The Bisexual and You

[KingNothing]

Being bisexual implies I would cheat on you.

Being bisexual implies that I will get bored of you and leave you for the other sex.

Being bisexual implies that I am promiscuous.

Being bisexual implies that I am confused.

Bisexuality does not exist within the wider community. When I'm with a guy - I am gay. When I'm with a woman I am in denial or confused but never straight.

So instead of the term bisexual I would rather the term...
NON OF YOUR FUCKING BUSINESS.
Unless you want to fuck me, you really don't need to know my sexual preferences.

If I'm in a relationship, I don't need to define my sexuality to you...especially not in front of my partner...

STOP TRYING TO DEFINE ME.
I don't need your bitching and criticism

I WILL DATE WHOEVER I FUCKING WANT - given that they would want to go on a date with me.

- end rant -

I feel much better now :)

[jimmy08]

I really don't know how someone could be 'bisexual'. It's either you're attracted to men or females. I have no interest in females. At some point I wish I was born a female to make life easier but I have always known at a very young age that I am attrated to guys. Not all types of guys.
Maybe the term 'bisexual' is referring to someone who is afraid of their sexuality so they say they are interest in both sexes.

[sesame]

I really don't know how someone could be 'bisexual'. It's either you're attracted to men or females. I have no interest in females. At some point I wish I was born a female to make life easier but I have always known at a very young age that I am attrated to guys. Not all types of guys.
Maybe the term 'bisexual' is referring to someone who is afraid of their sexuality so they say they are interest in both sexes.

be careful what u say. ur humble opinion can get u banned for a week! :eek!

[TheOldie]

If only it was black/white Jimmy.

I have had a number of bi fuck buddies. They still have the emotional attachment for a wife and especially children but sexually they like
both. Has always suited me cause I didnt have to worry about the attachment side. A couple of them started to but I never acted on it.

Some act on their bi side often , others only now and again.

[flounder]

Bi's pfft so over them, clearly just confused gays, in fact its a waste of a letter in GLBT. Shouldnt it really be Gay, Lesbian, Gays in trasition (Bi) T?

Makes much more sense, cant imagine how someone could be attracted to both, fucking queers?? :mad:

[Lazzarus]

Bi's pfft so over them, clearly just confused gays, in fact its a waste of a letter in GLBT. Shouldnt it really be Gay, Lesbian, Gays in trasition (Bi) T?

Makes much more sense, cant imagine how someone could be attracted to both, fucking queers?? :mad:

Acknowledgement that you have a problem is the first step toward recovery. I think we are making progress :rolleyes:

[flounder]

I dare say that little gem would have set me back a couple of hundred bucks on your couch?

[Lazzarus]

I dare say that little gem would have set me back a couple of hundred bucks on your couch?

You would have to pay me to get your tired arse anywhere near me -_-

[flounder]

You would have to pay me to get your tired arse anywhere near me -_-

Um thats what I just said Numpty!:rolleyes:

[wysi]

:eek: OMFG!!!!!!!!! :eek:

I just found out from facebook that my ex fuck buddy is now married to a woman and they have a baby son! :eek:

what a freaking surprise!!!

and he's a bottom!!! :eek:

[Mac31]

Hey Jimmy. I am bi. Maybe for a female it is different. No I am not confused or curious, I love being with a woman, I love making her aroused, it arouses me, I love every bit of it. I also love being with a male. Do I wish I preferred one. NO. I like who I am. I like what I experience. I think I am lucky to be able to experience both. I hate, no hate is too strong. I get frustrated people have to judge that.

[Irene]

I really don't know how someone could be 'bisexual'. It's either you're attracted to men or females. I have no interest in females. At some point I wish I was born a female to make life easier but I have always known at a very young age that I am attrated to guys. Not all types of guys.
Maybe the term 'bisexual' is referring to someone who is afraid of their sexuality so they say they are interest in both sexes.

I don't know how you can even say that when you don't even believe that heterosexuals are really straight. Or have you at last realised you were wrong? Jimmy, not everyone is like you. Can't you get that through your thick skull?

[Mac31]

You go girl. Rainbows to you.

[Marko]

Actually I am Bi as well, I'm not ashamed of it. Fuck the fake bi's, then again fuck those that claim there's "no such thing as being Bi" thats just old school in-house bigotry. So fuck them right the fuck off.

