Hi ladies,
Just thought i'd share a little issue i'm having lately. My girlfriend and I have recently moved in together. We have been dating for 14 months now and I was kinda apprehensive about living together but turns out it wasn't so bad. Before we started living together I lived with my family and she was living with her friends. One of those friends was ...i dunno the right word, I guess she was close to my gf. I didn't make anything of it as she knew that my gf is in a relationship. Since my gf has been living with me I have noticed the friend getting jealous. I have really thought about it just so I know i'm seeing problems that arent really there. Everytime I bump into her she bangs on about how lonely she is since my gf moved out. She makes silly jokes about how soon it is to live together and I hate having to explain to her that my gf and I are happy doing so as it's not something we just decided to do. We seriously thought about it.

The problem doesn't end there, turns out that she's now a closet lesbian, and has a crush on my girl. I only found about it on a social networking site. It didn't bother me to begin with, I just thought maybe she was just missing having her friend around and possibly got her feelings mixed up. We invited her to our place cuz she needed to talk to someone, I didn't really know what to say to her as we dont know each other well. Since then she's decided that she can call my gf any time she likes, day or night, when shes upset and whatever, always moaning and bitching about how gutted she is that she didnt have a chance with my gf. I was quite buffled to think that she's only saying all of this now she knows our relationship is strong. I am not one to be paranoid but I can't help but feel she's trying to come between me and my gf. We just booked our first holiday together and she got upset and said that we were mean for not inviting her. If I take my girl out she wants to come, I don't mind it once in a blue moon but it's abit excessive how involved she wants to be in everything we do. Whenever she calls and my gf answers her phone I get mad cuz sometimes we're in the middle of doing something and she'll just leave it to talk to her. It infuriates me cuz I know my gf is faithful and wouldn't do anything to hurt me. I just do not trust this friend.

I have no issues with her and my gf being friends, as long as she understands that friendship is all she'll ever have with my gf.

Have any of you been in a similar situation? What would you do?

Maybe best to start this thread in the ladies' lounge. You'll get more feedback there.

My two cents worth: I would tell my partner the effect this whole situation is having on me. And I would like my partner to understand that she's not helping the friend by accomodating her the whole time.
I would ask my partner to deal with her friend in a decent yet efficient way.
Two's company, three's a crowd. Well not always but it is in this case

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Originally Posted by Wonderland

Maybe best to start this thread in the ladies' lounge. You'll get more feedback there.

My two cents worth: I would tell my partner the effect this whole situation is having on me. And I would like my partner to understand that she's not helping the friend by accomodating her the whole time.
I would ask my partner to deal with her friend in a decent yet efficient way.
Two's company, three's a crowd. Well not always but it is in this case

thanks, taken your advice and moved the thread to the ladies lounge.

When your gf isn't there just say listen bitch you better back off if you know whats fucking good for you. Then post some dog shits to her house. That should work. If she proves to be a tough one to budge send around the dykes on bikes to fix her.

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Originally Posted by linah25

thanks, taken your advice and moved the thread to the ladies lounge.

Why?

Are we men folk not worthy to give advice on matters like this?
Are we being marginalized just because we have willys and huge hairy ballsacks??

You must remember we men are experts at manipulating women folk to do our bidding.

I actually have the solution..

Simply let things be, keep trusting your GF 100% and do not show any doubt or jealousy or any shit like that to her.
This will make you look like a far more secure bet than the lonely closet lesbian...

I could go on but I think that is enough, without telling the end of the story.

Happiness abounds