Hey NewToMel! Welcome to SS.
In my own experience, there are generally many events/venues to choose from in Melbourne (I'm comparing mainly to Sydney in my case). I was at a cool queer party on the weekend in Fitzroy/Collingwood called Grouse. Although mainly a lesbian night, I was there along with plenty of other gay men too so it made a great mix and a fun night. I'm from the Caulfield area so I can vouch for events up on the north side being a bit of a trek from Malvern etc. Generally worth it though.
There are weekly or monthly events happening all the time. Check out the scene listing (updated each Fri &Sat) on the Star Observer's page here:
http://www.starobserver.com.au/categ.../whats-on-play or SameSame's own gig guide listening (weekly) here:
http://www.samesame.com.au/whatson/melbourne
Hope this helps. PM me or reply here if you need some more info :-)
Last edited by gdazfan: 10th July 2012 at 11:19 PM