We all want things that we can't have...

[candle21]

... so what's something you (at the moment) really want or dream of but can't have?

Be it the car/home of your dreams, a special somebody who is taken, a high job position which pays heaps that's way ahead of you, etc.

~

[homoraz]

ABS!!!

Actually that's not true, I'm sure I already have them......about a mile beneath the layers of protective blubber.... :rolleyes:

[candle21]

ABS!!!

Actually that's not true, I'm sure I already have them......about a mile beneath the layers of protective blubber.... :rolleyes:

lol cute.

[Mama Catastrophe]

At the moment all Mama wants is a nice tablet full of L-Tryptophan to help replace some of the serotonin she so clumsily lost last night.

[homoraz]

tsk tsk tsk....you gotta be more careful with that serotonin Mama....one minute you got it, next it's all over your new random best friend you've known for 5 minutes... :)

Eat lots of bananas!

[datkindagal]

I just want someone to cut me down...

[synergism]

A place of my own near the city. Would make going out so much easier.

Plus having one night stands would be oh so convenient :p

What about yours candle? ;)

[Chancethegardener]

A place in the country. Self-sufficient. Cut off from wider society.

There, I said it.

[Asherbella]

I dream of having a boyfriend.

[candle21]

I dream of having a boyfriend.

We share a dream...

~

[synergism]

We share a dream...

~

Please don't start singing with one voice, it just doesn't sound right :P

*waits to see if candle gets reference*

[Chancethegardener]

Please don't start singing with one voice, it just doesn't sound right :P

*waits to see if candle gets reference*

Such a belly laugh from me! ahhahahaha.

[Mama Catastrophe]

tsk tsk tsk....you gotta be more careful with that serotonin Mama....one minute you got it, next it's all over your new random best friend you've known for 5 minutes... :)

Eat lots of bananas!

Only if they have banana flavored chewy at the moment ;)

[rudeboy86]

1963 GS Vespa with 5 mirrors on either side...Mod style.

[andrewesmitt]

a double bass with an ebony neck. one day my dear, one day
http://z.about.com/d/musiced/1/0/v/7/doublebass.jpg

[sTaRiA]

Lots and losts of money

[JustJames]

A valentine! But I'll settle for a root on the 14th!

[coreyfrench]

I dream of having a boyfriend.

Want to go out on a date,

I know this pizza resturant I want to try and apparently good

[coreyfrench]

I want a family, I love my nephews and nieces but would love a child of mine own

[weathervain]

1963 GS Vespa with 5 mirrors on either side...Mod style.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yaEWETmKJf4

I found myself wishing for the same last night, but then I thought it'll cost too much to ship, and can you fit a Vespa with snow chains.

I want my friends to be happy, and not torn up inside, and I mean that in a metaphorical sort of way not a medical sexual mishap kind of way.

[weathervain]

And for everyone in this thread this song seems kind of appropriate


If you want it, you can have it
But you've got to learn to reach out there and grab it

'Cause everybody wants some love
Shooting from the stars above
And though my heart will break
There's more that I could take
I could never get enough

If you need it, you should show it
'Cause you might play so monastic that you blow it

'Cause everybody wants some hope
Something they can barely know
And though my heart will break
There's more that I could take
I could never let it go

'Cause everybody wants a dream
Something they can barely see
And though my heart will break
There's more that I could take
I could never let it be

If you blew it, don't reject it
Just sit drawing up the plans and re-erect it
Just sit drawing up the plans and re-erect it
Just sit drawing up the plans and re-erect it
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YDR50xgbqdQ


There's no Matt Sharp so it's not REAL Weezer, but it's still a good song with relevant lyrics

[coreyfrench]

I want light and weather in a 3 way,


LOL

[Dash80]

1) Michelle Rodriguez

2) Queen Latifa's laugh

3) Womans tennis arms

4) Michelle Rodriguez

[Zakalwe]

Authority.

[Modest]

A not cheating partner?

[marly]

I want to have 'fuck off' money. You know the kind where you have so much that you can just tell people that annoy you like your boss etc to fuck off.

I wanna just hop on a plane, first class and go wherever the fuck I want when I want.

