Anyone else worry too much about everything?

Im so over trying to bloody plan my life !

I hate feeling like im not doing what im supposed to.

Over 30 single no kids --no cat (yet) lol!

Any comments?

There are various groups around for people who are gay and want kids but perhaps would prefer not to organise this in the... how shall I put this... biblical way. Maybe you might want to get in touch with them and talk about what you want?

Here are a couple of links:

http://www.gaydadsaustralia.com/
http://www.rainbowfamilies.org.au/

Ta Ash,
I was having a moment that day, I am recently divorced and had that pressure of having kids white picket fence..
I had a near death MVA and now im trying to find my self .
Hope your well

no cat? not les! haha. but i think i'd be more of the crazy dog lady variety.

well, i'm too young for kids now, but it's a possibility in the future, despite the fact that i hate kids. and people. well, that's what customer service does to you. and having my mum. but i personally wouldn't want to be pregnant, i don't feel the appeal. but i guess i'd want my partner/surrogate mother to be impregnated with asian sperm, if i could have that choice.

my life seems like such a mystery to me now. i have no idea whatsoever the future will hold for me, which is kinda scary.

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Originally Posted by Happy to be me

Ta Ash,
I was having a moment that day, I am recently divorced and had that pressure of having kids white picket fence..
I had a near death MVA and now im trying to find my self .
Hope your well

Thanks I am well. Those white picket fences require so much maintenance and painting! are you sure you want one? Perhaps it's nice to be somewhere where the kids can run free, unobstructed by fences!

Thanks Ash ,
Thank god xmas is over what a crap time for some!!
Im so over being ..Fake and living a lie i thought since i survived the crash my life would be better but life is what you make it i guess but how do you make it worthwhile??

Too many what ifs??

I try so hard to be what i think everyone expects me to be i have no idea who i am .....
Bleeech!!!
Talk soon xo

Get a cat. Seriously. Then you dont have the lifelong commitment of raising a child. Or if you would consider doing something a little different and giving back to the community you could look at fostering.

Stop trying to plan your life for a while. Sounds like you need a little break from that. Let things occur naturally. Things will work out how they are meant to. Karma =o) So just relax, and be good.