I will be closer to that area. My problem here is I am a lot more interested in her than I thought I would be. I have only been out for about 18 months and in this time I have usually been able to tell if someone is intereted in me.
This one has me stumped! I cant tell really! We talk very easily,have a lot of laughs on the phone the few times we have talked on there.And she has actually mentioned visiting me.
Shes not quite as internet obsessed as I am so we arent in contact every day but she does email and randomly txt me.
I dont really want to ask her straight out what shes thinking because I am happy to keep it purely friendship if thats all shes looking for and dont want to scare her off. I do know she has trust issues (like a lot of us i guess)
I know i probably should be more patient and it will sort itself out but its been on my mind a bit the last couple of days so any advice would be appreciated.
women!! so confusing!:confused: lol
Heres one for your grey matter.
I recently met someone in real life that i met online a couple of months ago
I live a fair distance at the moment and only get to that area every couple of months.(altho at the end of the this year I will be closer to that area. My problem here is I am a lot more interested in her than I thought I would be. I have only been out for about 18 months and in this time I have usually been able to tell if someone is intereted in me.
This one has me stumped! I cant tell really! We talk very easily,have a lot of laughs on the phone the few times we have talked on there.And she has actually mentioned visiting me.
Shes not quite as internet obsessed as I am so we arent in contact every day but she does email and randomly txt me.
I dont really want to ask her straight out what shes thinking because I am happy to keep it purely friendship if thats all shes looking for and dont want to scare her off. I do know she has trust issues (like a lot of us i guess)
I know i probably should be more patient and it will sort itself out but its been on my mind a bit the last couple of days so any advice would be appreciated.
women!! so confusing!:confused: lol