I am wondering why I prefer going out clubbing by myself ? I have friends and a boyfriend ect but I don't want to go out with them ... I should ..it's confusing me ..LOL !

I am the same. i have so much fun when I go out by myself.

I just moved to Brighton and don't have many friends down here. I love meeting new people and can strike up a conversaton with just about anyone. I went out by myself 2 weeks ago and ended up making great friends with a guy from Belfast who used to date my cousin which is slightly weird.

I would not worry too much, I have a husband too. It just tells me you are more friendly than the average Joe. I cannot stand it when friends of mine refuse to talk to someone because they do not know them.

So long as you are having fun which clearly you are =-D

The answer is simple.

You're friends are boring- and you don't really love your boyfriend.

It's ok- you're hot and can do better.

Trusting this has cleared matters up considerably.

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Originally Posted by mikeb

I am wondering why I prefer going out clubbing by myself ? I have friends and a boyfriend ect but I don't want to go out with them ... I should ..it's confusing me ..LOL !

Do you like to "play" when you are out ? if so then thats the reason . No friends no
boyf to see what you get upto.

but I get worried when this happens as often it ruins a relationship.

admit it or not, its because deep inside you actually want to hang out with random hot strangers and have *fun* with them while your away from your friends/bf

People can be intimidated by someone who is with a few people, even if there is flirting and such. When you are out having fun on your own, people seem more approachable.

I'm guessing you want to enjoy the freedom of not socializing with people you already know.

Yeah going out by yourself, aloows you to meet strangers and maybe have more fun

I tend not too for the above mentioned reasons. I tend to have too much fun which can lead to temptation, considering I'm in a relationship I'd rather not test it too much.

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Originally Posted by mikeb

I am wondering why I prefer going out clubbing by myself ? I have friends and a boyfriend ect but I don't want to go out with them ... I should ..it's confusing me ..LOL !

Clubs are primarily an environment to go to pick up. Perhaps you don't want your bf or friends cramping your style? :P

Sometimes I wonder if this homo thing is just a phase.

I appear to be a little naive here, everyone responds with going out to pick up when I see it as a great way to meet new friends.

hmmm

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Originally Posted by barabin

Sometimes I wonder if this homo thing is just a phase.

I appear to be a little naive here, everyone responds with going out to pick up when I see it as a great way to meet new friends.

hmmm

A great way? There are better.

If Mikeb wanted to make new friends he could do that with his bf and friends present, indeed it would make it much easier to do so.

No baggage, Anything goes