[jimmy08]

I don't know how you can even say that when you don't even believe that heterosexuals are really straight. Or have you at last realised you were wrong? Jimmy, not everyone is like you. Can't you get that through your thick skull?

It's you again, Irene. How come you always like to criticize whatever I say? I'm not good at getting my thoughts on paper , but it seems that you lOVE to take my words out of context and I'm really tired of this.

I have nothing against "bi" people. I didn't know that bisexuals actually existed. If they do, then that would explain some of my many unanswered questions in my love life.

Don't you think that when it comes to a relationship, it makes everyone confusing and complicated? In the past, I have fallen for a number of guys who I assume were gay just like me. My instinct has told me that they have a feel for me. The next thing I see is them kissing a girl or talking about chicks and that just makes me confused and that makes me assume that they are "straight".

So what is exactly a bisexual? I have plenty of female friends. Does that make me a bisexual?

[Irene]

Jimmy, are you really 33?

[jimmy08]

Jimmy, are you really 33?
And what exactly does that suppose to mean? See? I never seem to understand you.

[JustBecause]

She is trying to say you are uneducated for your alleged age.



So what is exactly a bisexual?

Heard of google?

[jimmy08]

Heard of google?

That was suppose to be a rhetorical question. I know what a bisexual means. But some people assume that by having many female friends makes them a 'bi'.

[Irene]

Do you screw your female friends? Are you sexually attracted to them? Or are they more like mates?
And who are 'some people'?

[jimmy08]

Do you screw your female friends? Are you sexually attracted to them? Or are they more like mates?
And who are 'some people'?

You are 'playing' this game on me again like in the past when you created a scarastic thread that resembled to mine and I fell for it. Just leave me alone, okay? I know you have more 'friends' or should I say, 'clones' on this forum than me. And I hate this 'like' function which I think is misleading. You know what. I will just leave.

[Irene]

Oh Jimmy. :( I was trying to sort it out for you.
If you are sexually attracted to males only, you are gay.
If you are sexually attrated to both males and females, you are bi.
If you are sexually attracted to females only, you are straight.
If you're not sexually attracted to anyone, you are asexual.
All of this has nothing to do with whether your friends and mates (that you're not sexually attracted to) are male or female.
It's all pretty simple, really.

No games there. OK?

[sesame]

You are 'playing' this game on me again like in the past when you created a scarastic thread that resembled to mine and I fell for it. Just leave me alone, okay? I know you have more 'friends' or should I say, 'clones' on this forum than me. And I hate this 'like' function which I think is misleading. You know what. I will just leave.

No! Don't leave! Don't be bullied by these bisexualists!

[Lazzarus]

He'll be back, they always come back.

[jimmy08]

Okay then, could we please have a proper discussion on bisexuality without all those name calling or snapping at each other?
Can a bisexual like a female and a male at the same time? Say for instance I had this long time crush on this guy named Justin back in my Tafe years. But he got a girl friend, and initially I felt that Justin might be attracted to me because he was so friendly and nice to me and always sat next to me. Or is this guy just being 'friendly' to me. How can you tell if a bisexual loves you? Are they more easily to express their love than compare to those shy people? In my other thread when I asked if a male compliment another male that he looks 'hot', a lot of you responded that you can get bashed for that if you say that to a straight man. So will this also apply to a bisexual man?

[ensign-charlie]

Okay then, could we please have a proper discussion on bisexuality without all those name calling or snapping at each other?
Can a bisexual like a female and a male at the same time? Say for instance I had this long time crush on this guy named Justin back in my Tafe years. But he got a girl friend, and initially I felt that Justin might be attracted to me because he was so friendly and nice to me and always sat next to me. Or is this guy just being 'friendly' to me. How can you tell if a bisexual loves you? Are they more easily to express their love than compare to those shy people? In my other thread when I asked if a male compliment another male that he looks 'hot', a lot of you responded that you can get bashed for that if you say that to a straight man. So will this also apply to a bisexual man?

Can a bisexual like a male and a female at the same time?

Yes. But that does not mean they will cheat on you or leave you for a member of the opposite sex. Bisexual people can be polyamorous (able to be emotionally and sexually attracted to more than one other person at the same time. Polyamorous relationships are conducted with the consent of all parties.), bisexual people can be sexually unfaithful - with EITHER sex. Just because a person is bisexual does not mean they will leave you for a member of the opposite sex. A bisexual man may cheat on a man with another man. He may cheat on a woman with another woman. And he may cheat on a man with a woman, or a woman with a man. They may also be totally monogamous and happy to be with only one person at any time - regardless of gender. Just because a person is bisexual does not mean they automatically require sexual satisfaction from BOTH sexes, but rather that they CAN get sexual satisfaction from EITHER sex.

