I caught up with a m8 for some weekend drinks and on first greeting she said "You're looking Dapper, have you started seeing someone?" This was a totally non-typical question - not confronting or wierd, - but just not a topic that we constantly checked in with eachother on.
As it turns out I had in fact met someone earlier in that week and was feeling fairly smitten.
A freind of mine -under similar circumstances - had a nearly identical conversation with his sister
What is this - apparently - radiating quality that makes it so easy for others to pick up on????
In both of these cases it was females noticing it in males - are perhaps feremones at work on some level?
Does anyone else have similar experiences?
Additionally do you find that your experiences tend to be clustered - drought or flood - that there are quiet periods to-be-sure, but also times when once one person is into you, it seems that EVERYONE is into you - and you're flooded with attentions???
but there is just this relaxed/calm exterior people have when newly in love. The angst/anxiety that some have when single and looking just
And yes quite often it can be a drought/flood. Again with drought people can be all uptight but with a flood they are way more relaxed
( or exhausted ).
Guy at my gym last night had the same look . Then he told me he had met this 29 yr old guy and he just couldnt keep off it hahahahahaha
was starting to complain ! that they finished at 4am and woke at 6am with the guy back on it.