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Originally Posted by undawundawoman

BB....ohhh how i could have used these wise words a day or so ago!!!

I thought so
However we can equip ourselves for next round

Wanna tell her im sorry and all i could think of today was her...
just needed time.

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Originally Posted by undawundawoman

Wanna tell her im sorry and all i could think of today was her...
just needed time.

Oh noooooo. You had a disagreement and lost your cool???
Didn't say I love you 5 times?????

The need space thing is torture for other party makes me feel like my partner does not care or want to understand me.

You have children and moms would not do that to kids so why would moms do that to partners undwamda?


I guess it's better than yelling


What happened????

Hope you have had make up sex

yeah the gist of it is she doesnt like me on here. doesnt think i shld feel need to talk or express my thoughts feelings to anyone else but her. i disagree. im trying to find a happy medium with her. but i like being able to discuss things with people who dont know me...it gives me fresh perspective and i can avoid judgement from our family and friends. so thats my dilemma. i tried showing her my posts... to ease her mind but that made things worse!

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Originally Posted by undawundawoman

yeah the gist of it is she doesnt like me on here. doesnt think i shld feel need to talk or express my thoughts feelings to anyone else but her. i disagree.

Oh .... But tell her you are offering advice and sharing romantic tips with people like me. You don't exactly come here to winge and you don't have issues. Just a ladies chat room no different from you having lattes out with friends. Does she not realise you are such a nice supportive contributor to there here? And it's not necessarily you coming here for help but more like you councilling tragics like me? ?

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Originally Posted by undawundawoman

im trying to find a happy medium with her. but i like being able to discuss things with people who dont know me...it gives me fresh perspective and i can avoid judgement from our family and friends. so thats my dilemma. i tried showing her my posts... to ease her mind but that made things worse!

Oh no.
I don't see you talk about problems with you Gf. Did she see our ga ga posts on mushie stuff?

You don't wash your dirty linen out in public...

It's true you should confide in her... However, like my Gf says, there are some things I am not capable of helping her with, and she rather talk to her friends.

Eg I don't have kids so what do I know? And her friends have kids so she rather get a professional's opinion.

So maybe there may be things in future where I may get a say in, relating to her kids. Eg when we buy a house or i start contributing to kids financially.. Until than I'm useless really ....cos I havent a clue about motherhood.

So us girlfriends must just accept and realise we are good for only certain things ...and not everything (especially in blended families).

At least you only ever sleep with her... And you go back to her... And your kids know she is your partner.

I like it that my Gf has so many other ladies she can talk to. She probably has some good and bad things to say about me... But better she lets it out than keep it in.

I just hope that friends my Gf choose to bitch about me too see things from both sides and like me 😜. Regardless its not up to me to control anyone.

So help your GF understand that... It's healthy.

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Originally Posted by Baby Baby

Oh .... But tell her you are offering advice and sharing romantic tips with people like me. You don't exactly come here to winge and you don't have issues. Just a ladies chat room no different from you having lattes out with friends. Does she not realise you are such a nice supportive contributor to there here? And it's not necessarily you coming here for help but more like you councilling tragics like me? ?




Oh no.
I don't see you talk about problems with you Gf. Did she see our ga ga posts on mushie stuff?

You don't wash your dirty linen out in public...

It's true you should confide in her... However, like my Gf says, there are some things I am not capable of helping her with, and she rather talk to her friends.

Eg I don't have kids so what do I know? And her friends have kids so she rather get a professional's opinion.

So maybe there may be things in future where I may get a say in, relating to her kids. Eg when we buy a house or i start contributing to kids financially.. Until than I'm useless really ....cos I havent a clue about motherhood.

So us girlfriends must just accept and realise we are good for only certain things ...and not everything (especially in blended families).

At least you only ever sleep with her... And you go back to her... And your kids know she is your partner.

I like it that my Gf has so many other ladies she can talk to. She probably has some good and bad things to say about me... But better she lets it out than keep it in.

I just hope that friends my Gf choose to bitch about me too see things from both sides and like me 😜. Regardless its not up to me to control anyone.

So help your GF understand that... It's healthy.

I know BB iv shown her soppy threads... she knows my login everything... have never been secretive with her. i feel it has less to do with me and more with the past for her. She knows she can trust me... im not here to hook up... just chit chat... i love dishing out my opinions... listening to other womens views... their lives... interesting topics. its a great outlet.. i enjoy the company....but i will try and give her the attention she feels im not.

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Originally Posted by undawundawoman

I know BB iv shown her soppy threads... she knows my login everything... have never been secretive with her. i feel it has less to do with me and more with the past for her. She knows she can trust me... im not here to hook up... just chit chat... i love dishing out my opinions... listening to other womens views... their lives... interesting topics. its a great outlet.. i enjoy the company....but i will try and give her the attention she feels im not.

aaah that's understandable...
That's so nice...she wants attention.....

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Originally Posted by undawundawoman

I know BB iv shown her soppy threads... she knows my login everything... have never been secretive with her. i feel it has less to do with me and more with the past for her. She knows she can trust me... im not here to hook up... just chit chat... i love dishing out my opinions... listening to other womens views... their lives... interesting topics. its a great outlet.. i enjoy the company....but i will try and give her the attention she feels im not.

Off to your country of origin today

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Off to your country of origin today

Nawww ... lucky lucky you
Wish I could fit in your suitcase lol. ....although somehow I think NZ customs may notice a leg and arm hanging out. lol