How can you tell if a bisexual loves you?

In exactly the same way you would know if a gay man was in love with you, or if a straight woman was in love with you. Bisexuals do not have their own secret bi language. They flirt, they get shy, they get tongue tied around people they like, and if they love you, and feel like you might feel the same, they will even say "I love you."

Are they more easily to express their love than compare to those shy people?

Bisexuals get shy too. Some are outgoing and will be straightforward and tell you if they like you straight out, just like some gay men will do. Similarly, some will be shy, quiet, and bashful. Again, bisexuals are just like you. Except instead of you only being able to feel sexually attracted to men, they can feel sexually attracted to men and women - it has no effect on their personality. They come in all shapes, sizes, personalities and temperaments.

If a male compliment another male that he looks 'hot', a lot of you responded that you can get bashed for that if you say that to a straight man. So will this also apply to a bisexual man?

Will a bisexual bash you? Not unless he has internalised homophobia - just as a gay man might be aggressively anti-gay if he's not out and scared of others reactions, some bi people are intensely scared of their 'gay' side and will act the same. The vast majority will not. Will a bisexual get bashed for calling a straight man hot? Depends on the straight man, and their attitudes towards same-sex couplings.

[Mac31]

perfectly said. Jimmy read each word carefully. It is THAT basic.

[Mac31]

Jimmy. Read Irenes words carefully. That is it. Nothing more to say. I cannot understand why you can't understand what she is telling you. Woe is you is tiring:confused:

[wysi]

well, who would not want to be in the middle position?!

http://www.squirt.org/images/sexicon/bisexual.gif

i think most homosexuals are closet bisexuals. they will fuck a someone of opposite sex given the chance!

[Irene]

LOL @ wysi
Next you'll be saying that gays don't exist!

[wysi]

LOL @ wysi
Next you'll be saying that gays don't exist!

No. There will be a number of gays who would want to be the middleman!

http://www.squirt.org/images/sexicon/lucky_pierre.gif

[HubbaHubba]

Being bisexual implies I would cheat on you.

Being bisexual implies that I will get bored of you and leave you for the other sex.


wasn't there a bisexual on here previously lamenting about how difficult it was for him being because he wanted both?

My brother is dating a bisexual chick. He loves it because his gf has 3somes with another chick and him.

I think straight people, women specifically, have more of a problem with bisexuals. I've heard a woman call her bisexual boyfriend a faggot in rhe middle on an argument.

At least gay people have a legitimate fear that a bisexual partner will often leave them for an opposite sex partner as it's more socially acceptable and comes with an easier path to have children. Surely bisexual people understand this train of thought that gay people have? Because there is nothing we can do about society being more accepting of your opposite sex r'ship. All we can do is avoid being hurt.

[flounder]

Heres another complexity, dont confuse sex with love. I have had relationships with women not men, for me guys have been nothing more than a physical attraction.

I have fuck buddies and they are mates, Ive questioned myself if Ive shut out guys without knowing or thats just how it is with me, we are all wired differently. My shrink (I doubt he's qualified) has assured me that if I left myself open to the possibility of having an emotional relationship with a guy it doesnt make me any gayer. Is that what I was afraid of, if I could love a guy, heaven forbid I must be gay.

All I ask is we respect each others choices, even if they differ to your own.

[Lazzarus]

Heres another complexity, dont confuse sex with love. I have had relationships with women not men, for me guys have been nothing more than a physical attraction.

I have fuck buddies and they are mates, Ive questioned myself if Ive shut out guys without knowing or thats just how it is with me, we are all wired differently. My shrink (I doubt he's qualified) has assured me that if I left myself open to the possibility of having an emotional relationship with a guy it doesnt make me any gayer. Is that what I was afraid of, if I could love a guy, heaven forbid I must be gay.

All I ask is we respect each others choices, even if they differ to your own.

If you are going to quote me could you at the least include a citation? -_-

I want your babies flounder... all over my face *woof*

[Irene]

wasn't there a bisexual on here previously lamenting about how difficult it was for him being because he wanted both?

My brother is dating a bisexual chick. He loves it because his gf has 3somes with another chick and him.



