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Originally Posted by Cicatrix

Your name and address gets mine. Now who has the bigger balls?

Considering your geographical location (from your profile) this is superfluous.
But any time you feel like, I welcome you down to my local for a beer and some conversation

Ally Cat, Chevron Island, Gold Coast

Cheers, big ears...

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Originally Posted by Doolander

Considering your geographical location (from your profile) this is superfluous.
But any time you feel like, I welcome you down to my local for a beer and some conversation

Ally Cat, Chevron Island, Gold Coast

Cheers, big ears...

I really want to be at the coast right now

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Originally Posted by MrAsh

I'd be more than happy to say I think you're arrogant to you face in person.

You probably could say worse things. Either way, I'm largely unaffected by people I don't know or care about.

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Originally Posted by mark_

People are more likely to post when they're feeling negative. Just like 'artists' are more likely to create stuff when they're unhappy.

lol oh dear

I agree many come on here out of boredom which can be a negative place really. I am just saying perhaps now that we are talking about it that we can all be more mindful as at times the negativity is way too high. Before I had a break from same same It got very negative to the point that I realised coming on here was just a negative experience for me so I didn't see the point of coming on anymore. I remember when it was once very playful and funny on here. Since coming back I decided to be more positive and engage more positive posters. Thats not to say there wont be disagreements or any negativity but I find people who come on here just for a fight or to get attention have serious personal issues.

Perhaps the answer is to ignore people like that. no one said you have to respond or engage them. I ignore a particular poster now though he trys to engage me. I just skip his posts and refuse to acknowledge him. I am so much happier for it.

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Originally Posted by seaman

fuk off!

Nice comeback, who writes your material, Sesame or Ernesto.

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Originally Posted by flounder

Nice comeback, who writes your material, Sesame or Ernesto.

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Originally Posted by Doolander

From this point on to give as much schtick back to wankers on this site as they deserve.

Since when did everyone become so disrespectful of other people? …

I put them all on Ignore

1. Look for 'forum options +' menu up the top of this page

2. Click on 'User Control Panel'

3. Look for 'Buddy / Ignore Lists' in the column on the left-hand side

4. Start clicking!

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Originally Posted by Doolander

From this point on to give as much schtick back to wankers on this site as they deserve...

Oh please don't, I think we already have enough of that on here, and it doesn't work anyway, it just encourages them. I agree with Anthony and Mark, just ignore them, and if you can't do it in your head, use the technology on this forum.

Can I also just say, we all feel insecure sometimes, and we all have trouble facing reality in some way or another, but different people deal with it differently. I think a little bit of tolerance and understanding goes a long way towards encouraging good coping habits in ourselves and others. I'm just saying.

Off topic:
Meanwhile, I haven't seen Marky Markiwicz on here for a while. How can we get by without the pearls of Nana's wisdom? Or indeed the pleasure of Marky's company?

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Originally Posted by Fahed

Oh please don't, I think we already have enough of that on here, and it doesn't work anyway, it just encourages them. I agree with Anthony and Mark, just ignore them, and if you can't do it in your head, use the technology on this forum.

Can I also just say, we all feel insecure sometimes, and we all have trouble facing reality in some way or another, but different people deal with it differently. I think a little bit of tolerance and understanding goes a long way towards encouraging good coping habits in ourselves and others. I'm just saying.

See...this is why Fahed is so crush-worthy. He is so sensible and kind. *swoon*

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Originally Posted by azulmelb

See...this is why Fahed is so crush-worthy. He is so sensible and kind. *swoon*

don't be beguiled by his persuasive words. he will shwalloww you whole!

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Originally Posted by wysi

don't be beguiled by his persuasive words. he will shwalloww you whole!

Shush Wysi - you just jealous gurl. Fahed is someone's Prince Charming - indeedy!

Here's a video for you- to lessen your jealousiness...

Same Same Media Player

Solange - I Decided - YouTube

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Originally Posted by azulmelb

Shush Wysi - you just jealous gurl. Fahed is someone's Prince Charming - indeedy!

Here's a video for you- to lessen your jealousiness...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-8f895h6a-E&ob=av2e

you and fahed should hang. fahed is a top/bottom/vers/slurper/swallower/etc.

i shall keep my distance. marko where are you?

I do believe that given cicatrix's silence, we have established WHO has the bigger balls...

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Originally Posted by Doolander

I do believe that given cicatrix's silence, we have established WHO has the bigger balls...

POIDH

I don't mind so much when some twat pops in and amuses me by making outlandishly dickish statements. Because the thing that really can't swallow, is the people who come here and act like complete flakes. Just look at what's going on in the ladies lounge. We've got people saying nice things to each other, offering *hugs*, using the term *lol* and generally patting each other on the back all day long. It makes me physically ill.

