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Done that but the 'choose file' button is greyed out...

interesting.. Mine lets me do it *shrugs*
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*nods totally agreeing* yeah! Mac, the point you mentioned about reading a post and wishing it was what your other is thinking of you. Ahhh sometimes just a select few times I just wish she would read my thoughts here and see what it is I'm feeling.
But yes, it feels nice to read through and see that there's a fair few of us who want somebody we don't know we can have or have somebody but want to be wanted like they really want us, feeling not so alone or weird is nice . (ps. Not speaking for everybody, just what I've noticed).
It's also interesting reading all the posts because some are very cryptic, and I would think that some are this cryptic to go with the theme of the thread (eg. as they are I'm the mx) or that they are directed at some other ss'er. Or if you have contact with these people in real life and dont want to reveal too much. But yeah, it's also interesting because I'm always sitting and amusing myself by wondering what situation that poster is in. I wonder if anybody would be willing to spill a bit of Their guts and tell us in a few sentences minus the multiple threads, what their situation is? Haha takes my guessing out a bit

Like for example with my posts it's usually about 3 different girls. One being a gf, another a girl I'm seeing and one I've yet to meet properly.

THREE!!. Hmmm Ditto. One is a friend, a good friend who I have a great arrangement with and she has the best soul. Second is one I would like to be seeing who I know..(but because of a mutual friend, promises broken - I am a three strikes and you are out person, LOL, privacy not respected, will never eventuate which is so sad cos I think it could have been something really amazing- keep with the cryptic theme for you), .and third same as you..
Agree with you totally.


Just to add that as of tomorrow, I can give you specifics cos they both are going o/seas.
This is when you pick yourself up, dust yourself off and take a step forward. Think Kryptonite.. I believe in you..

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OMM; It's officially over, and I don't know whether to feel relieved or cry.
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OMM; It's officially over, and I don't know whether to feel relieved or cry.

There are NO RULES to say you can't be BOTH!. Big hug
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OMM: How much I hate people. And how much I hate that I don't hate them at all.
I'm feeling really stuffed up atm. I need to figure out how to get myself out of this situation :/
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OMM; It's officially over, and I don't know whether to feel relieved or cry.

im with mac... ur entitled to do both....*big hug*
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THREE!!. Hmmm Ditto. One is a friend, a good friend who I have a great arrangement with and she has the best soul. Second is one I would like to be seeing who I know..(but because of a mutual friend, promises broken - I am a three strikes and you are out person, LOL, privacy not respected, will never eventuate which is so sad cos I think it could have been something really amazing- keep with the cryptic theme for you), .and third same as you..
Agree with you totally.


Just to add that as of tomorrow, I can give you specifics cos they both are going o/seas.

Ooo specifics would be interesting

So OMM is the girl from the cafe, got to serve her today, and gave her a free coffee for next time, wonder when she'll come in to redeem it?
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OMM - 11 weeks is a long time but the experience would be forever
Haven't we learned over the past two days that if we all pull together we can become greater than the sum of our parts. That if we are of one mind and one intent, there are no boundaries to what we can achieve
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Wasabii that is a good move. The anticipation of when will she come back to the cafe. Oh enjoy it.
Ok specifics. My second is someone had only met recently but they are in a long standing relationship with a friend of mine who I have known since was 12. I love this friend but..and here if the but.. I know MOST of their secrets and putting it politely if I was her I would be devastated. If I became involved with her I would become soo protective as I do. If she was to ask me questions o couldn't lie. Her and I mentally work well together as well as physically. Poor girl I can see she would kill for intelligent thought provoking conversation. Her partner is sooo pathetically needy and mind numbingly all about them. Love good conversation like on Q and A. So I have to keep away plus I really am hating how she has been disrespected all these years. Life has to move forward