That's what scares me about a relationship with a bisexual woman - that I may be pressured in to a threesome with a bloke :eek: No way, thank you.

When you go to PinkSofa, all the bis mention that they want someone to share with their bf. :(

[Cyclone55]

Don't you think being bi is just as natural as being straight or gay, and cool, until the time is right for a monogamous relationship; at which point you owe it to yourself and your partner to choose?

[sesame]

That's what scares me about a relationship with a bisexual woman - that I may be pressured in to a threesome with a bloke :eek: No way, thank you.

When you go to PinkSofa, all the bis mention that they want someone to share with their bf. :(

Ewww I cant imagine a bi BF insisting on 3some. EWWW

[Irene]

I think in many cases, the girls probably aren't bi, but are being pressured by their bfs into giving it a go, because so many straight guys are turned on by the prospect of having 2 lesbians make out in front of them.

Occasionally, you get these perverts (the straight guys, that is) hanging around in the Ladies Lounge. Nothing worse.

[flounder]

I think in many cases, the girls probably aren't bi, but are being pressured by their bfs into giving it a go, because so many straight guys are turned on by the prospect of having 2 lesbians make out in front of them.

Occasionally, you get these perverts (the straight guys, that is) hanging around in the Ladies Lounge. Nothing worse.

Couldnt agree more, I think some guys do pressure their girlfriends to fullfill every straight guys fantasy of him with two chicks. Wonder if the shoe was on the other foot and the GF was pressuring him to suck dick if hed be so keen for a threesome?

[TheOldie]

Couldnt agree more, I think some guys do pressure their girlfriends to fullfill every straight guys fantasy of him with two chicks. Wonder if the shoe was on the other foot and the GF was pressuring him to suck dick if hed be so keen for a threesome?


you wouldn't need to be pressure :D

[flounder]

you wouldn't need to be pressure :D

No Oldie its fair to say Id be on it like a seagull on a hot chip. ;)

[HubbaHubba]

I think in many cases, the girls probably aren't bi, but are being pressured by their bfs into giving it a go, because so many straight guys are turned on by the prospect of having 2 lesbians make out in front of them.

Occasionally, you get these perverts (the straight guys, that is) hanging around in the Ladies Lounge. Nothing worse.

my bro isn't like this. He had quite a problem with her bisexuality for a while. And then he found out the benefits of it.

Do u mean the ladies lounge on same same? Name names if possible and there are actual offensive posts by people. I always love a bit of goss about the regulars.

[Irene]

No, no names.
There was one a couple of days ago who could hardly speak English, but was allegedly from the US. After a couple of his posts were receiced with a cold reception, he hasn't posted since.

[trela7]

Is life not a hundred times too short for us to stifle ourselves......?
Friedrich Nietzsche

[twinstar]

This is one of the most interesting threads I've read for a while.

[LittleKiwiFruit]

Cool thread, thought I'd chuck my two cents in...

I think for those who are primarily attracted to one sex alone, it can be a very difficult concept to wrap your head around. The willingness to atleast try to understand the fluidity of sexuality for some people is quite nice to see - it's better than people just dismissing it at first instance for a 'phase', a 'confusion', or a 'promiscuity'. I stopped identifying myself as 'bisexual' a while ago because I didn't like the connotations attached - I don't like boxes (and I also don't believe in gender constructs very much). If I need to explain myself I usually call myself "pan" or "omni". I love the looks on peoples faces - what a hoot! I just believe in love and I am attracted to whomever I am attracted to. It doesn't really matter what they have between their legs if our minds have met happily. That's just me though, it's not going to be the same for everyone. I do get a touch annoyed by gay, lesbian and straight people who try to define my sexuality for me - or say my sexuality does not exist because it doesn't fit a box. Some of my friends still hold out hope I will join one team or the other (it's quite cute really - everyone wants you on their team for the purposes of a later world domination scheme or some such thing... but it can be frustrating). Come on guys, are we really still living in a world where we have to fight to be understood? I suppose we are a little... sigh.

I understand your frustrations King Nothing and have felt them many a time before myself! However it is easy to get angry at those that just don't understand. It's harder (but better in the long run) to forgive their ignorance. As my mother always says, the best revenge is living well. She also often says "two tears in a bucket, motherfuck it". Go well and be happy! :)

Perfect quote Trela7! love it ;)

[wysi]

I just believe in love and I am attracted to whomever I am attracted to. It doesn't really matter what they have between their legs if our minds have met happily.

