Btw sorry for the intrusion Ladies. :]

Sorry for intruding sisters. Yet I would like to add the gender of the persona in the 'spam' was identified as 'female'. Also 'close your legs hoe' is clearly a sexist remark intended to be directed to a female.

I reacted because the sexism and misogyny on SameSame at times isn't appropriate and it does not encourage a safe place for all genders on SameSame.

I never once directed the joke at any of the spammers. It was directed at Matt and his job on here.

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Originally Posted by wysi

from: sweetcatee
9:31PM, 24/5/12



miracledean2011@yahoo.com

Hello..
my name is Miracle. i seek for a honest
partner for friendship i hope you
don't mind if you don't mind please reply me at i will like to here form u ok so i can tell you more about myself and we can exchange picture too i saw your proflie http://my.samesame.com.au

miracledean2011@yahoo.com

^^^

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Originally Posted by Marko

Yeah I got the same Spamwhore as Wysi. Matt smack that hoe down!!!! >:]

^^^

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Originally Posted by Marko

I never once directed the joke at any of the spammers. It was directed at Matt and his job on here.

Sorry the remarks above tell a different story.

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Originally Posted by Matt Akersten

Done. I love that destroying sluts and hoes is part of this job. x

Matt Akerstens remark above is utterly disgraceful. What's wrong with being a promiscious person of any gender? The remark is clear misogyny and 'sluts' and 'hoes' are derogative terms generally aimed towards sex workers. Sex workers are vulnerable in our society and many GLBTIQ people are in this industry. Humour involving violence against them is not acceptable in any way.

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Originally Posted by Marko

Done. I just find it a pity that you're still associating the words "slut" and "hoe" with women.

slut   [sluht]
noun
1.
an immoral or dissolute woman; prostitute.
2.
Obsolete . a dirty, slovenly woman.

hoe (and ho)
noun
1.
Slang. a prostitute; a whore. (Originally black. Streets.) : Get them hoes outa here!


Would you call your mother, sister, grandmother, aunts, female cousins, female friends, girlfriend, lover, wife or male friends a 'slut' or 'ho'???

Enough guys. Please never again start a thread on the Ladies' Lounge to continue an argument anywhere else.

I take back my original comment, I didn't mean to offend anyone and was only teasing about the spammers which annoy us. I would certainly never speak about any real women like that, and I know both those words are disrespectful. I've embarrassed myself a bit with flippancy on this one, I know that. So, sorry. And point taken. x

Yet now we've gone from sexist to misognynist.

Once again point out where I've directed the joke at the spammers? That joke was my attempt of humour towards Matt and what he does, hence why he is the only clear point of reference in the joke.

As for taking a shot at Matt the one time I get him to come out of his shell, yeah thats cool of you that is.

One word summary of Ash: Killjoy.

If you don't like my humour you've got the option fo blocking me. It's simple and it's easy.

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Originally Posted by MrAsh

slut   [sluht]
noun
1.
an immoral or dissolute woman; prostitute.
2.
Obsolete . a dirty, slovenly woman.

hoe (and ho)
noun
1.
Slang. a prostitute; a whore. (Originally black. Streets.) : Get them hoes outa here!


Would you call your male friends a 'slut' or 'ho'???

As a matter of fact one of my best friends is my cousin as well as my housemate, and yes I call him a slut because he fucks everything thats female and has a pulse. Even he recognises this fact. Now how common is it to call another man a slut in the gay community?

One more thing, the definition of a word is only as accurate as how you use it. I, as said previously, never once directed the fucking joke towards the spammers.

Have any of my other posts on this fucking thread been sexist? Fuck yeah some have, but this joke was never directed that way.

Maybe pull your fucking head out of your arse?

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Originally Posted by Matt Akersten

Enough guys. Please never again start a thread on the Ladies' Lounge to continue an argument anywhere else.

I take back my original comment, I didn't mean to offend anyone and was only teasing about the spammers which annoy us. I would certainly never speak about any real women like that, and I know both those words are disrespectful. I've embarrassed myself a bit with flippancy on this one, I know that. So, sorry. And point taken. x

I seriously hope you're happy Ash, well done. Fucking Killjoy.

I've been called a slut, and looking at the arguement, anything can be sexist if you really look into it, but I do not see it as sexist, but I am not easily offended, even when I'm called a slut lol

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Originally Posted by Marko

Yet now we've gone from sexist to misognynist.

Once again point out where I've directed the joke at the spammers? That joke was my attempt of humour towards Matt and what he does, hence why he is the only clear point of reference in the joke.

As for taking a shot at Matt the one time I get him to come out of his shell, yeah thats cool of you that is.

One word summary of Ash: Killjoy.

If you don't like my humour you've got the option fo blocking me. It's simple and it's easy.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Marko

As a matter of fact one of my best friends is my cousin as well as my housemate, and yes I call him a slut because he fucks everything thats female and has a pulse. Even he recognises this fact. Now how common is it to call another man a slut in the gay community?

One more thing, the definition of a word is only as accurate as how you use it. I, as said previously, never once directed the fucking joke towards the spammers.

Have any of my other posts on this fucking thread been sexist? Fuck yeah some have, but this joke was never directed that way.

Maybe pull your fucking head out of your arse?

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Originally Posted by Marko

I seriously hope you're happy Ash, well done. Fucking Killjoy.

