Some gr8 issue's being raised in this thread ....
Would really love to know who's giving the rest of oz the impression that all glbti want to be legally Married?..........Tis a tad confusing when having discussed this issue with many friends that they DO want thier relationships recognised by law for all the reasons we have campaigned for but rarely has the actual word Marriage been mentioned

........How many of you reading these posts were actually part of Getup.org's immense on line campaign or actually demonstrated publicly for these reforms? Know that there would be quite a few but also many that are content to sit at home and play with words too.
Is this thread now changing to something else?

Feel that fighting for our rights to maintain benefits for those that really do need them......ie elderly, dsp recipients including poz people on meds as Shaneofsydney mentioned in his gr8 post( thanks m8!) and the difference between legally recognised same sex unions and an outdated het conception of our unions (Marriage) are different issues entirely.
For all those GLBTI in long term relationships (who are ultimately going to be the people affected by present day activism) I meant no disrespect in my earlier post when I said that in our communities a long term relationship could be as long as six months .....but was only mentioning something we all know but for some reason won't acknowlege here at least ( have we lost the ability to laugh at ourselves now too?)........I am now in my 50's and have been living in the northern rivers for 18 years and out the few long term partnerships around who were 'out' when I moved up here (around 10) there are now only two people still together......
There do seem to be a select few (including both gay/strait media) intent on keeping the word "Marriage " in the equation which I feel is creating unecessary devisions and slowing any progress down......May be alone in my views but proud to see our communities abilities to debate have NOT been lost.
Have a gr8 weekend guys,
Nick