Your ideal girl

[talisman]

Just a silly thread :p but well... fire away. What would your ideal girl be like? Or rather, what do you look for in a girl? Any type preference, etc.?

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[pho3nixphir3]

asian femme. non smoker. quirky.

[Dash80]

Michelle Rodriguez and all that she is.

Every.....single.....inch...


YUMMO!

[faeriegoddess]

what, other than Ashley? :p

okay, I'm putting out to the universe for a woman who is:
relatively mature and together
engages in intelligent conversation
100% open honesty
preferably an appreciation for decadent food and home made ice cream
enjoys mind-blowing full-body orgasms and appreciates my talent in giving them.

is that really too much to ask?

[Minda]

faerie, you're brilliant.

as for me, though, I don't really have a type.

I guess they'd have to be loyal, have a good sense of self, preferably intelligent, and older than me.

[alienshe]

Pulse.

[pho3nixphir3]

they'd have to have a pulse? oh hun, shoot for the starts!

faerie, with an advertisement like that, they'd be kicking the door down =D.

oh yes, they'd have to be intelligent. i don't mean a bookworm and a genius and informed on every topic under the sun, but just, you know, not a dumbass. unlike me.

[alienshe]

Pulse optional, then!

[faeriegoddess]

you'd think they'd be kicking the door down... but they're not. My front door is usually open anyway =P

[faeriegoddess]

Pulse optional, then!

pthththth! don't say that!
you're worth so much more. There's an amazing, beautiful woman out there who loves you and respects you for the gorgeous goddess that you are.

[pho3nixphir3]

oh funny xDD.

[ammonite]

Pulse.

i was going to say the same thing

but actually i do have one other requirement - deep down they have to be a good person

i say deep down, because whenever i am attracted to someone mean, i like to delude myself that it's just an act they put on

[tweety]

i was going to say the same thing

but actually i do have one other requirement - deep down they have to be a good person

i say deep down, because whenever i am attracted to someone mean, i like to delude myself that it's just an act they put on

oh ammi, i don't think you're the type of girl that should go for mean girls, that wouldn't be right.

being good deep down is just not good enough....why do so many ppl go for the mean type? i think we've all done it and most of us realised (hopefully in time) that wasn't the best decision we ever took....
maybe the mean edge makes them more interesting? i avoid mean ppl, i can handle them no sweat but i cannot find one good reason why i should have to deal with mean ones. i find them extremely boring...gimme a good heart any day!!!!

[alienshe]

If I'll answer this seriously someone who's genuinely nice is a good start. Being able to make eachother laugh is important too. Extra points if you like cats, anime and coffee all at the same time.

[faeriegoddess]

I'm nice and I have a good sense of humour. I'm okay with cats, I like coffee and anime, though I'm not anime-mad.
Does that count for 2.4 points?

I only ever owned one cat - I got her when I was a baby and she lived to be 21 years old (!) so 21 years of cat ownership should count for something, even if it was only one cat.

[alienshe]

Yeah that counts, haha. (:

Wow 21! My cat's 19, I hope he lives until 21 or more. Maybe not in the current state that he's in but oh well. /stops now before I go on to a cat ramble. (I guess they'd have to be okay with my rambling about silly things too...like patting geckos.)

[faeriegoddess]

petting geckos isn't silly.

[Baby]

what, other than Ashley? :p

okay, I'm putting out to the universe for a woman who is:
relatively mature and together
engages in intelligent conversation
100% open honesty
preferably an appreciation for decadent food and home made ice cream
enjoys mind-blowing full-body orgasms and appreciates my talent in giving them.

is that really too much to ask?

Yeah, who's more perfect than Ashley.

BTW you just described ME. :p

[faeriegoddess]

oh really? hmmmm...
you also have the ability to do 100 tongue-push-ups with claps in between. and you're okay with my relationship with Ashie. definite bonus points there =P

[Tatsuya]

what more could i ever want or ask for than muki <3

[Baby]

oh really? hmmmm...
you also have the ability to do 100 tongue-push-ups with claps in between. and you're okay with my relationship with Ashie. definite bonus points there =P

I think you meant my relationship with Ashie, but otherwise yes I agree.

[Minda]

asian femme. non smoker. quirky.

rules me out.

[pho3nixphir3]

oh wife, you're the exception =)

[pho3nixphir3]

but well some things are flexible. like age could be flexible. the unflexible things are: non smoker. atheist.

yeah, i think that's it. oh, and they cannot be set on having kids. because realistically, i'd be unhappy having kids, and it wouldn't work for us to try and live it out as there isn't a compromise. one of us would have to give in to the other.

[Minda]

but I'm not asian or quirky. are they flexible?
D=

[pho3nixphir3]

you're the exception =)

[Bon91]

Hmm i'd suggest to see also: http://www.samesame.com.au/forum/showthread.php?t=17326

...