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[wysi]

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[Marko]

If I had half an hour I'd watch it. lol

[wysi]

you can skip to the highlights lol

[Marko]

Lol I did that already.

[wysi]

This one is Brazilian. HOT! (NSFW)
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[Marko]

Ha I was gonna say my favorite bi porn is brazilian lol.

[Marko]

Mmm that first scene looks good. :P

[badtrany]

I need faster internet and a better computer to watch it properly:mad:

[TheOldie]

I need faster internet and a better computer to watch it properly:mad:

hahahahahahahahaaaaaaa

a friend often sends me links like Wysi's but its all stop start stop start and it stops at the wrong time !

[Dsquare]

Thank god for the NBN. Soon every Australian will be able to enjoy high quality pornography whenever needed.

Who knows, had Craig Thompson been able to obtain a decent, affordable internet connection in his hotel rooms the only embarrassment he might have faced would have been the cleaner finding the crunchy hand towel next to the bed.

[sesame]

:eek:

[Zepol23]

I'm Gay but i enjoy watching straight porn...heavens to betsy im bi!

on a side note, like whatever the hell you want to like doesn't matter in the end both are holes.

[sesame]

on a side note, like whatever the hell you want to like doesn't matter in the end both are holes.

so any hole will do? :eek:

[Wonderland]

so any hole will do? :eek:

Any hole except yours

[flounder]

Any hole except yours

HA fucking HA :D

[Zepol23]

nice hahah

[Marko]

Jesus christ it's still alive

[Wonderland]

Jesus christ it's still alive

It'll mess up again.
It can't help it.

[Marko]

I'm eagerly awaiting it! :cool:

[Xandir]

Why are bisexuals so fucking whiny?

[Marko]

Why are bisexuals so fucking whiny?

Why are you so fucking stupid?

[Xandir]

Bisexual are we, Marko?

[dayfly]

Are they more easily to express their love than compare to those shy people?

Bisexuals get shy too. Some are outgoing and will be straightforward and tell you if they like you straight out, just like some gay men will do. Similarly, some will be shy, quiet, and bashful. Again, bisexuals are just like you. Except instead of you only being able to feel sexually attracted to men, they can feel sexually attracted to men and women - it has no effect on their personality. They come in all shapes, sizes, personalities and temperaments.

I have been attracted to a colleague for a long time, though he is married with 2 kids. He got tounge tied when he did induction to me on the first day and was bashful every time we meet. Since I knew he is a father of two, I have been telling myself to be realistic. I pretend to ignore him, like this afternoon in the mezzainnine, he was alone there having lunch when I walked in, but I didn't stay there to have mine as usual and left.

About him, all my boxes are ticked. But he is not gay/bi, what can I do??????

[Mac31]

Bisexual are we, Marko?

But I am and I have a lot of bisexual friends and none of them "whiny". Last "whiny" person I knew was a heterosexual male. Wouldn't hear me generalising cos of him tho'

[Zepol23]

Are they more easily to express their love than compare to those shy people?

Bisexuals get shy too. Some are outgoing and will be straightforward and tell you if they like you straight out, just like some gay men will do. Similarly, some will be shy, quiet, and bashful. Again, bisexuals are just like you. Except instead of you only being able to feel sexually attracted to men, they can feel sexually attracted to men and women - it has no effect on their personality. They come in all shapes, sizes, personalities and temperaments.

I have been attracted to a colleague for a long time, though he is married with 2 kids. He got tounge tied when he did induction to me on the first day and was bashful every time we meet. Since I knew he is a father of two, I have been telling myself to be realistic. I pretend to ignore him, like this afternoon in the mezzainnine, he was alone there having lunch when I walked in, but I didn't stay there to have mine as usual and left.

About him, all my boxes are ticked. But he is not gay/bi, what can I do??????

do all you can do and BAKE BAKE BAKE!

[wysi]

Why are bisexuals so fucking whiny?

http://www.squirt.org/images/sexicon/bisexual.gif

[jizzteman]

Being bisexual implies I would cheat on you.

Being bisexual implies that I will get bored of you and leave you for the other sex.

Being bisexual implies that I am promiscuous.

Being bisexual implies that I am confused.

Bisexuality does not exist within the wider community. When I'm with a guy - I am gay. When I'm with a woman I am in denial or confused but never straight.

