I'm going to move to one of these and I'm weighing up all the pros and cons. One thing I'm not sure about is which has the better gay scene? (gay male scene, particularly..) Anybody keen to share some insight?
Thanks!

In general - gay and otherwise - the comments I've heard from others and what I've observed is that Sydney seems to be more high-strung and cliquish; Melbourne more pretentious and secretive.

I don't think you'll be barred from participation in either place, but expect Sydney to extend a welcoming wave, but might be slow to take you in. Melbourne will let you in but won't tell you whats going on or where it is and then reject you for not being 'cool enough' to figure it out for yourself.

I have nothing more knowledge about sydney or melborne. But i have heard that sydney is better than melborney/

Neither!Melbourne's all over the place and Sydney's died years ago . . . think about moving OS!

I don't think Melbourne even has a Gay Scene anymore. I know Commercial Road is like a Ghost town these days.