Apart from being physically attracted to women what else about women turns you on and off?

Bitchy females turn me off....


ick...can't stand em

Too many to list about turn on's....


Boobs...
bums...
long shapely legs...
Daisey duke shorts....

Is all i can think of so far......

This is ngoing to sound very Hannibal Lecter - but i love the scent of them (obviously not all) but generally the scent of a woman.

Turns off - generally none - my turn off are generally based on individuals rather than a whole

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Originally Posted by piggles

This is ngoing to sound very Hannibal Lecter - but i love the scent of them (obviously not all) but generally the scent of a woman.

Turns off - generally none - my turn off are generally based on individuals rather than a whole

Absolutly....(ive had alot of bitchy hetro women at work this week) but i do agree with your turn offs based on individuals than as a whole....i am fairly the same...except for the bitchy part...:P

I agree with the scent too...i must say my fave part of a woman is there torso...i love the line between a womans armpits down past the breasts outline to her hips its so....mouthwatering and sensual...so....everything a man isnt...:P

i won't list turn offs here, ladies do enough hating...but turn ons? im so glad you asked

Confidence!!
strong, big hands *blush*
big bums (im trying to be polite about it)
totally agree with velvety on the hips - drooling just reading about it
and the scent..uhh

but more than anything its always the brains - talk me into a stupor with your brilliance and ill fall asleep dreaming of you..wordsmiths, writers and smart arse fast talkers get me everytime.

xxx

OMG i forgot brains....brains are a huge turn on.....i love someone who i can talk too and actually knows what im talking about! If there a tad blonde...they don't turn me on per say but i do like em and tend to laugh AT them....alot.....Hey gold femme i actually had to stop myself from typing a paragraph or two on the hips and that line.....milky creamy skin....... bellybuttons....pubic bone......fingers exploring.....mmmm hmmmm fine....

who said stop?

This is for Gold femme well... cause you asked for it ( Didnt know how to write what i wanted to say so i stuck it in story form for you with fictional chars)


I stood waiting to buy myself an icecream and i must say it was the smell of her that allured me to her at first. It was the combination of her Chanel and the beach, the spicy undertones in her perfume and the salty smell that you could only get from a trip to the sea. I cannot remember how i got to to talking to her or how we got into the sandunes but i do remember her body. Her breasts where perfect to say the least, perfectly proportionate to her body they were almost like two pears, you know the ones, that make your mouth water when you see them, and you just want to take a bite and let the juice run down your chin until you cannot devour it anymore.

I also remember her skin, you know that part just under a womans breasts, where the skin is really milky soft, and it begs for you to draw your tongue along it tracing it all the way along then up to her nipple.....and her stomach, she wasnt boney by any means, she was womanly..... i couldnt help draw my line from her breasts all the way down her tummy, and letting my tongue linger on her bellybutton, and my ice cream drip along her pubic line before cleaning up the drips somewhat so that i could work my way up and slightly flicker my tongue at her bellyring and then make my way up past her breasts to her neck.... my small hand gently cupping her breast.

I vividly remember leaning into her neck , my nostrils, filling with her intoxicating scent, my head spining almost drunk....my lips lingering just above her skin, as my tongue flickering across the nape of her neck, my teeth gently biting playfully... my head tilting up to her ear, playfully pulling apon the lobe with my lips before tracing my tongue softly around the crevaces that lined her ear before whispering softly, so only she could hear sweet nothings...... and her lips, she had the sort that made you want to kiss them for hours......

( Didnt know how x rated i could get so i stoped there )

well, ahem...*blush*...that was absolutely divine velvety, and definitely hot patrol worthy.

more more more! you should be blogging this stuff my lady, so get to it - that's an order.

xxx

ive never blogged and i have no idea how to either!!! Sad but true!

Wow.......

what?

i know wow what ? hopefully its ur writing velvety that has left sTaRiA speechless

xxx

ps blogging is easy, just go to ur profile, click on my blogs and follow the instructions..type some of that gold of yours in there so we can all share it

if ur still not sure PM me

Ha ha right on the money goldilocks

nice! so c'mon velvety - give the ladyz what they want..blog blog blog blog blog blog

xxx

hahahaha....so i took your word for it this morning...im half way thru a blog....though i havent had chance to finish cause samesame is having issues and everytime i try to finish the page wont load and even at this point i still can't get into my blog

keep trying, we need it...til then i will not so patiently await your communication in blog form.

xxx

hahaha though...am i allowed write x rated stuff in there....hope so.......

eh! try it and see..if you hear a knock at the door and a gruff voice saying 'blog police - open up' then flush ur computer down the toilet and jump out the window

ill come and bring u cake in jail

xxx

-laughs- make sure its mud cake! with lots of cream -drools- Then at least i can smear it on someone and have my cake and eat it too! nice! -pokes her blog to work- okay so i finished it...clicked blog this and nothing has happened....now im gettin mad at it....

Blog velvety for all our sakes!!!