Are you suggesting that the boys aren't as caring and loving towards each other? Personally I consider "gutless and pathetic" to be a term of endearment.

Oh, so do I! All this sickly feel-good stuff really makes one wonder what kind of up-bringing these people had.

I, myself, enjoyed the strap.

And that's why I like (oops! hate ) you Vlad. And that's why I mainly hang out in C&G and the news forums. Where have you been lately?

I had to leave because I don't much enjoy choking on my own vomit in the LL. Seriously, there's someone in there who thinks she talks to dragons. Ew, and they're all fucking each other and wearing tacky corsets. It makes one want to rip their eyes out and stamp on them.

Then C&G was really boring for a while. Underage twinks babbling about Glee and WYSI bumping hundred-year-old posts. Plus, Neal James stopped coming on. So now I have to email him. It's such a drag.

Whinge whinge whinge

Oh Vlad, we love you

(choke, bitch, choke)

I cant even email Lazz anymore. That was my escape.

It's all quite disturbing, because he's either dead - which is awful, or he's some kind of creep who spends way too much time working on pointless fake identities - which is kind of mental.

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Originally Posted by VladTheImpaler

and wearing tacky corsets.

Sorry, it was a bit too much wasn't it, I'll keep that in mind for next time.

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Originally Posted by VladTheImpaler

I had to leave because I don't much enjoy choking on my own vomit in the LL. Seriously, there's someone in there who thinks she talks to dragons. Ew, and they're all fucking each other and wearing tacky corsets. It makes one want to rip their eyes out and stamp on them.

Then C&G was really boring for a while. Underage twinks babbling about Glee and WYSI bumping hundred-year-old posts. Plus, Neal James stopped coming on. So now I have to email him. It's such a drag.

Whinge whinge whinge

Fucking amen.

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Originally Posted by VladTheImpaler

I had to leave because I don't much enjoy choking on my own vomit in the LL. Seriously, there's someone in there who thinks she talks to dragons. Ew, and they're all fucking each other and wearing tacky corsets. It makes one want to rip their eyes out and stamp on them.

Then C&G was really boring for a while. Underage twinks babbling about Glee and WYSI bumping hundred-year-old posts. Plus, Neal James stopped coming on. So now I have to email him. It's such a drag.

Whinge whinge whinge

awww... missed you too, poo-toes.

yeah, without yourself, it just seemed a bit like masturbation.

also, got sick of a samesame whose moderators would ban a thread asking "do we need a ladies' lounge?", where i DARED suggest that samesame's C&G may benefit from decreased segregation.

yet, at the same time these "moderators" allow obvious troll/stirrers/rabid dogs to run about the place alternatively spraying-on, savaging & then humping other forumites to death.

^
is that the real reason, neal?

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Originally Posted by mark_

^
is that the real reason, neal?

nah. i just got bored, mark.

it changed from being fun to being a psych ward, without the good drugs. & i noticed many other worthy contributors seemed to be similarly alienated by a new-breed who use the site as their personal blog/diary/jerry springer show.

i am grateful to what samesame gave to me: some good friends for life (if they ever learn to email or write) & more than a few nights' entertainment; some laughs & company when i had very little other support or input from my GLBTI brothers, sisters & none-of-the-aboves.

thing is, i moved to berlin & in a place where sexuality really isn't that bigger deal, it became painful to witness how petty & divisive samesame had become. okay, it was always kinda petty in a fun way. but i dunno... some posters just seemed to take things a bit too seriously. & that's coming from a kiwi...

by avoiding this nugget of negativity, segregation & lame soft porn, i found it easier to lighten up a bit & enjoy myself.

i can only suggest a few people here do likewise & perhaps show some gratitude for what the site offers, instead of becoming a perfect little microcosm for australia's queer scene: tearing itself apart from the inside out (apart from the samesame lesbians, of course, who have a lovely, supportive, incestuous environment which i will never know anything about, because they require their own private cyber-space safe from all others... i mean, is it the ultimate achievement of women's rights to be able to patronise themselves into butter?)

everybody now: "oh, we don't know how lucky we aaaare..."

does it really take the "lazarus experiment" group's borderline sociopathic behaviour to show the rest of you just how ugly the inside of someone's mouth can be?

oh & i got a bit sick of the bi bashing. (c'mon matt, does it honestly require an email everytime to point out some "controversial/stirring/tongue in cheek" forum users are actually breaking the samesame terms of use with every second post?)

i guess i'm just an inclusive queer. i like/dislike straight & IGLBT people equally. but i'm no longer granting certain self-righteous cuntoxen's opinions valuable access to my time or my mind, simply because they are let loose on here.

miss you tho, mark_, how's the garden growing? say hi to bazza for me.
tchüssee!