So instead of the term bisexual I would rather the term...
NON OF YOUR FUCKING BUSINESS.
Unless you want to fuck me, you really don't need to know my sexual preferences.

If I'm in a relationship, I don't need to define my sexuality to you...especially not in front of my partner...

STOP TRYING TO DEFINE ME.
I don't need your bitching and criticism

I WILL DATE WHOEVER I FUCKING WANT - given that they would want to go on a date with me.

- end rant -

I feel much better now :)
Find a gender and fuck it. This girl/boy crap is boring: I'm a vegetarian and I sometimes like seafood; occasionally I will eat a piece of dead cow but I'm still a vegetarian. So tell me exactly how vegetarian are all the meat eaters out there??????

[dayfly]

do all you can do and BAKE BAKE BAKE!

sorry, I didn't get it. What do you mean here?

[Zepol23]

sorry, I didn't get it. What do you mean here?

You can never go wrong with a finely baked cake or muffins, get to a guys heart through food! :)

[Wonderland]

Why are bisexuals so fucking whiny?

According to your logic, you are bisexual.

[MyBoyFreindIsGay]

:eek: OMFG!!!!!!!!! :eek:

I just found out from facebook that my ex fuck buddy is now married to a woman and they have a baby son! :eek:

what a freaking surprise!!!

and he's a bottom!!! :eek:

I though you were a bottom?

Guess you both just bottomed out when you met?

He is probably a bottom because his wife doesn't have a dick?

[wysi]

I though you were a bottom?

Guess you both just bottomed out when you met?

He is probably a bottom because his wife doesn't have a dick?

he's a top when he was with me. with other guys he's a bottom

[Starling]

HEY! I am a bisexual woman yes we do exist! I like girls, I like guys, both do it for me its that simple. You like guys does that mean you don't exist? How can you even say such a thing we are a real people and I wish that members of the LGBT community would accept us. I am not confused or a closet lesbian I LIKE GIRLS, I LIKE GUYS

WE EXIST!

[Mac31]

From my experience Starling most from the LGBT community do accept bisexuals. On samesame I have never felt unaccepted. But there is always those who struggle with what they believe is not the "norm". I like to think I am just sexually aware and blessed cos I get to experience what I do. Big smile

[Starling]

Thanks Mac31 :) it just seems that there are alot of posts about this issue

[Mac31]

Thanks Mac31 :) it just seems that there are alot of posts about this issue
I "play" in ladies lounge and chat and gossip.. Hot guys and cute faces..,giggle and have never had anyone make me feel lesser cos I am bi. When I first joined I was a little cautious but not now.

[MarkF]

My take of sexuality has always been its more of a continuum. At each end of the scale are people who are exclusively heterosexual and homosexual. Bisexuality is on the scale anywhere between these two ends and can have strong leaning to one or other end or be centred with no strong leanings, so favouring both. Sexuality is influenced by a range of factors including biological and sociological. In some societies bisexuality has been a normal part of society and others it’s been very repressed.

[TheOldie]

HEY! I am a bisexual woman yes we do exist! I like girls, I like guys, both do it for me its that simple. You like guys does that mean you don't exist? How can you even say such a thing we are a real people and I wish that members of the LGBT community would accept us. I am not confused or a closet lesbian I LIKE GIRLS, I LIKE GUYS

WE EXIST!


I know you do ! welcome.

my best fuck buddies are all bi guys. Dont ask me why , I dont analyze that stuff its just the way things have happened.

enjoy the site

[MyBoyFreindIsGay]

I know you do ! welcome.

my best fuck buddies are all bi guys. Dont ask me why , I dont analyze that stuff its just the way things have happened.

enjoy the site

Edit: Hi

[McBender]

The Kinsey Scale. (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kinsey_scale)

[flounder]

The Kinsey Scale. (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kinsey_scale)

Kinsey did some good shit, no sorry he just discovered the truth. :)

[Marko]

Ok...so what dipshit brought this up again?

[flounder]

Ok...so what dipshit brought this up again?

Cos they cant let us alone. :confused:

[MyBoyFreindIsGay]

what IBi is actually the only natural existence of sexuality and the only one that fits in with History of the world and the human race.
Gay is just something Bi people do who cant stand the opposite sex.

I still perv on chicks etc etc, but wouldn't swap anything for my partner and love him a lot.. (he also may leave me at any time now).

