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Default Is It More Important to Be Good for Someone or Right for Someone?
A person who doesn't feel good enough for his or her partner may experience anxiety that endangers the relationship, and in some cases the anticipation of this anxiety may be enough to make that person avoid relationships altogether. If you struggle with these feelings, one thing you may want to do is this: rather than focus on whether you're good enough for the person you're with, focus on whether you're right for that person.

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http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/...-right-someone

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I agree :-)
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i wish to transfer my fb like across to this thread.

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I totally second that.
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Couldn't agree more with this.

There's a line from some medium which I've long forgotten which to paraphrase is - there is no such thing as a perfect person but there is many a perfect pair.

We each look at the world from our own way and in our own time. The experiences, good or bad, we have treasured or endured make up much of who we are and what we are about. So it only stands to reason that there are strengths and weaknesses in us all. Areas for development (to use a modern office parlance) and areas of confidence.

The key is to make sure that our demons don't shout down the better angels in our head.
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wow that's deep

i wish i read these types of things when i was younger

might have saved me alot of heartache
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And suddenly i turn back to facebook and link a thousand people to this thread >_>
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Please note that this is the work of Mark D. White, Ph.D.
It is bad form to post this as though it were your own. At very least, quote the author at the end.
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I was wondering how long it would take


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http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/...-right-someone

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It's better just to love someone and have them love you back.

It's pretty simple really
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I think it's more important to good enough for summer.
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I think it's more important to good enough for summer.

Amen sister.

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I fucking hate summer

I love summer. It makes me moist, like Lady GaGa.
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I think it's more important to good enough for summer.

now this, is fucking hard to do. nothing i do is good enough for that bitch of a season.
lucky ive got another winter to look forward to, eating and sleeping - my speciality! mwhaha.
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