Hey guys/gals,

I'm a 21 year old guy based in Brissy, I consider myself straight being only sexually interested in girls and having only dated girls.

My dilemma is.
now wait for it, here's the stuff you might not want to hear lol.

I've been intoxicated a few times before and have found myself, 'fucking' myself in the ass with something... like a bottle, or something of that nature. When drunk, or high, I sometimes get this urge to be the biggest slut... but in such a way that I would love for someone to fuck me up the ass, but ALSO, give a guy a blow job (like, 'on the spit' as they call it, servicing 2 guys).

Now I don't like the idea of it because I believe I am straight, and if I were to tell anybody about these 'urges' i think that they would say it is bi curious, bi sexual or gay.... but, I don't want that label. Haha


My question for both sexes here is, have you ever had these urges?
So... ladies and gentlemen, your thoughts on this would be appreciated haha

-Jj

a) You should be careful with putting something like a bottle in your ass because they are not designed to go in there and could cause cuts or worse. Try something like a dildo or vibrator.

b) You are not the only person in the world to be in that situation. I've heard this scenario so many times in my life from guys who range from anywhere from straight to gay or undefined. It's perfectly normal.

c) You can either pursue the urges or not. If you choose to pursue it, then you would be better off not being drunk at the time and ideally with someone you can trust. Please be aware of safe sex practices such as the use of condoms and lube. You don't have to have anal sex if you don't want to, maybe try just mutual masturbation or oral sex.

I cannot find the table I was going to show you about sexuality, but basicly when we are all born we have certain chromzones which some are more or less then others, which people can be 97% straight and 3% gay or 43% straight and 57% gay or other which is beleived to be bisexual, this is what I beleive, now to those who do not know what to do when they are lets say 87% straight and 13% gay or other they could experiment, but with others who are strongly againgst homosexuality they either repress this or end up like bob carter (just saying it would explain alot) I beleive I am most probably 94% gay and 6% staight where I have actully thought about what it would be like with another woman.

but there is no changing our nature, I always say go with the flow and find where it takes you, if you are curious definetly try it, but only to what you are comfortable with and when you get drunk PLease chuck away the bottles...........have you not seen 1 guy 1 jar >.< nightmares. anyway I hope this helps

"Now I don't like the idea of it because I believe I am straight, and if I were to tell anybody about these 'urges' i think that they would say it is bi curious, bi sexual or gay.... but, I don't want that label. Haha"

I believe I'm a poof but I can still happily jack off to straight and lesbian porn and have the most nasty non-poof fantasies without fretting someone might want to label me a lesbian or worse a straight *yuck, poo spit* if I told anyone.

If you don't want to be labeled as bi or bi-curious or gay then don't tell anyone. What you stick up your arse is your business and rest assured that there have been very few "straight" men I have ever known intimately who didn't like stimulating their poo shooter.

Chill out, get pissed/high and go for it! I'd avoid bottles though... try finding another pissed/high "straight" guy and see how you get on... you might be pleasantly surprised just how much fun a "straight" guy can have with another "straight" guy *nudge nudge, wink wink*

^^^^^^^^not nessicarily what he sticks in his arse COULD be someone elses buisiness

See here in lies another problem.

While high as a kite at my mates place and wasted out of my brain, I couldn't help but fantasise about going into the room where he was and sucking him off.... haha, and I would feel so right about it as if he was already ok with it.

Now he's 'straight' and so am i, but if something like that were to ever happen would his ego get in the way and laugh at me then kick me out of his house - ie. never friends again?

Afraid of losing a friend but want a sexual encounter.... haha

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Originally Posted by bobbyandmimmi

^^^^^^^^not nessicarily what he sticks in his arse COULD be someone elses buisiness

Good point


Look Jj, your mate isn't the only guy on the planet with a dick so use him as inspiration if you are unsure about harming friendships and let me help you feel more comfortable with these feeelings - I provide a one-on-one service over skype and the first session is free (BYO lube) PM me for details.

Been there done that , when I was "straight" in my late teens, trouble is i did suck my mates cock when we were both pissed. Massive guilt trip when sober (for him anyway) he avoided me and never talked about it. But every time he got pissed guess who came sniffing around, I had to leave it was fucking me over.

Oh and guess what... youre slightly bent fucker, but it doenest matter a flying fuck thesedays

@ Lazzarus, thanks for your offer - but it would be no different to me already having experienced omegle lol

@ flounder, this is what I mean... I am far more comfortable with the fact that me and my 'straight' friend will remain friends, and do not want to jeopardise our awesome friendship - so for now, it must just be a fantasy - BUT HOW COOL, WOULD IT BE, if he was thinking the exact same thing? and we could have just kept it a little secret that we swore not to tell anyone.
so flounder, you are not straight anymore i take it?

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Originally Posted by jayjayheyhey

@ Lazzarus, thanks for your offer - but it would be no different to me already having experienced omegle lol

Meh! it was worth a try

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Originally Posted by jayjayheyhey

@ Lazzarus, thanks for your offer - but it would be no different to me already having experienced omegle lol

@ flounder, this is what I mean... I am far more comfortable with the fact that me and my 'straight' friend will remain friends, and do not want to jeopardise our awesome friendship - so for now, it must just be a fantasy - BUT HOW COOL, WOULD IT BE, if he was thinking the exact same thing? and we could have just kept it a little secret that we swore not to tell anyone.
so flounder, you are not straight anymore i take it?

Nah mate just thought I was then, too afraid to admit to myself I might be a bit odd haha, sound familiar?? My mate was a legend in my circle of friends for being hung like a horse we played rugby so I can tell you it was all true, so I was always lusting.

Ill never forget when I finally got the guts (pissed) to tell him I was bi, he blew me away by saying its something he'd thought about too FUCK FUCK I was in heaven. I arranged to set up a situation with just the two of us drinking alone, we flirted as we got drunker he ended up standing up and dropping his dacks - I was onto it like a seagull onto a hot chip. It was awesome, he did me too I couldnt believe my horse hung best mate was blowing me!!

Now for the reality check grasshopper, we played whenever he was drunk (I was ready anytime) he even fucked me a few times which was a massive challenge. Trouble is I was starting to feel a bit used and needy, it was all on his terms Id get the scraps if he didnt pull a chick, as I said when sober he avoided me and it was never talked about.

So on the surface it seems way cool to have this secret but its difficult and ultimately was destructive for me. Moving on 20yrs, Im in Sydney a group of us go to the rugby Ive got a motel so my mate (hes married kids, me too) and a few others crash after we kicked on. he sleeps in my room on another bed, Im just about to pass out and see him standing above my bed, with that monsterous thang dangling at me......but thats another story.