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Originally Posted by neal james

nah. i just got bored, mark.

it changed from being fun to being a psych ward, without the good drugs. & i noticed many other worthy contributors seemed to be similarly alienated by a new-breed who use the site as their personal blog/diary/jerry springer show.

i am grateful to what samesame gave to me: some good friends for life (if they ever learn to email or write) & more than a few nights' entertainment; some laughs & company when i had very little other support or input from my GLBTI brothers, sisters & none-of-the-aboves.

thing is, i moved to berlin & in a place where sexuality really isn't that bigger deal, it became painful to witness how petty & divisive samesame had become. okay, it was always kinda petty in a fun way. but i dunno... some posters just seemed to take things a bit too seriously. & that's coming from a kiwi...

by avoiding this nugget of negativity, segregation & lame soft porn, i found it easier to lighten up a bit & enjoy myself.

i can only suggest a few people here do likewise & perhaps show some gratitude for what the site offers, instead of becoming a perfect little microcosm for australia's queer scene: tearing itself apart from the inside out (apart from the samesame lesbians, of course, who have a lovely, supportive, incestuous environment which i will never know anything about, because they require their own private cyber-space safe from all others... i mean, is it the ultimate achievement of women's rights to be able to patronise themselves into butter?)

everybody now: "oh, we don't know how lucky we aaaare..."

does it really take the "lazarus experiment" group's borderline sociopathic behaviour to show the rest of you just how ugly the inside of someone's mouth can be?

oh & i got a bit sick of the bi bashing. (c'mon matt, does it honestly require an email everytime to point out some "controversial/stirring/tongue in cheek" forum users are actually breaking the samesame terms of use with every second post?)

i guess i'm just an inclusive queer. i like/dislike straight & IGLBT people equally. but i'm no longer granting certain self-righteous cuntoxen's opinions valuable access to my time or my mind, simply because they are let loose on here.

miss you tho, mark_, how's the garden growing? say hi to bazza for me.
tchüssee!

This has to be the best post I've read in a long time. I couldn't agree with Neal more. Time to move on. I don't want to be like Irene and head for a Lucy Jordan moment.

Auf Wiedersehen

Ash! You just said you couldn't agree more with Neal, but then you went on two sentences later and singled Irene out due to a disagreement you have both recently...
Dial it back a bit...

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Originally Posted by neal james

nah. i just got bored, mark.

it changed from being fun to being a psych ward, without the good drugs. & i noticed many other worthy contributors seemed to be similarly alienated by a new-breed who use the site as their personal blog/diary/jerry springer show.

i am grateful to what samesame gave to me: some good friends for life (if they ever learn to email or write) & more than a few nights' entertainment; some laughs & company when i had very little other support or input from my GLBTI brothers, sisters & none-of-the-aboves.

thing is, i moved to berlin & in a place where sexuality really isn't that bigger deal, it became painful to witness how petty & divisive samesame had become. okay, it was always kinda petty in a fun way. but i dunno... some posters just seemed to take things a bit too seriously. & that's coming from a kiwi...

by avoiding this nugget of negativity, segregation & lame soft porn, i found it easier to lighten up a bit & enjoy myself.

i can only suggest a few people here do likewise & perhaps show some gratitude for what the site offers, instead of becoming a perfect little microcosm for australia's queer scene: tearing itself apart from the inside out (apart from the samesame lesbians, of course, who have a lovely, supportive, incestuous environment which i will never know anything about, because they require their own private cyber-space safe from all others... i mean, is it the ultimate achievement of women's rights to be able to patronise themselves into butter?)

everybody now: "oh, we don't know how lucky we aaaare..."

does it really take the "lazarus experiment" group's borderline sociopathic behaviour to show the rest of you just how ugly the inside of someone's mouth can be?

oh & i got a bit sick of the bi bashing. (c'mon matt, does it honestly require an email everytime to point out some "controversial/stirring/tongue in cheek" forum users are actually breaking the samesame terms of use with every second post?)

i guess i'm just an inclusive queer. i like/dislike straight & IGLBT people equally. but i'm no longer granting certain self-righteous cuntoxen's opinions valuable access to my time or my mind, simply because they are let loose on here.

miss you tho, mark_, how's the garden growing? say hi to bazza for me.
tchüssee!

Is this the first chapter of your novel?