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Originally Posted by Bon91

I love casual sex. I'd love more casual sex.

Agreed. Is it just me, or does it seem so much harder to come by as a lesbian?

Or am I just looking in the wrong places?

okay camon mom

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Originally Posted by kaz11

Agreed. Is it just me, or does it seem so much harder to come by as a lesbian?

Or am I just looking in the wrong places?

Yep, definitely. Where's our sex on site premises that only for women..?? That's what i wanna know, i must not be looking in the right places either? And Perth escorts are too expensive hahahaha

On another note... my housemate has a glass rolling pin - just sayin' .... the only bad part is that every time i see it i don't want to become a pastry chef, i wanna use it as a double ended dildo.



But without the ribbed end bits and more suitably tapered. Anyway, looks like something i'd like to shove up my cunt.

I like it rough . . . but this looks a bit much?



Cool tatts though. I'd like to spank her ass with something studded, don't get me wrong. But to have the need for a drop sheet?!

Whooooaaa .... WTF? much like her im gobsmacked

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Originally Posted by Bon91

Cool tatts though. I'd like to spank her ass with something studded, don't get me wrong. But to have the need for a drop sheet?!

Drop sheet is necessary - blood is awfully hard to get out of carpet.

Looking at that picture makes me wonder, have they used pop rivets or countersunk screws to attach those straps?

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Looking at that picture makes me wonder, have they used pop rivets or countersunk screws to attach those straps?

Look like thumbtacks to me.

Rotate the picture 180 degrees and she looks like a pig on a spit. Kind of.

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Rotate the picture 180 degrees and she looks like a pig on a spit. Kind of.

Make it an apple instead of a ball gag and yep I see it too.

As a gay man I'm curious to know: do lesbians and straight men find the same things attractive in a woman? I find gay men and straight women have quite different taste in men - straight girls like cutesy "unthreatening" boys while gay dudes like cartoonish muscle studs (as a generalization ). Do lesbian chicks find the same chicks hawt as their str8 male mates?

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As a gay man I'm curious to know: do lesbians and straight men find the same things attractive in a woman? I find gay men and straight women have quite different taste in men - straight girls like cutesy "unthreatening" boys while gay dudes like cartoonish muscle studs (as a generalization ). Do lesbian chicks find the same chicks hawt as their str8 male mates?

hmmm i cant say me and my str8 male mates have ever liked the same girl....i like tough tomboyish girls...and im very girly girl...my str8 male mates all look for girls pretty much like me!

Do you think the women held up in pop culture as "hot" usually are though? There are so many so-called Hollywood hunks where I just don't get what is supposed to be so sexy.... Like - Jennifer Anniston. Hands up who thinks Jennifer Anniston is sexy?

Or J lo...I don't get it.

Eye of the beholder.

But is there a pattern? Is there a distinct type that appeals to gay girls? I mean gay men obviously have various tastes but superbutch and superbuff are pretty safe bets... Whats the equivalent? To be specific for example: are big boobs as important for lesbians as straight men? Or is that more a male thing?

I don't think lesbians are as impressed by big boobs because we often have our own. Not to say we don't love playing with boobs, just that they are not usually what grabs and keeps our attention.

@undawundawoman

straight men's attraction to masculinity in women and masculine women is intensely socially repressed in urban areas. it's more acceptable in the country.

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But is there a pattern? Is there a distinct type that appeals to gay girls? I mean gay men obviously have various tastes but superbutch and superbuff are pretty safe bets... Whats the equivalent? To be specific for example: are big boobs as important for lesbians as straight men? Or is that more a male thing?

I don't think so.

I can't generalise for all lesbians but from my own experience I am attracted to more masculine women.



I have noticed that some people are exclusively into chicks on the more masculine end of the spectrum, butches, baby butches, diesel dykes etc, and some people are exclusively into femme chicks (including 1 or 2 idiots with that whole 'if I wanted a man I'd date a man' thing that makes me want to punch them in the face) and then there's everyone else.

It's still really, really subjective.

I don't really know, look-wise is kind of blurred to me. I think half the time a good personality kind of invokes an attraction that to some extent voids per-existing aesthetic preferences. Self-confidence is really important.

On a whole, personally, I actually like strong contrast in colors (dark hair against fair skin ext). And I must profess I really am quite fond of green eyes, I have to pause movies when I see them just to examine them for awhile... /blush <.<

High cheek bones can come across as too sharp sometimes, but I dunno, they also carry some regal quality to them.

Like Catherine Zeta Jones ^^

Agree with Precedence..... personality can make you over look what is at face value...and perhaps age makes a difference too... I dont look at boobs myself probably cos i have enough of my own lol..but i go for the hands, curves...even better when you can only really appreciate those curves after the work shirts and jeans are off. I find it real turn on seeing women in work gear or uniform where they look butch but knowing theres beautiful curves underneath!

I'm a boob girl myself - I notice them all the time, I love boobs, but it's nothing to do with the size of them, bigger doesn't mean better. As a generalisation, my boys that I spend time with - tall, thin, big boobs, long straight hair, well made up short dresses, high heels are the desirable attributes. Needless to say my boys and I don't ever have 'crossover of targets'!

My observation would be that lesbian women tend to find women more attractive in their natural state - less or no make up, no short dresses & heels. Just as they are in jeans & t shirt or gym clothes.

I'd go someone like Helena Bonham Carter over someone like Jennifer Aniston any day. I don't tend to find many of the woman who a heralded as beautiful in our gossip mags that attractive.

Boys that I know like women who have: Dyed blonde hair, dresses that end at their arse, heels.

^^ none of these things attract me, honestly.

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My observation would be that lesbian women tend to find women more attractive in their natural state - less or no make up, no short dresses & heels. Just as they are in jeans & t shirt or gym clothes.

Yeah fuck yeh ! But everyone's different

Fair enough, so different strokes for different folks.
I find quite deep, but still feminine, voices attractive in women. Its...striking. I'm trying to think of an example. Sigourney Weaver maybe?

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I'm a boob girl myself - I notice them all the time, I love boobs, but it's nothing to do with the size of them, bigger doesn't mean better.

Agreed... It's funny- I wasn't at all interested in boobs until I started dating a woman who was obsessed by them. Over a six month period I went from zero sensation to being able to reach orgasm just through breast play.

I'm fascinated with how our minds can play such an enormous part in shaping our sexual experiences.

Needless to say, sometimes I feel as though I've become a dirty old perv thanks to her

mmm boobs.
*drifts off into dreamland*
I am probably a boob girl too but I don't consider myself as such because I freaking love everything about women so if I were to call myself a boob girl it would be just as true to call myself a boob-face-neck-shoulder-lower back-hips-buttock-thigh-calf girl. Try fitting that on a nametag at homo conventions!

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boob-face-neck-shoulder-lower back-hips-buttock-thigh-calf girl.

I want to see you introduce as such when we're all out one day!! Just coz I'm that mean!

Add eyes and smile to that list for me...

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Add eyes and smile to that list for me...

It was by no means a complete list! That is just my nickname.

So I was staring off into space contemplating boobs today (odd, I know), and I got to thinking about that weird farty noise that occasionally happens when two sweaty girls are getting *ahem* intimate and boobs are being pressed.

Am I the only one that finds this freaking hillarious? Or is it polite to just act like it never happened and carry on?

you are not alone in this reaction! I always have a little chuckle. I love a good queef as well. Good times, good times...