Its called a relationship and over the eons of time a straight relationship has been proven not to be built on sex alone, this of course leaves a great foundation for a lot of work before you even consider genitalia.

Of course sex is great, but is not everything....


So at the end of the day , you both work hard, both go shopping, travel, pay tax, work out issues, talk, share a bed whenever, laugh, keep each other company, look after each others well being....


The part in blue can refer to straight or same sex relationships...

So why is one any different?

I can tell you why because people like Flounder like to debase everyone to his level catching a case of tonsil warts down the local public lavo.

[Marko]

Cos they cant let us alone. :confused:

We're being oppressed Flound! Time to take to the streets...considering we're bi we'll just kick the fuck outta the gays an straights alike....then afterwards rape the straights! :D:p

(by straights I'm jokingly referring to the straight men)

[HubbaHubba]

Gay is just something Bi people do who cant stand the opposite sex.



ah the old man hating lesbian and mysogynist gay man card. Nice way to shore up support for bisexuals!

[MrAsh]

Should Bisexuals have their own forum on SameSame?

[MyBoyFreindIsGay]

ah the old man hating lesbian and mysogynist gay man card. Nice way to shore up support for bisexuals!

Dude I don't need your "support"..

Thanks for the thought anyway...

Sadly you could only draw one sentence from my post for your response, how convenient.

[MyBoyFreindIsGay]

Should Bisexuals have their own forum on SameSame?

I think you need to differentiate between those that have real feelings and those that spend their time slurping doodles at bodyline.

No offense Mr Ash as I know your a reg patron and are a "Real Gay Man".

[MrAsh]

I think you need to differentiate between those that have real feelings and those that spend their time slurping doodles at bodyline.

No offense Mr Ash as I know your a reg patron and are a "Real Gay Man".

Now 'former' regular patron! I have life goals now! :D

[Dsquare]

I really don't get this whole bisexual discussion thing. Gays and lesbians like the same sex, straights like the opposite sex, bis like both. What's so hard to understand?

[Marko]

I really don't get this whole bisexual discussion thing. Gays and lesbians like the same sex, straights like the opposite sex, bis like both. What's so hard to understand?

+ 1 Billion

[flounder]

Haha tonsil warts yep lets debase it to that level. Sorry I'm flawed and not a perfect role model, never professed to be. Have a good chew on me, easy to do

[flounder]

Agreed marko

[HubbaHubba]

Dude I don't need your "support"..



you don't need my support specifically or gay men and lesbians support generally?

Let us know so we can clarify whether we should defend bisexuality in any conversations we have with homophonbes and biophobes.

Ps. You sound a bit like that poster of on the other thread who thinks it's accept (and effective) to use homophobic slurs in response to transphobia. R u the same person/related?

[HubbaHubba]

I really don't get this whole bisexual discussion thing. Gays and lesbians like the same sex, straights like the opposite sex, bis like both. What's so hard to understand?

You'd think that it's simple, but there are egos, myths, prejudices and self preservation around on every side.

[MyBoyFreindIsGay]

you don't need my support specifically or gay men and lesbians support generally?

Let us know so we can clarify whether we should defend bisexuality in any conversations we have with homophonbes and biophobes.

Ps. You sound a bit like that poster of on the other thread who thinks it's accept (and effective) to use homophobic slurs in response to transphobia. R u the same person/related?

Not quite sure what you mean?

Is your book of ''current slurs'' up to date? or do you have the 1988 edition?

I also apologise for the gay comment, about gay people being bi not liking girls etc or something.
My boyfreind is gay and would not want him any other way.

Also I am now 41, not young but not an old man yet, my partner is 32.

[HubbaHubba]

Not quite sure what you mean?

Is your book of ''current slurs'' up to date? or do you have the 1988 edition?

I also apologise for the gay comment, about gay people being bi not liking girls etc or something.
My boyfreind is gay and would not want him any other way.

Also I am now 41, not young but not an old man yet.

Glad to hear you realise that we are all in this together.

[TheOldie]

I really don't get this whole bisexual discussion thing. Gays and lesbians like the same sex, straights like the opposite sex, bis like both. What's so hard to understand?

+ 1 trillion

[Mac31]

Should Bisexuals have their own forum on SameSame?


No but I think arseholes should. Now who do I think is an arsehole.

[MrAsh]

No but I think arseholes should. Now who do I think is an arsehole.

I can't say off top of my head, let me think about that! ;)

[Wonderland]

No but I think arseholes should. Now who do I think is an arsehole.