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Consequently Was' I have become disinterested on sustaining my friendship with her partner whose behavior lately has been like something out of a cheap, badly acted and very badly scripted melodramatic daytime tv show. Lol seriously i got this weird SMS about them getting 10 suicidal SMS from one of my friends "friends" and how things could lead murder..! OMG WTF. My friend use to be mature. Sooo I am stepping away but going thru the usual process of letting that friendship go. Life is finally nice and grown up again lol.. Mostly
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OMM... do I keep up this amazing sex thing i have with her while she is still with her girlfriend or do i go back to best mates with her and find someone else to keep me warm during winter
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If her and her gf are ok with it, keep her! If not, start looking... it's only going to get colder
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OMM - 11 weeks is a long time but the experience would be forever

Doing what Bon?
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Fund raising (win)... for an environmental charity... (win)... that i've already worked for (win) that would (in theory) travel from Perth up the West coast (win) past Broome then back again (win).
Great organization, chance of great pay, great people, and the West coast is one of the few places i haven't been around Aus ( WIN! )
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Fund raising (win)... for an environmental charity... (win)... that i've already worked for (win) that would (in theory) travel from Perth up the West coast (win) past Broome then back again (win).
Great organization, chance of great pay, great people, and the West coast is one of the few places i haven't been around Aus ( WIN! )

Do it!
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That sounds awesome Bon!

OMM: This.
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interesting.. Mine lets me do it *shrugs*

Svettle..just noticed your doof doof boom etc etc.. Interesting! What does it mean? (Curious George)
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Svettle..just noticed your doof doof boom etc etc.. Interesting! What does it mean? (Curious George)

Lol doesn't mean anything... You know how people put up lyrics? Well, this is trance/electro's version of lyrics. It needs some de de de de de deeee, too...
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Lol doesn't mean anything... You know how people put up lyrics? Well, this is trance/electro's version of lyrics. It needs some de de de de de deeee, too...

Haahaaa LOl. I use to call a special friend "Doof". Odd to see it. Made me smile. Thanks.
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Hi everyone.. its nice to know all of u
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Svettle..just noticed your doof doof boom etc etc.. Interesting! What does it mean? (Curious George)

Lol, i was fearing it would be more like " footy footy footy doof doof doof " hahaha

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Hi everyone.. its nice to know all of u

Hello Justlia, nice to know you too..
Haven't we learned over the past two days that if we all pull together we can become greater than the sum of our parts. That if we are of one mind and one intent, there are no boundaries to what we can achieve

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OMM ... The blues are gonna (hopefully) get THRASHED tonight
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OMM: How fucking rude do you have to be?
FFS. My brother and I prove you wrong so you decide to scream at me, slam the door in my face, and tell me to go to hell.... Just because we were right and you were wrong.

Seems legit.
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OMM ... The blues are gonna (hopefully) get THRASHED tonight


they always do, so it wont be a big surprise..
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If her and her gf are ok with it, keep her! If not, start looking... it's only going to get colder

Her gf doesnt know about us... but she is going away for 10 weeks. I feel like i'm just a replacement gf while she is away and wonder whether its worth it... but the sex is awesome so its hard to say no
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You might get hurt.. badly, if you're only the replacement. Be careful whatever you choose
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You might get hurt.. badly, if you're only the replacement. Be careful whatever you choose

Agree with Bon..as easy as it could be while the GF away if theres feelings and not just sex you could get hurt.
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OMM; A lot of things, some more easily talked about than others but seemingly none appropriate enough for current discourse with anyone.
Sometimes words are not sufficient to delineate an experience, whether it is physical or metaphysical. Love is such an experience, but just because it cannot be so absolutely defined, does not negate its presence. Instead, the very nature of encountering such a depth of feeling is tribute to love as a phenomenon that is so intricate that given all the complexities of the English language it is still inadequate.
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OMM ... The blues are gonna (hopefully) get THRASHED tonight

Hell yeah they will!
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OMM - trial new job tomorrow... and after Nandos was such a cunt to me today - and always - i'm hoping it all goes well. TBH though, i'm riddled with self doubt.
OMM - the RED CROSS, i'd like some feedback on anything related to the Red Cross that has effected you. Good stories bad stories, pure compassion or even ignorance. Tomorrow i'm on the street face to face fund raising yet again, but, this time for the Red Cross. I'm worried because i've never worked on a humanitarian campaign before
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