Being bisexual implies I would cheat on you.

Being bisexual implies that I will get bored of you and leave you for the other sex.

Being bisexual implies that I am promiscuous.

Being bisexual implies that I am confused.

Bisexuality does not exist within the wider community. When I'm with a guy - I am gay. When I'm with a woman I am in denial or confused but never straight.

So instead of the term bisexual I would rather the term...
NON OF YOUR FUCKING BUSINESS.
Unless you want to fuck me, you really don't need to know my sexual preferences.

If I'm in a relationship, I don't need to define my sexuality to you...especially not in front of my partner...

STOP TRYING TO DEFINE ME.
I don't need your bitching and criticism

I WILL DATE WHOEVER I FUCKING WANT - given that they would want to go on a date with me.

- end rant -

I feel much better now

I really don't know how someone could be 'bisexual'. It's either you're attracted to men or females. I have no interest in females. At some point I wish I was born a female to make life easier but I have always known at a very young age that I am attrated to guys. Not all types of guys.
Maybe the term 'bisexual' is referring to someone who is afraid of their sexuality so they say they are interest in both sexes.

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I really don't know how someone could be 'bisexual'. It's either you're attracted to men or females. I have no interest in females. At some point I wish I was born a female to make life easier but I have always known at a very young age that I am attrated to guys. Not all types of guys.
Maybe the term 'bisexual' is referring to someone who is afraid of their sexuality so they say they are interest in both sexes.

be careful what u say. ur humble opinion can get u banned for a week! :eek!

If only it was black/white Jimmy.

I have had a number of bi fuck buddies. They still have the emotional attachment for a wife and especially children but sexually they like
both. Has always suited me cause I didnt have to worry about the attachment side. A couple of them started to but I never acted on it.

Some act on their bi side often , others only now and again.

Bi's pfft so over them, clearly just confused gays, in fact its a waste of a letter in GLBT. Shouldnt it really be Gay, Lesbian, Gays in trasition (Bi) T?

Makes much more sense, cant imagine how someone could be attracted to both, fucking queers??

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Bi's pfft so over them, clearly just confused gays, in fact its a waste of a letter in GLBT. Shouldnt it really be Gay, Lesbian, Gays in trasition (Bi) T?

Makes much more sense, cant imagine how someone could be attracted to both, fucking queers??

Acknowledgement that you have a problem is the first step toward recovery. I think we are making progress

I dare say that little gem would have set me back a couple of hundred bucks on your couch?

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I dare say that little gem would have set me back a couple of hundred bucks on your couch?

You would have to pay me to get your tired arse anywhere near me -_-

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You would have to pay me to get your tired arse anywhere near me -_-

Um thats what I just said Numpty!

OMFG!!!!!!!!!

I just found out from facebook that my ex fuck buddy is now married to a woman and they have a baby son!

what a freaking surprise!!!

and he's a bottom!!!

Hey Jimmy. I am bi. Maybe for a female it is different. No I am not confused or curious, I love being with a woman, I love making her aroused, it arouses me, I love every bit of it. I also love being with a male. Do I wish I preferred one. NO. I like who I am. I like what I experience. I think I am lucky to be able to experience both. I hate, no hate is too strong. I get frustrated people have to judge that.

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I really don't know how someone could be 'bisexual'. It's either you're attracted to men or females. I have no interest in females. At some point I wish I was born a female to make life easier but I have always known at a very young age that I am attrated to guys. Not all types of guys.
Maybe the term 'bisexual' is referring to someone who is afraid of their sexuality so they say they are interest in both sexes.

I don't know how you can even say that when you don't even believe that heterosexuals are really straight. Or have you at last realised you were wrong? Jimmy, not everyone is like you. Can't you get that through your thick skull?

You go girl. Rainbows to you.

Actually I am Bi as well, I'm not ashamed of it. Fuck the fake bi's, then again fuck those that claim there's "no such thing as being Bi" thats just old school in-house bigotry. So fuck them right the fuck off.

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I don't know how you can even say that when you don't even believe that heterosexuals are really straight. Or have you at last realised you were wrong? Jimmy, not everyone is like you. Can't you get that through your thick skull?

It's you again, Irene. How come you always like to criticize whatever I say? I'm not good at getting my thoughts on paper , but it seems that you lOVE to take my words out of context and I'm really tired of this.

I have nothing against "bi" people. I didn't know that bisexuals actually existed. If they do, then that would explain some of my many unanswered questions in my love life.

Don't you think that when it comes to a relationship, it makes everyone confusing and complicated? In the past, I have fallen for a number of guys who I assume were gay just like me. My instinct has told me that they have a feel for me. The next thing I see is them kissing a girl or talking about chicks and that just makes me confused and that makes me assume that they are "straight".

So what is exactly a bisexual? I have plenty of female friends. Does that make me a bisexual?

Jimmy, are you really 33?

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Jimmy, are you really 33?

And what exactly does that suppose to mean? See? I never seem to understand you.

She is trying to say you are uneducated for your alleged age.

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So what is exactly a bisexual?