"...i think the ideal girl would laugh and smile, be quirky and inquisitive, know when i was joking, then laugh! She wouldn't have to dress up and spend hours getting ready, casual chicks are so much hotter then someone who plasters their face in makeup!
She would be polite, playful and able to handle my friends and family..
She could sustain a night of full on partying and then spend hours relaxing with me.
MUST BE: non-judgmental and take me for who i am and not try to change a thing!

Anything else is just a bonus! ......"

Thinking i look attractive when ripping a billy/not thinking less of me for doing so > not a necessity but looked highly upon. :o
Also, someone with a fucking clue.. lol.

[pho3nixphir3]

yeah, i thought something like this had already been done. haha

[faeriegoddess]

Also, someone with a fucking clue.. lol.
I have a fucking clue *mischief*

[Bon91]

Lol.. Prove it..? :p

[faeriegoddess]

Lol.. Prove it..? :p

good things come to those who wait...

[ammonite]

oh ammi, i don't think you're the type of girl that should go for mean girls, that wouldn't be right.

being good deep down is just not good enough....why do so many ppl go for the mean type? i think we've all done it and most of us realised (hopefully in time) that wasn't the best decision we ever took....
maybe the mean edge makes them more interesting? i avoid mean ppl, i can handle them no sweat but i cannot find one good reason why i should have to deal with mean ones. i find them extremely boring...gimme a good heart any day!!!!

it's a rare-ish occurrence when i fall for a mean girl

i go for extremes - really really kind or mean

maybe it's a confidence thing? both nice and mean people have a kind of attractive fragile confidence sometimes

[tweety]

it's a rare-ish occurrence when i fall for a mean girl

i go for extremes - really really kind or mean

maybe it's a confidence thing? both nice and mean people have a kind of attractive fragile confidence sometimes

promise me you'll keep walking if you meet another meanie!
kind ppl are underrated and not enough appreciated; with mean ppl it's exactly the opposite sadly enough.
i find mean ppl's confidence nauseating to be honest.

[faeriegoddess]

maybe that's why I can't get a GF. I'm too kind.

[talisman]

maybe that's why I can't get a GF. I'm too kind.

To be honest I think the main part of it is that you live in the middle of a rainforest, surrounded by straight people... maybe :confused:

In a way I'm glad you're not around in Sydney, I imagine quite a few people would be fighting viciously for your affection by now if you were :p

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[faeriegoddess]

lol talis

[ammonite]

To be honest I think the main part of it is that you live in the middle of a rainforest, surrounded by straight people... maybe :confused:

ahahahahahaha

[Baby]

The biggest thing I look for in a girl: not clinically insane

The one thing I tend to be attracted to: clinically insane

[faeriegoddess]

get a second opinion.

[alienshe]

The biggest thing I look for in a girl: not clinically insane

The one thing I tend to be attracted to: clinically insane

Oh. :(

[Baby]

Yeah oh. You should have seen my last one. Tried to get me fired.

[michael booblay]

In doing this, I'm hopefully putting it out to the universe:
My ideal would be sorta androgynous like me - that is, not overtly femme or butch, just sorta daggy and ordinary. Pref not half my age - or twice my age for that matter! Who appreciates my quick wit, can give as good as she gets, tends to look for the bright side without being Pollyanna. Who is happy to eat out or just chill in front of the telly and who preferably can give a bloody good shoulder rub!

[michael booblay]

The biggest thing I look for in a girl: not clinically insane

The one thing I tend to be attracted to: clinically insane

Yep, this seems to happen to me too!! I think deep down inside me is this Jesus complex that thinks I can heal the sick and the lame. Even tho I know I can't! :confused: :(

[Gemcourage]

I mostly dont even have the energy to look.... I think I may be having a "woe is me" kind of day

[Tatsuya]

Muki says:
Tat's is my ideal girl :)

[marisol88]

she wakes me up at 3am to go for a walk in summer because she's too hot to sleep.
when we're in a group she lets me know i'm the most important person there just with a look.
she surprises me with a sex fest on a friday night.
she grounds me, she doesn't let me get too stressed.
she's on my side when i'm right and tells me to shut up when i'm wrong :P
she doesn't want to change me, she wants me to be happy.
she's got a nerdy side of the sexy variety.
she loves to be silly but we can also have lofty intellectual conversations about life the universe and everything.
she thinks recycling is hot.
she's comfortable with me and i'm comfortable with her.
she thinks boys are ickypants.

you said ideal right? not realistic? lol.

[alienshe]

I really do get a kick out of recycling for some reason.

[thatredhead]

Intelligent
Strong
Loving
Preferably vegetarian, but it's not a requirement!
Funny
Deep thinker
Appreciates good music/films/food/entertainment, yaddey-yaddah!
Socially just
etc...