[ToraHymen]

I want to keep my hair! And not the store bought kind!

[Anthony Mahera]

The boy I'm in love with.

My bosses job.

Financial security, like Marly said, "F**k off money". Loves it :)

A massive property with a huge house/castle.

[brodes13]

I want to have 'fuck off' money. You know the kind where you have so much that you can just tell people that annoy you like your boss etc to fuck off.

I wanna just hop on a plane, first class and go wherever the fuck I want when I want.

I'm with you on that one Marly

I'd love to just take my entourage with me wherever we want, whenever we want.

[marly]

A not cheating partner?

They do exist believe it or not :) Im one.

[dreadcircus]

I want a reliable job atm but cant seem to get it.

[Dash80]

A free-flowing ATM would be fantastic

[marly]

I want a reliable job atm but cant seem to get it.

I thought you had one at samesame??:confused:

[brodes13]

They do exist believe it or not :) Im one.

Me too! and a proud one :)

[dreadcircus]

marly it's only part time... both me and stars are beginning to drown already.. we both don't have enough income to survive... and running out of options, today again she has spent the entire day canvasing newtown and marrikville... I went for ajob with another glbt paper but so far ive went 3 articles and they have made no contact back... meh guess I'm a little down atm

[velvety]

I want my old job back ( i was retrenched a few days ago)

I want someone to love me as much as i love them

I don"t wanna be afraid anymore.....( see previous i want)

If i post in a forum, i dont wanna be the last one to post and feel like ive shut the whole thread going by just saying my piece...

I want friends

[sydney_guy83]

i want my mojo back! i don't know where i left it! i think i've started to find little pieces of it, but it needs to be in full swing for the events between good vibes and mardi gras.

[robbie]

lol @ SydneyGuy83.. mojo's come and go.. just steal someone elses!

[meezon04]

The hottest and kindest boyfriend ever

[Phazz]

1) My own place on the Harbour

2) Enough money that I can live comfortably for life and can do what I love rather than work for money.

3) To travel the world

4) A non cheating boyfriend who I love dearly and vica versa

[brodes13]

Jade - keep working away at it! You were an inspirationn when I was down and out after christmas! I will ask at my new work if they are still looking - as they were needing a new full timer when the uni students go back :)

It seems everyone wants a nice boyfriend - I dont understand - I am ready to leave sydney because everyone here just seems to only want to fuck around?

I am kinda happy to read this :) thanks for re-instating my faith guys :) its good to know!

[Sepiroth]

Someone to love and hold.

[Light-Bearer]

A glow in the dark cat, that talks, and can drive a car.

[camiseta]

When I read the original question the angry ranga comes out in me and I think "F%ck you. Why CAN'T I have these things?"

I will have a hot attentive smart loving bf/husband. I will live in the country of my choosing. I will have that new wardrobe. I will have 2 labradors. I will have my dream job. I will grow muscles. And I will never get wrinkles! ;) There's nothing I can't have.

[sneakos]

A glow in the dark cat, that talks, and can drive a car.

u just gotta teach it to drive and talk then cos korean scientists have already done th glow in th dark cat

nov 2007 - 3 kittens cloned that glow in th dark

http://news.nationalgeographic.com/news/2007/12/071214-cats-video-ap.html

and

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/uknews/1572400/Glow-in-the-dark-cat-could-help-cut-disease.html

[Light-Bearer]

oh that's the best
:)

[Christian Taylor]

it's a secret.:p

[GenesisInVain]

"We all want things that we can't have..."
Story of my life!

[emerge]

It seems everyone wants a nice boyfriend - I dont understand - I am ready to leave sydney because everyone here just seems to only want to fuck around?


That's so true.

I'm in a relationship at the moment and even though its lasted for quite a while now, I know that it's coming to an end soon - and that a major factor in that is that he is scared of "wasting his youth" with a long term relationship.

Fucking around can be fun for a little while but inevitably it leaves you (well me at least - and i'm sure there are plenty of others that feel the same) feeling rather empty.

[brodes13]

That's so true.

I'm in a relationship at the moment and even though its lasted for quite a while now, I know that it's coming to an end soon - and that a major factor in that is that he is scared of "wasting his youth" with a long term relationship.

