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by Shannon B, 21st February, 2012

Whether it's just for sex or you're looking for something more, the cruising or dating scene can be confusing and intimidating to say the least...

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28th February 2012, 12:56 PM Old #31

Sometimes. It's complicated being me.
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28th February 2012, 02:55 PM Old #32

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"How to meet vacant men and have sex with them" is a much better title.
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MrAsh I dislike you but you have made good points. I never said I was a protector. I proudly call my self fem. I ran a drag event and rock in a pair of heels. I just used these other terms so he would not term around saying thats just another fem complaining. hmm I am not going to debate this I already do every day.

Considering I've never met you, I neither like or dislike you. Your comments on this thread, especially the above, just show you are immature and you are still on a path of self discovery, it say's more about you than me.

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I've got a thing for corpses as well.
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"How to meet vacant men and have sex with them" is a much better title.

Don't diss the sluts hombre.

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OK we get it. You don't care. You don't care about anything. Yet you still post that in pretty much every thread. Seems pretty lazy to proffer an opinion yet be oh so disinterested in responses. I would ask why but frankly I don't care either.

That's good because you wouldn't understand my answer.
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Who'd fuck this bunch of whingey cunts?
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Wow been a while since i've updated this thing :S
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Considering I've never met you, I neither like or dislike you. Your comments on this thread, especially the above, just show you are immature and you are still on a path of self discovery, it say's more about you than me.

At least you weren't referred to as mean...
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At least you weren't referred to as mean...

I can think of worse adjectives.
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Wow been a while since i've updated this thing :S
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I can think of worse adjectives.

I know, but I am not a mean person, I just say it how it is!
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I know, but I am not a mean person, I just say it how it is!

You see that is where you and I differ - I'm just a cunt
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Lazzarus. now that you have typed that how do you think a girly guys might feel. They might feel un attractive and than closet their girly selves. think back to when you would hear homophobic comments from straight guys like

I dont care if a guy is gay I just dont want him anywhere near me

So a gay guy should be offended if a straight guy prefers a girl?
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So a gay guy should be offended if a straight guy prefers a girl?

Yes, happy now?
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So a gay guy should be offended if a straight guy prefers a girl?

You don't want an answer you want an argument. I don't argue anything with a fool.
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online worked for me - had to deal with a few trolls, etc. but all in all, by taking my time, I finally met a keeper - and a few along the way, that even though weren't mr right were really decent mr right nows. The big key is to take your time - time is your friend on line - almost no one can keep up a lie or deception over a long time period. And now with cameras and live chat, they only thing missing is knowing whether they snore or talk in their sleep ;-)
10 years on, I can say getting a computer and dating online was one of my better decisions.
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online worked for me - had to deal with a few trolls, etc. but all in all, by taking my time, I finally met a keeper - and a few along the way, that even though weren't mr right were really decent mr right nows. The big key is to take your time - time is your friend on line - almost no one can keep up a lie or deception over a long time period. And now with cameras and live chat, they only thing missing is knowing whether they snore or talk in their sleep ;-)
10 years on, I can say getting a computer and dating online was one of my better decisions.

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nah, I use really good online virus protection.... ;-)
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Certainly a very interesting article. Clubs/pubs, gay social clubs and saunas/S.O.P. venues were pretty much the "go" when I was younger.

Although we liked looking at muscular guys, I dont think many of my peers were into gyms, not at least to the degree some younger guys are today. I think we were more into fashion and the way you look (mind you, most of those 80s fashions are cringe worry now ) and not so "body obsessed".

Speed dating, is what I use to think some of my friends were into, they seemed to have a different boyfriend every other month.

Of course, there wasn't any "on-line dating" and "grindr" back then.

Certainly a lot more choices to meet people these days compared to when I was younger and out "dating". A lot of the same arguements persist though, about "Fem" & "Butch" guys. Guess it shows that while a lot of stuff changes over times, other things stay the same.

Yep, certainly a very ineresting article.


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It true about work.
I have meet majority of my gay friends via work. We had a little gay branch on the corner of Market & Clarence St's with 8 gay guys. It was fabulous!!
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