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[Lucky7]

Straight apparently, according to my subconscious. (Dammit...)

But actually, I think just someone who will spend time with me and make me feel loved sometimes.

[marisol88]

subconsciously? apparently my ideal girl is the best girl, the one everyone wants cos she's amazing. the one who will never want me back cos she can pick and choose and im at the bottom of the barrel. sigh.

[faeriegoddess]

tsk. you're not at the bottom of the barrel!

[VladTheImpaler]

my ideal girl would be chilled out, have good taste in music, and like to do similar things as me.

[cilipadi]

when i see this thread i hear woody saying 'reach for the sky' with his sheriff's drawl.

[Minda]

my ideal woman would be brave ^.^

[nobledinosaur]

Similar sense of humor, thoughtful, spontaneous, confident, grounded, a little bit mysterious and not a doormat.

[pho3nixphir3]

i read through these posts and think...yeah, that's me...

true story.

[nobledinosaur]

^ Then where have you been all my life?!

[ammonite]

likes being obsessed over
sweet
kind
cute
likes children and animals
lives in a seminary/convent/abbey/monastery

[pho3nixphir3]

hah! waiting...just waiting...

[trina2004]

likes being obsessed over
sweet
kind
cute
likes children and animals
lives in a seminary/convent/abbey/monastery

I like the religious theme. Robes are sexy.

[ammonite]

the last one is fairly optional - to prevent me from going to hell

the first one is fairly necessary - to prevent restraining orders being taken out against me

[faeriegoddess]

I might use restraints and orders, but never a restraining order =P

[ammonite]

ooooooooo

i think it would have sounded better if i said:
the last one is fairly optional - to prevent me from going to hell
the first one is fairly necessary - to prevent me from going to jail
but that would have been to creepy

[Carmen]

hmm idea girl....
wants to spend time with me,
doesn't make me feel bad that I'm a total geek,
is passionate about something they do, but not obnoxious about it,
gives me butterflies whenever I see them (and I hope I do the same to them!)

can't think of anything else at the moment!
Unfortunately in reality I wouldn't have the guts to even say hello to my ideal girl...so lame

[ammonite]

is that you in your photo?

[Carmen]

umm yeah

[Sazzles]

I know what you're saying Carmen. I think I would be too scared to say anything. I haven't really thought about my ideal girl.
Likes me for who I am
is intelligent and doesn't just agreewith me has her ownpoint of view
is honest and open and has integrity
won't make fun of my inexperience
loves animals
loves life
is generally positive
likes to go for walks
understands my life is complicated and I am trying to sort it out
loves to talk and to listen

[ammonite]

umm yeah

the why the hell would you be: Unfortunately in reality I wouldn't have the guts to even say hello to my ideal girl...so lame

you are gorgeous

[Carmen]

aww shucks *blushes*
unfortunately I have no confidence and am a little socially retarded (comes with being a science geek) so I can't talk to girls.

[Lalalaface]

Science geek-five!

[ammonite]

am a little socially retarded

me too!

[faeriegoddess]

wait, you're a science geek? *drool*

[Carmen]

haha is that why we are here talking in forums instead of out with the ladies?

[Carmen]

yeah i'm a biomedical scientist, totally not drool worthy. I play with blood all day and find microbes facinating, that doesn't make for date-worthy conversations lol

[faeriegoddess]

that is why we play on forums all day instead of interacting IRL, and au contraire, it does indeed make you date-worthy

[talisman]

What faerie said. Personally speaking I'd love a microbe-related date conversation :p

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[Carmen]

odd, must just be the girls that I've talked to that don't like to hear about how pretty parasites are over dinner...

[faeriegoddess]

you sprinkle parasites over your dinner?

;P

[Carmen]

haha, no, but its nice to be able to talk about your day at work without the girl you are trying to make fall for you being put off her dinner :)

[faeriegoddess]

tell me about it!!!
My day often involves watching babies being born; you have no idea how much gross stuff that can mean. I've had amniotic fluid burst into my eyes! Hardly dinner conversation for most people.

[Carmen]

haha thats unlucky, you need sexy safety goggles like us!

[Sazzles]

I think paracites look amazing! And witnessing birth every day how amazing ! You girls should be proud of what you do. And what interesting dinner conversation that would make! I am entranced already. And I could talk about all the teenagers who come to see me complaining about their friends, boyfriends and parents. Really great conversation topics

[Carmen]

What do you do Sazzles and faerie?

[alienshe]

I could talk about....the joys of unemployment.

[faeriegoddess]

I'm a homebirth midwife =D

[randomdart]

Um...someone who I can engage with intellectually.
Interests in politics, sci fi, reading, crime, law, debate, general geek-fests and other things I like are semi-optional...one or more is needed.