Do you mainly have sex for fun?
Do you mainly have sex for intimacy?
Do you have sex only when you're in love?
Do you have sex to relieve boredom?
Do you have sex purely for the physical, tactile element of needing to be touched?
Are you a sex addict?
Do you have 'opportunistic' sex?
Are you celibate?
What level of sexual libido do you have?
Do you know any asexuals?

What exactly is sex addiction? Do you know someone with a sex addiction?

For the last year sex for me has been a 1 tranny operation I've been buying vibrators and dongs and lots of lube. I only get horny once a month for a week.

I usually do it either for money or to please someone else so that they'll love me.

to spread disease.

Same Same Media Player

are we talking all kinds of sexual acts?

anyway only do penetrative sex when im in love ...penetrative..sounds so awkward

For fun mostly, but I do enjoy being touched too
Never been able to equate the physical act with an emotional connection

because you're a mon-ster?

Nah, far more likely I am a sociopath lol

To feel close to someone. I like the intimacy.
Good topic. x

Male to male sex is the only excuse I have to get out of giving blood.

It used to be an ego thing for me. I enjoyed a challenge.

Nowdays I'm far better able to see it as an expression of emotional intimacy. Doesn't mean I want that all the time though.

Mostly I can take it or leave it.

Mama just does it for fun. She did however once have a husband who was a complete germaphobe - so with him Mama would have sex whenever she wanted the bed sheets changed, or the kitchen bench wiped down, or the shower cleaned. If only she had have been able to get her ass into the oven her life would have been complete.

Quote:

Originally Posted by melsby

Nah, far more likely I am a sociopath lol

You do resemble Jeffery Dahmer, any relation...

Not that I am aware of. Though I only really know my immediate family
I think our views would vary greatly though.
I am happy enough to wait 'em out and let time do it for me lol

Quote:

Originally Posted by Bar Wench

It used to be an ego thing for me. I enjoyed a challenge.

Nowdays I'm far better able to see it as an expression of emotional intimacy. Doesn't mean I want that all the time though.

Mostly I can take it or leave it.

Sex for me has to be intimate and meaningful.
I'm at that stage in life where there has to be an emotional exchange that's special - which is why I'm currently celibate. I don't really miss having sex. I don't have that much of a sex drive anymore, really. I'd have to fall in love again before I have sex with a man.

oh dear this topic is so depressing

fucked or be fucked bitches thats how it is

But Ernesto, just think of the thrill as they run their hands along your body
The electricty as your body is held close to theirs
The ever so soft touch that makes you gasp
Soft velvet kisses along and down your neck
The connection you have with another person
It could be so much more than just sex

^ Are you a lesbian in disguise, Melsby?

I heard Sarah McLachlan playing in my head just now.

Same Same Media Player

Sarah McLachlan - Angel [Official Music Video] - YouTube

Vlad.

You are shit.

Nope, 100% gay man

That is actually me in my avatar

Quote:

Originally Posted by Bar Wench

It used to be an ego thing for me. I enjoyed a challenge.

Nowdays I'm far better able to see it as an expression of emotional intimacy. Doesn't mean I want that all the time though.

Mostly I can take it or leave it.

I'm actually at the same stage in my life.

is that coz ppl know u are washed up at the saunas ashtina? take it or leave it? LOL

My main reason for having sex is to orgasm, that is all.

One can call it a disability: being unable to keep my heart out of my pants -- a huge handicap for a gay man. I have tried to keep an open mind, and had a go at enjoying sex for itself -- and still resent it. It did not bother me much when I was young and close to asexual...now that I'm older my sex drive is more...maybe there's hope for me?

I'm clearly in the wrong town; no one dates in Melbourne -- even straight people just hook up and use blendr...my straight divorced mate has found the singles scene confusing himself.

your missing thrill and excitement and spontaneity

Quote:

Originally Posted by crazzymikey

your missing thrill and excitement and spontaneity

but at the end of the days it's all about orgasm.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Matt Akersten

To feel close to someone. I like the intimacy.
Good topic. x

awww.