Heard of google?

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Heard of google?

That was suppose to be a rhetorical question. I know what a bisexual means. But some people assume that by having many female friends makes them a 'bi'.

Do you screw your female friends? Are you sexually attracted to them? Or are they more like mates?
And who are 'some people'?

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Do you screw your female friends? Are you sexually attracted to them? Or are they more like mates?
And who are 'some people'?

You are 'playing' this game on me again like in the past when you created a scarastic thread that resembled to mine and I fell for it. Just leave me alone, okay? I know you have more 'friends' or should I say, 'clones' on this forum than me. And I hate this 'like' function which I think is misleading. You know what. I will just leave.

Oh Jimmy. I was trying to sort it out for you.
If you are sexually attracted to males only, you are gay.
If you are sexually attrated to both males and females, you are bi.
If you are sexually attracted to females only, you are straight.
If you're not sexually attracted to anyone, you are asexual.
All of this has nothing to do with whether your friends and mates (that you're not sexually attracted to) are male or female.
It's all pretty simple, really.

No games there. OK?

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You are 'playing' this game on me again like in the past when you created a scarastic thread that resembled to mine and I fell for it. Just leave me alone, okay? I know you have more 'friends' or should I say, 'clones' on this forum than me. And I hate this 'like' function which I think is misleading. You know what. I will just leave.

No! Don't leave! Don't be bullied by these bisexualists!

He'll be back, they always come back.

Okay then, could we please have a proper discussion on bisexuality without all those name calling or snapping at each other?
Can a bisexual like a female and a male at the same time? Say for instance I had this long time crush on this guy named Justin back in my Tafe years. But he got a girl friend, and initially I felt that Justin might be attracted to me because he was so friendly and nice to me and always sat next to me. Or is this guy just being 'friendly' to me. How can you tell if a bisexual loves you? Are they more easily to express their love than compare to those shy people? In my other thread when I asked if a male compliment another male that he looks 'hot', a lot of you responded that you can get bashed for that if you say that to a straight man. So will this also apply to a bisexual man?

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Okay then, could we please have a proper discussion on bisexuality without all those name calling or snapping at each other?
Can a bisexual like a female and a male at the same time? Say for instance I had this long time crush on this guy named Justin back in my Tafe years. But he got a girl friend, and initially I felt that Justin might be attracted to me because he was so friendly and nice to me and always sat next to me. Or is this guy just being 'friendly' to me. How can you tell if a bisexual loves you? Are they more easily to express their love than compare to those shy people? In my other thread when I asked if a male compliment another male that he looks 'hot', a lot of you responded that you can get bashed for that if you say that to a straight man. So will this also apply to a bisexual man?

Can a bisexual like a male and a female at the same time?

Yes. But that does not mean they will cheat on you or leave you for a member of the opposite sex. Bisexual people can be polyamorous (able to be emotionally and sexually attracted to more than one other person at the same time. Polyamorous relationships are conducted with the consent of all parties.), bisexual people can be sexually unfaithful - with EITHER sex. Just because a person is bisexual does not mean they will leave you for a member of the opposite sex. A bisexual man may cheat on a man with another man. He may cheat on a woman with another woman. And he may cheat on a man with a woman, or a woman with a man. They may also be totally monogamous and happy to be with only one person at any time - regardless of gender. Just because a person is bisexual does not mean they automatically require sexual satisfaction from BOTH sexes, but rather that they CAN get sexual satisfaction from EITHER sex.

How can you tell if a bisexual loves you?

In exactly the same way you would know if a gay man was in love with you, or if a straight woman was in love with you. Bisexuals do not have their own secret bi language. They flirt, they get shy, they get tongue tied around people they like, and if they love you, and feel like you might feel the same, they will even say "I love you."

Are they more easily to express their love than compare to those shy people?

Bisexuals get shy too. Some are outgoing and will be straightforward and tell you if they like you straight out, just like some gay men will do. Similarly, some will be shy, quiet, and bashful. Again, bisexuals are just like you. Except instead of you only being able to feel sexually attracted to men, they can feel sexually attracted to men and women - it has no effect on their personality. They come in all shapes, sizes, personalities and temperaments.

If a male compliment another male that he looks 'hot', a lot of you responded that you can get bashed for that if you say that to a straight man. So will this also apply to a bisexual man?

Will a bisexual bash you? Not unless he has internalised homophobia - just as a gay man might be aggressively anti-gay if he's not out and scared of others reactions, some bi people are intensely scared of their 'gay' side and will act the same. The vast majority will not. Will a bisexual get bashed for calling a straight man hot? Depends on the straight man, and their attitudes towards same-sex couplings.

perfectly said. Jimmy read each word carefully. It is THAT basic.

Jimmy. Read Irenes words carefully. That is it. Nothing more to say. I cannot understand why you can't understand what she is telling you. Woe is you is tiring

well, who would not want to be in the middle position?!



i think most homosexuals are closet bisexuals. they will fuck a someone of opposite sex given the chance!

LOL @ wysi
Next you'll be saying that gays don't exist!