Why not caffeine?!?! What did caffeine ever do to you??

(( nothing, it's my loyal friend, I feel so bad for disowning it for a night (have blood test in morning)

At least it won't be me or Mousey taking your blood... Or will it?!

That would be awkward... just like peeing in a cup is awkward. I can be busting 5 minutes before but come time for the cup... nothing.

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Originally Posted by madamemoloch

OMM: To move or not to move?

No question about it. If she's making more and it won't harm your career and you want to support her... Be together ....

What's holding you back?

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Originally Posted by Baby Baby

No question about it. If she's making more and it won't harm your career and you want to support her... Be together ....

What's holding you back?

Thanks Baby Baby but it's one of the others who is contemplating moving to support a partner!

I'm just contemplating moving closer to my work because my commute is a little rough, but it means leaving a house full of the most amazing lesbians behind!

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Originally Posted by madamemoloch

Thanks Baby Baby but it's one of the others who is contemplating moving to support a partner!

I'm just contemplating moving closer to my work because my commute is a little rough, but it means leaving a house full of the most amazing lesbians behind!

Oh ops haha ok

Tough decision ... I go for the fun Hm option

Thanks baby baby .. agreed.. For me its the reassurance i needed... that if she goes to WA that we would still be OK... i guess there is no certainty in life...thats whats both so good and bad in relationships. I will just have to run with it and have faith in her,myself and in us.

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Thanks baby baby .. agreed.. For me its the reassurance i needed... that if she goes to WA that we would still be OK... i guess there is no certainty in life...thats whats both so good and bad in relationships. I will just have to run with it and have faith in her,myself and in us.

If you haven't already done so... And I missed out this step....but am trying so hard to do it now while we are apart

Establish what communication style works for the both of you

Eg when insecure I just need to be heard and have my partner tell me they love me a d give a few reasons why. The insecurity disappears instantly

Or if your partner is very busy suggest that they send you xxx via text and that would mean "I am so busy but I love you sooooo much and just want you to know"

So you set up these things before hand.

Than you need to find distractions and friends to keep you busy during those lonely nights.... And days..... And have to get used to not being able to share the simple small pleasures in life for now like "asking your partner if they like your new outfit" etc

It's a lonely life but remember she's probably missing you too.

Than have a super savings plan because you are going to need it to make holidays more special and that COSTS! Plus there will be impulsive flights to see each other for those moments you just need that physical touch!

What's on my mind?

1. When will I live the life I truly want...It's slowly unfolding yet some things are just out of my sphere of influence! Grrrrr

2. Imagining winning a big lottery and how I'd build with the winnings

OMM: How could I feel so down yesterday but so high today? It scares me when this happens ... :/

OMM: Im pretty sure mum knows im gay now. hahaha!
Obvious lesbian is obvious .__.

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OMM: Im pretty sure mum knows im gay now. hahaha!
Obvious lesbian is obvious .__.

Haha, what did you do/say?
She gonna be good about it?


OMM: crap, did I really just say that? Saying it makes it real ...

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Originally Posted by megawatts

Haha, what did you do/say?
She gonna be good about it?

I dont shut up about same-sex marriage and all that stuff. hahaha. I told mum about this petition thingy for same-sex marriage, and she said, "You signed it, didnt you?" hahaha.... no.... >.>

Well, she's okay with what I say I suppose. I guess it depends what and how I say it. o.O

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Saying it makes it real ...

*hugs*

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Originally Posted by ImAwesome

I dont shut up about same-sex marriage and all that stuff. hahaha. I told mum about this petition thingy for same-sex marriage, and she said, "You signed it, didnt you?" hahaha.... no.... >.>

Well, she's okay with what I say I suppose. I guess it depends what and how I say it. o.O



*hugs*

Aw, thanks for the hug, it means a lot.

Haha, I don't really shut up about that stuff either, when it's brought up.
It's good that your mum will probably be good with it.

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At least it won't be me or Mousey taking your blood... Or will it?!

The only blood tests I did today were on a man so unless you are hiding something svettles it wasn't me either.

OMM: moving house logistics

Need a team...
good telemarketer
good sales rep

OMM
*Bucks weekend is almost upon us! I think I've got everything organised. I've tweaked the travel arrangements so I've got the heavy metal car for the road trip (win!!). I want my bestie to disengage himself from his fiancée for two whole nights and just let loose for a bit.

*Fuck I hope someone kicks my arse before I become co-dependant like bestie & fiancée.

*Need to be better by the weekend.

*You & your impending ordeal and wishing I could help.

*Film numbers... need more film numbers *twitch twitch*

*Sleep... Beautiful sleep...

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*Bucks weekend is almost upon us! I think I've got everything organised. I've tweaked the travel arrangements so I've got the heavy metal car for the road trip (win!!). I want my bestie to disengage himself from his fiancée for two whole nights and just let loose for a bit.

*Fuck I hope someone kicks my arse before I become co-dependant like bestie & fiancée.

*Need to be better by the weekend.

*You & your impending ordeal and wishing I could help.

*Film numbers... need more film numbers *twitch twitch*

*Sleep... Beautiful sleep...

You ain't gonna get any sleep with that much on your mind, mm!! ;p

OMM

Saw lovely lady lecturer today ^.^. But she was getting into her car, and no... I was not hiding in the bushes watching her like a creepy stalker... I was innocently walking to class.... But I was a few too many seconds late to wave hello *sigh*

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You ain't gonna get any sleep with that much on your mind, mm!! ;p

Didn't do too bad actually, weird...

OK...How can I link samesame to my Facebook, without "coming out" or can it not be done. I have only had it for a few weeks and am still figuring it all out. I know...I am OLD>>!! LOL

I love people, I really do. They're so infinitely complex and beautiful. But I'm finding that their actions reflect obligation more than genuine desire. This has been made plain to me by recent attempts to reach out to them.

So... What's on my mind? The way people think, I guess. Oh, and that exam tomorrow.

OMM... hoping tonight goes as well as planned!! 1st night that we can be together without the guilt/being worried that we will get caught by her girlfriend. She has a long shift at work so I just want her to have a totally relaxing night and enjoy each others company. I am cooking though so who knows how special the night will turn out :S If the messages to each other today are anything to go by, its going to be one hell of a night

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OMM... hoping tonight goes as well as planned!! 1st night that we can be together without the guilt/being worried that we will get caught by her girlfriend. She has a long shift at work so I just want her to have a totally relaxing night and enjoy each others company. I am cooking though so who knows how special the night will turn out :S If the messages to each other today are anything to go by, its going to be one hell of a night

I was wondering how it was all going. Good to hear it is going well. Have a good night!. Lucky girl. I remember those "build ups".
HUGE smile for you.

1. Got boots for my girlfriend whom I'm meeting up with this weekend and hope it fits and that she likes it

2. Putting a proposal together and it's going to be impressive!

3. 1 more sleep before I get to be with my girl!!!!!

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Originally Posted by Baby Baby

1. Got boots for my girlfriend whom I'm meeting up with this weekend and hope it fits and that she likes it

2. Putting a proposal together and it's going to be impressive!

3. 1 more sleep before I get to be with my girl!!!!!

wooohooo exciting stuff!!! love that build up.

How to be irresistible! Lol

OMM: I feel like Im going to be a virgin forever, and Im only 16. Wtf? o.O

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OMM: I feel like Im going to be a virgin forever, and Im only 16. Wtf? o.O

naww! Trust me, you won't be! You're far too cool to end up like steve carrel.



OMM, I'm wondering if the girl I'm talking to atm is telling me these things because she just wants to talk to me…or if she knows what's happened and wants to help me…in which case…That means I'm being talked about