What is the price for getting the answer right??

[Mac31]

What is the price for getting the answer right??

:D

LMFHAO....

[Wonderland]

:D

LMFHAO....

I say the price should be a night on the town with SS' resident cougar! :D

[Mac31]

I say the price should be a night on the town with SS' resident cougar! :D

Can I bring Moosey and Flounders and whoever else. I like to spread myself around

[Wonderland]

Can I bring Moosey and Flounders and whoever else. I like to spread myself around

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[MyBoyFreindIsGay]

No but I think arseholes should. Now who do I think is an arsehole.

But then again...
Do we care?

[chad_74]

I find 'bisexual'a very loose term.
Sure you can perform a bi sexual act ie threesome with male and a female
or heterosexual act ie with the opposite sex
or homosexual act ie with the same sex
but relationship wise its bullshit.
Love for another does not have borders.
Plenty of straight people love others of the same sex it does not make them bisexual as loving your brother mother sister father or granny does not make it incest.

[MyBoyFreindIsGay]

I dislike the term Bi sexual because it makes one sound like they are hungry root rats wanting sex with two people at the same time.
Wysi is the only one that wants this and he should stop giving us a bad name.

I am a monogamous Bi and barley relate to the term Bisexual.

I find it crappy and crappier

[wysi]

I dislike the term Bi sexual because it makes one sound like they are hungry root rats wanting sex with two people at the same time.
Wysi is the only one that wants this and he should stop giving us a bad name.

I am a monogamous Bi and barley relate to the term Bisexual.

I find it crappy and crappier

You're just jealous you can't have a hot MMF threesome! :p

[MyBoyFreindIsGay]

You're just jealous you can't have a hot MMF threesome! :p

I'm a purist.

[flounder]

I dislike the term Bi sexual because it makes one sound like they are hungry root rats wanting sex with two people at the same time.
Wysi is the only one that wants this and he should stop giving us a bad name.

I am a monogamous Bi and barley relate to the term Bisexual.

I find it crappy and crappier

I can tell you why because people like Flounder like to debase everyone to his level catching a case of tonsil warts down the local public lavo.

Dont forget me, if your gonna spread your fucking joy don't forget me....cos I I wont forget you.

By the way I really don't think there is a fucking "us", I dont speak for you and you certainly don't speak for me. Happy to hear you and boyfriend are monogamous, but don't judge the rest of us by how youve decided to live your fucking life, you actually don't set the bar that we must live by.

[MyBoyFreindIsGay]

I can tell you why because people like Flounder like to debase everyone to his level catching a case of tonsil warts down the local public lavo.

Dont forget me, if your gonna spread your fucking joy don't forget me....cos I I wont forget you.

By the way I really don't think there is a fucking "us", I dont speak for you and you certainly don't speak for me. Happy to hear you and boyfriend are monogamous, but don't judge the rest of us by how youve decided to live your fucking life, you actually don't set the bar that we must live by.

My my we are a bit bitchy...

I was not judging anyone... at least Wysi is smart enough to know I am not serious.


Let me clarify my post for those that might take offense, I dislike the term Bi Sexual as much as I dislike the term Homo sexual, to me the names are very clinical.
My comment towards Wysi was just a poke because he often has humorous avatars and Bi stuff in his posts with people having sex, so really it was nothing, just a harmless comment.

Sorry I was serious about the lavo bit though.

[flounder]

My my we are a bit bitchy...

I was not judging anyone... at least Wysi is smart enough to know I am not serious.


Let me clarify my post for those that might take offense, I dislike the term Bi Sexual as much as I dislike the term Homo sexual, to me the names are very clinical.
My comment towards Wysi was just a poke because he often has humorous avatars and Bi stuff in his posts with people having sex, so really it was nothing, just a harmless comment.

Sorry I was serious about the lavo bit though.

sorry Im not smart enough, sorry Im not humorous enough for you or dont do avartars, but to be honest I dont give a flying fuck about your opinion.

Sex in a lav? Well theres a whole thread there. Sick fucks like me exist, live with it. :mad:

[badamj2000]

I was here. I did a shit and went away.

[MyBoyFreindIsGay]

I was here. I did a shit and went away.


Was Flounder watching you?

[badamj2000]

Flounder would never admit to such a thing :)

[flounder]

Flounder would never admit to such a thing :)

;)

[badamj2000]

How very darement!!!!