I am a 34 year old woman and I've always slept with men.
I recently separated from my partner, who is also the father of my child, and my life has gone from boring suburban mum to having this amazingly liberated 'the world is my oyster' feeling.
I have become very curious about what it would be like to be with a woman. This is the first time in my life that I have seriously considered this, and I'm thinking about it a lot. I don't seem to notice men anymore, and I have started looking at women in a sexual way. I fantasise about being with women. I'm finding it quite distracting (but also kind of nice).
This is not an 'all men are bastards' reaction to my break up. I don't have a problem with men in general, I just have absolutely no interest in sleeping with one.
It feels kind of weird to be having these feelings at the age of 34 - like something I should have gone through in my teens or early 20's. I do not have anyone I can discuss this with. I don't even know any gay people. So if I am going to explore these feelings further, I have no idea what to do next.