This is not a guide, I want advice!

Got a bit of a crush on a guy who was in the year above me at school, ever since seeing more than I possibly should have in the change rooms one day. Being a few years out of school I had completely forgotten about him. Have recently bumped into him a few times and hung out a little bit and the crush is back!
Several friends including some of his mates and one of his ex-girlfriends think he might be gay.

Any ideas on what I can try to suss out the situation? Haha.

Normally rule number 1 for me is no straight guys. But having recently pashed a 'straight' guy and then some, I figure it's worth a shot, haha.

Do it. Straight men love me, but i dont like guys so were in completely diff situations. lol just have fun.

Haha yeah, but what can I try without being too obvious.

I rarely see him, but we're both going to an upcoming festival so I'm thinking I might hang out with him and see if the alcohol helps me on my mission! Perhaps invite him to an after party haha

lol i think im going to try the alcohol approach next weekend, i think this girl is utterly cute, so im going to feed her wine... LOL

Does he know you are gay?

I don't think so. Haven't seen him much. Suppose that'd be step one!

Just invite him home e for a few bevvies (well a lot actually) and the at the right moment spill drink on yourself and remove pants in front of him under the pretnse of throwing them in the wash - make sure youve got your best aussiebums though - you'll be able to tell if he's gay then

If he's straight - throw a dress, wig and heels on. dont laugh the amount of "dtraight men" who chase crossies is unbelievable

good luck xxxxx

Sounds like a plan, cheers Mama.

easy wear a skirt

You do realise you'll probably only get a shag out of this if he is tunable right?

If you would like more than that I suggest you leave it for about 3 years until he works it all out himself, if he is gay.

Rohypnol... works every time...

p.s. what your asking is APPARENTLY every straight mans worst fear...

ahhh obtaining the forbidden fruit is always an arduous task!

but isn't the thrill of the chase meant to be the best bit?

tie them up first.. less chase, more fun..

introduce him to g... hahahahahaha no i'm joking. or i am.. no i am.

i did g with this straight dude one time and we had a play, but it was semi weird the next day. he requested i keep it on the down low. and another guy was purely out with one of my girlfriends and after some pills and drinks, an accidental touch whilst playing pool wasn't rejected. but we weren't that fucked at the time, so i think he muct have been bi/curious.

I'm not one of these "everyone's gay they just don't know it yet" types. i hate when people say that. although it would be nice... but anyway I think if they're truely straight, they can't be seduced. if they're a mate and they're 110% totally aok with you being gay (don't cringe at the sight of two boys together etc), then after a few bevvies one night you could try it on, and hope that he'd politely but firmly refuse and everything would be ok.

but as a rule, there are plenty of fish in the sea, and i don't like sucess rates with seducing straight boys.

Oh god!

Get some pot into him! That's what happened to me in High School with a long time crush...

I'm sure you wouldn't need any help scorin Jimmy... Good luck though str8 boys are definitely tricky!

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Originally Posted by jimmy_

This is not a guide, I want advice!

Got a bit of a crush on a guy who was in the year above me at school, ever since seeing more than I possibly should have in the change rooms one day. Being a few years out of school I had completely forgotten about him. Have recently bumped into him a few times and hung out a little bit and the crush is back!
Several friends including some of his mates and one of his ex-girlfriends think he might be gay.

Any ideas on what I can try to suss out the situation? Haha.

Normally rule number 1 for me is no straight guys. But having recently pashed a 'straight' guy and then some, I figure it's worth a shot, haha.

haha, I'll talk/email to you privately about this Jimmy.. when I've got some free time..

sounds like Robbie's got a few story's to tell!!!

come on, you can tell us.. were all friends here

Why do I keep falling for straight guys? I'm a fricken broken record.

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Originally Posted by pioneer_to_the_falls

Why do I keep falling for straight guys? I'm a fricken broken record.

Hunny, its called forbidden fruit syndrome.