It's quite clear you lack scruples, respect and any decency. I am more than happy to put you on the block list as I have a few others and don't worry your pals Sneakos and Badtranny are on this list as well. Crassness and vulgarity are signs of a weak disposition.

It's alright Marco, I'm not upset, don't get upset on my behalf! It was a silly thing to type and I do respect Ash's opinion on it. I hope he realises I'm not actually a misogenist idiot though... even when I type like one. xx

And I'm sure your lack of social appreciation won't go unwanting with me on there. You turned a moment of hilarity into something serious. You attacked my humour, you may as well have told off my mother. If you didn't know what my inevitable response was going to be then you should have thought harder before complaining.

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Originally Posted by Matt Akersten

It's alright Marco, I'm not upset, don't get upset on my behalf! It was a silly thing to type and I do respect Ash's opinion on it. I hope he realises I'm not actually a misogenist idiot though... even when I type like one. xx

Thats not the point Matt. We all take the piss out of each other all the time on here, and I never see you joining in, why the hell shouldn't you be human? Why shouldn't you have some of the fun as well?

The humour in this thread is about as dead as a fucking nuns uterus. Have fun with that one Ash. I'm going the fuck out.

And lets get back to whats important here

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Originally Posted by MrAsh

Robert you're a young bogan twink from the bush. Completely wet behind the ears and I dread to think what predicaments you'd get yourself into if you ever come to the city by yourself. No point in bothering about you either, you're on my ignore list as well now.

I tried to pm you mr. ash but couldn't, I am not taking sides on the matter I am just saying that I was called a slut and wasn't offended. I don't have any ill feelings and certainly don't mean to make anyone unhappy.
even though I am cheery and seem very optermistic, I do know that there are alot of people who do bad things in the world the world is a dangerous place, but without that optermism my world would be crap. And I beleive that if you do good things it makes the world a better place,

This is a silly arguement, nobody can change what happend but matt appologised and should just move on. Even though your comment was hurtful, I still care for you mr.ash and hope we can all get over this and move on

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Originally Posted by MrAsh

I am more than happy to put you on the block list as I have a few others and don't worry your pals Sneakos and Badtranny are on this list as well. Crassness and vulgarity are signs of a weak disposition.

roflmao

i only just discovered this thread

bahahahahahahaha im in ash's bad books and on his ignore list - well that has certainly taught me a lesson

lol'ing hard

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Originally Posted by bobbyandmimmi

I tried to pm you mr. ash but couldn't, I am not taking sides on the matter I am just saying that I was called a slut and wasn't offended. I don't have any ill feelings and certainly don't mean to make anyone unhappy.
even though I am cheery and seem very optermistic, I do know that there are alot of people who do bad things in the world the world is a dangerous place, but without that optermism my world would be crap. And I beleive that if you do good things it makes the world a better place,

This is a silly arguement, nobody can change what happend but matt appologised and should just move on. Even though your comment was hurtful, I still care for you mr.ash and hope we can all get over this and move on

Robert, I apologise for publicly slamming you down. There was no need to involve you in this argument or make the harsh remarks towards you.

You're not on my block list either. You're a sweet guy.

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Originally Posted by Marko

I call him a slut because he fucks everything thats female and has a pulse

checks pulse - yep

*puts on skirt and heads for th country (with plenty of alcohol for said housemate)*

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Originally Posted by MrAsh

Sorry for intruding sisters.

I'm not your sister, and I'm not black, so I'd prefer you refrained from calling me 'sister'. Ugghhh - hate that word excpet in terms of an actual sibling.
Mr Ash, I think you're being over sensitive - I was certainly not offended by what Marko or Matt said. Seems like a storm in a teacup. But I was offended by you calling me 'sister'.

Quote:

Originally Posted by MrAsh

Robert, I apologise for publicly slamming you down. There was no need to involve you in this argument or make the harsh remarks towards you.

You're not on my block list either. You're a sweet guy.

Apology axcepted mr.ash, Especially since darren criss is on it

Quote:

Originally Posted by Irene

I'm not your sister, and I'm not black, so I'd prefer you refrained from calling me 'sister'. Ugghhh - hate that word excpet in terms of an actual sibling.
Mr Ash, I think you're being over sensitive - I was certainly not offended by what Marko or Matt said. Seems like a storm in a teacup. But I was offended by you calling me 'sister'.

Of course you wouldn't be offended. You're the equivalent of Pauline Hanson on SameSame. You condone anything sexist or racist. So naturally you would be offended by the term 'sister' and don't particularly care.

Take a break Ash. Seriously, step away from the computer.

For someone who seems so concerned that Marko and Matt may have posted something offensive, Mr Ash sure does a bloody good job of being offensive himself.

from: ebbd02
11:07PM, 15/6/12

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Thanks. Nice graphic. The visual imagery really helps :-)

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Originally Posted by Matt Akersten

The visual imagery really helps :-)

Yeah I had the same spammer!

Oh Mathew!

Name: Lainababe

Quote:

Hey Dear,

Nice meeting you my name is Laina Zamora, i am 25 years Girl student that love traveling and meeting new people i am an open minded and easy going good looking. I am lonely and need true love if you do not mind we can take it from here my email are bellow kiss from Laina,

(zlaina@yahoo.com.ph)

It's time for you to "Trololololo" her arse! >:]

No, seriously I'm convinced that some of these spambots, are actual people, who the fuck spells "below" as "bellow"....she yelling something out at me? Dayum man! Creature got no shame! Matt ban her arse! LIKE A BAWS!