Fucking around can be fun for a little while but inevitably it leaves you (well me at least - and i'm sure there are plenty of others that feel the same) feeling rather empty.

I think ur better off being single if you arent in love - being with someone for the sake of the convenience is definitely wasting your youth. The thing is I have found sydney quite shallow - and they arent really open to the idea of real love - its just a quest to find the hottest piece of ass in the rom that night.

But I think that searching, trying, and experiencing is part of the youth experience - but once you find something and someone that really makes you feel like a better person - and you actually dont know what you would do without them in your life - then its definitely NOT a waste. Its a gift.

[Asherbella]

I think ur better off being single if you arent in love - being with someone for the sake of the convenience is definitely wasting your youth. The thing is I have found sydney quite shallow - and they arent really open to the idea of real love - its just a quest to find the hottest piece of ass in the rom that night.

But I think that searching, trying, and experiencing is part of the youth experience - but once you find something and someone that really makes you feel like a better person - and you actually dont know what you would do without them in your life - then its definitely NOT a waste. Its a gift.

Sydney isn't shallow if you look for the deep. The Sydney scene is shallow, but your worth as a gay man to the gay community lies in the meaningful contribution to your neighbourhood; not the level of your loyalty to the club scene.:)

[candle21]

I am loving the way this thread is heading. Especially with the last couple of posts. Such great posts. Makes me smile... :)

I found at times, the Sydney gay (or even straight) scene can be extremely shallow but I've never doubted for even a second that Real Love exists here. It's just a bit hard(er) to find/see sometimes but it's definitely around ~

Just a matter of time before I might find it... I hope. :)

[andrewesmitt]

I am loving the way this thread is heading. Especially with the last couple of posts. Such great posts. Makes me smile... :)

I found at times, the Sydney gay (or even straight) scene can be extremely shallow but I've never doubted for even a second that Real Love exists here. It's just a bit hard(er) to find/see sometimes but it's definitely around ~

Just a matter of time before I might find it... I hope. :)

you've been to a gay bar?!?!?

no offence, I just thought it might've been another one of those N/A things :D

[andrewesmitt]

When I read the original question the angry ranga comes out in me and I think "F%ck you. Why CAN'T I have these things?"

I will have a hot attentive smart loving bf/husband. I will live in the country of my choosing. I will have that new wardrobe. I will have 2 labradors. I will have my dream job. I will grow muscles. And I will never get wrinkles! ;) There's nothing I can't have.

I want equality for rangas, especially in disadvantaged, underfunded public schools, that's where the majority of discrimination comes from. We need an anti-bullying program all for us, and education in the class rooms so that kids know we aren't that different. Furthermore, I want to make the word 'ranga' taboo in the same way that only black people can call each other nigger. So from now on every time you call a ginger kid a ranga, YOU BE TRIPPIN'!

[candle21]

you've been to a gay bar?!?!?

no offence, I just thought it might've been another one of those N/A things :D

No I haven't been to one... it's just I've seen/heard a lot growing up of how many people can say they won't date someone because of this and that and in most cases, they were really shallow things.

I also have 'friends' who have rejected dates from guys whom I think are great just because of something so shallow and silly! :(

[Chancethegardener]

No I haven't been to one...(

To your advantage, my dear Candle! ;)

[candle21]

Well that's good to know! :p

...I used to think that I was missing out!

[shazzboy]

Well that's good to know! :p

...I used to think that I was missing out!

Oh yeah its great fun to be ignored for 4 hours. You are missing out on so much.

[camiseta]

I want equality for rangas, especially in disadvantaged, underfunded public schools, that's where the majority of discrimination comes from. We need an anti-bullying program all for us, and education in the class rooms so that kids know we aren't that different. Furthermore, I want to make the word 'ranga' taboo in the same way that only black people can call each other nigger. So from now on every time you call a ginger kid a ranga, YOU BE TRIPPIN'!

Come on andrewesmitt embrace your inner ranga. Use the term as a badge of honour. Afterall you and I both know that we have larger penises, are hotter, better in bed, and have better tasting semen than people with other hair colour. We got it all!!! ;)