'Seducing the straight guy' is a PORN GENRE. Fantasy. Not real life.

If you are successful in seducing him (even temporarily) it won't lead anywhere.

Think about it this way: How would you feel if a straight girl got on a public forum & asked the question 'How do you seduce a gay boy?' Sounds insulting, doesn't it?

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Originally Posted by Asherbella

'Seducing the straight guy' is a PORN GENRE. Fantasy. Not real life.

If you are successful in seducing him (even temporarily) it won't lead anywhere.

Think about it this way: How would you feel if a straight girl got on a public forum & asked the question 'How do you seduce a gay boy?' Sounds insulting, doesn't it?

I just thought about it, and I'm trying to get my stream of consciousness going. Anyway I did some thinking, and I think that it may possibly have something to do with the fact that in most cases, gay boys have done the girl thing, found it not for them, and came out gay second (I know I'm biased but I'm just going on what I feel). Whereas for a straight boy, they're straight first, but never tried it with a boy, so there's that 'maybe' and could be that 'lure' to try something different. Whereas girl gay boy scenario it's been there done that. I mean, for me, its not insulting its laughable.

Does that make sense? I'm really tired but I'm trying to think about why turning a straight boy is hot, and why the notion of a girl turning a gay boy is funny.

Why would you *entrap* someone in order to seduce them?
If you have *lure* or *trick* someone into bed that's just fucked.
Straight or not...

I'm not trying to start an argument or anything, but where did you get entrap from?

And I seduce and lure my own boyfriend to bed - i didn't think luring was bad?

And I never mentioned trick either. If you get into bed with someone, you pretty much know whats going to happen don't you? I'm just unsure how you would trick someone into sleeping with you. Drug, yes. haha! but trick - I don't know how to trick people into sleeping with me.

You mentioned the drug G in giving this bloke advice, half-jokingly. Yes?
That's where I got *trick* from.

There are two types of seduction. Natural seduction & predatory seduction. You & your partner have NATURAL seduction. This poster Jimmy is seeking advice on how to seduce a straight bloke. He's being PREDATORY about the seduction. Why? Because he seeks to seduce a man WHO IS NOT GAY. If was a NATURAL seduction he wouldn't be asking advice...

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Originally Posted by weathervain

You do realise you'll probably only get a shag out of this if he is tunable right?

If you would like more than that I suggest you leave it for about 3 years until he works it all out himself, if he is gay.

Excellent post.

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Originally Posted by Asherbella

You mentioned the drug G in giving this bloke advice, half-jokingly. Yes?
That's where I got *trick* from.

There are two types of seduction. Natural seduction & predatory seduction. You & your partner have NATURAL seduction. This poster Jimmy is seeking advice on how to seduce a straight bloke. He's being PREDATORY about the seduction. Why? Because he seeks to seduce a man WHO IS NOT GAY. If was a NATURAL seduction he wouldn't be asking advice...

oh righto - yeah i was joking about that. i've never intentionally drugged and got a straight boy that way though - its just like drugs, or drinking, or whatever, and then it just kinda happens if they feel comfortable enough. whether or not they are really gay, or just exploring their sexuality or whatever. i don't think thats tricking though, more just relaxing the situation so parties involved are comfortable. because i could be manking off my guts running around on the ceiling clucking like a duck and still no that i don't like pussy. but i know and understand a shag is all you ever get - and for me, thats all i wanted and yeah, it was hot. but i don't think i'd ever try to totally turn a boy i'm not that naive.

I'm gonna beat Light-Bearer to this one:

6-pack, joint and a bottle of amyl should do the trick hahaha...but only if he is up for it after he has been drinking and smoking...consent is important in any case.

dude, if he sucks your cock he is not straight, he may pretend he is, he may have a girlfriend..but if he jumps in bed with you he isnt.........I really dont get it.......it all sounds very sad and uncomfortable I feel sorry for the guy you are mtrying to get your claws into..