So my friend who was a Big Lez recently sent me a txt to tell me that she had a boyfriend.

She told me that she'd been holding off for weeks and i was her final person to tell...

as i said to her

"Your life is your own to screw up...i don't care what you do as long as your happy!"

To this she told me that the reason she had been so stand-offish was because her gay flatmate (her old ex boyfriend - very days of our lives) completely exploded when he found out and went pyscho and has since accused her of lying and all the terrible things under the sun. She now has to move out of the house and they haven't spoken in 6 months.

Now i can't understand why he would do that but i want to hear everyone elses opinion...

If your lesbian/gay friend or flatmate inned themselves and apparently had a new boyfriend/gayfriend....

would you care? or would you never be able to trust them again?

I certainly wouldn't care. It's obvious for your ex flat-mate that it's more about the person that makes you happy, not the gender... The ex gay flatmate guy needs to get over it.

I am pretty much same with Peeter.

It's the personality that matters to me not gender or sexuality.

i think women, more so than men, have a more fluid approach to sexuality. i've seen more women cross over from one to the other, whereas with men bisexuality seems to be a stopover on the way to being gay.

then again - there are some exceptions.

i know a girl who used to be a fully fledged dyke and now she's in love with a man and has been seeing him for ages - and she couldn't be happier. and we are all happy for her.

although it annoys me when she calls herself a dyke, cos honey - you're bouncing on cock every night. you're as much of a dyke as i am.

men or women, its all the same.
a hole is a hole after all