I guess I have not added my two cents on what I love about women. Firstly I have dated women all my life. As a boy I was never attracted to men as women rocked my world. I have gone through periods where I questioned why I like women before transition as sometimes I thought maybe I only liked them because I so felt I was one. All of the women I have dated are very different personality wise but many of them similar in physical aspects. Long legs, smallish breasts, nice necklines, great hips but again I sometimes wonder if I was chasing this particular body type as I wanted to be that myself. Confusing I know!

Since I transitioned women just stop looking at me, especially the early part of transition. I was devastated! I felt there was no option but to date men cause they had come out of the woodwork in droves. I faught it off for a long time till I moved to Sydney and began a relationship with a male who I have been with for 5 years and now seems is coming to an end. My relationship with him has been intense because of my attraction to women.

He has always known I am more into women and this has been very hard on both of us. Since doing music again and opening a myspace acount and watching my list go from zero to 5000 predominantly women this also created more chaos in my life as girls became interested again. I guess for the past few years my desire to be back with women has increased tenfold and I am much closer to admitting to myself and others I am lesbian.

As for what I want these days from a woman. Well I don't really know! I love strong women who know who they are and what they want. I love emotional women cause I finally understand what it's like myself. Unique women who challenge themselves to grow and yet embrace their past failures, successess and learn from experience. My preference to butch, lipstick or any other crazy category that exists does not bother me and I'm also willing to be involved with a f2m ts boy. Looks wise well this is hard to explain as I really have no expectations anymore. I desperately seeking some passion in my life (something I'm not getting from males) and am very keen to experience a relationship where my partner is not driven on changing me as a trans woman I AM changing regardless and will always be developing and learning.

Honestly I have a major thing for goth girls. Big pigtails, lip piercings hubba hubba but am not driven by this attraction. I am a dominant person but am aware of this as of recent times and myself wanting to work on this. I also know that the girl I want to be with is for themselves at this point of time and have no agenda to mould them into something else as 5 years of this upon me has been damaging.

I love a great sense of humor, gotta be quirky and laugh at stupid things. I also need an intelligent woman who can dissect and explore issues and spirituality. Sexually well I've been like a rat in a cage for the longest time in this dept and know my next female love is deffo in for a crazy, open, expressive, accepting sex life with me. I met a girl last year during a time I split from bf and can honestly say was a great moment. She was str8 and an old friend who knew me before transition. Regardless of turning a str8 girl it was just amazing to actually be caressing another beautiful woman in my correct gender.

All my friends say the same thing that I'm a lesbian in denial and I know they are right and for some reason I have not acted. I'm closer to believing if I finally accept this and act on it my life will improve in leaps and bounds.

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Originally Posted by piggles

This is ngoing to sound very Hannibal Lecter - but i love the scent of them (obviously not all) but generally the scent of a woman.

Turns off - generally none - my turn off are generally based on individuals rather than a whole

when my crush walks past me i just get dizzy. her scent drives my insides crazy! toned calf muscles. able to have d&m's. not wanting to leave her side. looking at her and wanting to take her.

i'll just have to keep dreaming...

but it is definitely based on the individual and the whole package scenario.

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Originally Posted by dreadcircus

Apart from being physically attracted to women what else about women turns you on and off?

I can be attracted to all sorts of women. The feel of their hair, the sound of their voice and the sort of laugh they have are bigger turn ons than anything else.

Love girls with short hair, slim builds and a crazy sense of humour. But also like bigger girls with long hair and soft skin. and uh, you know, a handful. *blushes*

One of the sexiest things about women for me are their hands. Love strong hands with long fingers and short, but not stubby, fingernails. Haha probably sound like a hand fetishist now but actually just thinking about my current crush. Short dark hair, tall, sweet, funny, creative...unfortunatly she comes equipped with an equally cool girlfriend. lol.

Agree...the sound of her voice..... & saultry moans

Okay, being bisexual I guess I may notice a few things that other girls (who only like girls) don't.

For me, women are soft and curvy and almost poetic in the way they walk. What attracts me most to a woman is confidence and sensuality and a smile that lights the room.

Im confused. Can you tell me how you would notice things that i wouldnt?

I just dont get it...

Its what i do. Im a pervert, i notice everything...

me too!!! i notice everything!!!!!!!!!! like my boss bending over and exposing her boob! i tried not to look but i cant help it....i like boobs man.....

getting a little flushed here....I guess I like

bums...lovely soft bums with those two little dimples at the base of the spine....

the soft skin under the arms (I don't think boys have that but what do I know?)

A long graceful neck

long fingers. I love long fingers.

Funnily enough, elegant yet sturdy feet. I distrust those with little feet (every girl whose done me wrong had little feet)

A woman's back must be the most beautiful shape in the world...I've been drawing naked backs since I was 6.

And hips. No hips, no turn on for me.

Oh yes, definately agree. I'm such a back person too.

And, I am also part of the anti-bitchy brigade

But all in all it's the funny ones that will win me over in second...

It's a plus that bitchy-ness and funny are usually mutually exclusive....usually

yes, I have never known a bitch with a sense of humour. I love a funny girl - as long as that's not all she is.