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18th June 2009, 07:32 PM Old #1

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I'll be 30 in August and I'm dreading it.

someone tell me something good about turning 30 - cheer me up!
If there's one thing you can't lose, it's that feel.
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18th June 2009, 07:35 PM Old #2

What the? I'm so confused by this new site !!
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My gf is 36 and she's hotty hot hottttt! ... Women in their 30's are sooo much more attractive than women in their 20's. They've had more life experience and can teach us young pups many many exciting things

PS: You come accross as a bit younger so it's all good.
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18th June 2009, 07:36 PM Old #3

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yeah, I act like an idiotic teenager still....
also, my family has great genes - we age slowly

One thing that I guess I am relieved about is being over the whole teen-angst thing. also feeling like not having to do things just to be cool - just being cool with yourself.
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18th June 2009, 08:18 PM Old #4

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One of my workmates is early 30's and reckons he gets more sex now than when he was a teenager. I dunno if that relates to you, but good for the ego!

My older brother cried when he turned 30, but when you think of it, 30 really is still SO SO young!

So I used to be worried about turning 30 (I'll be there in a few years don't worry lol) but now I'm more worried about the 40's. I figure in my 30's I can still get away with acting childish somewhat, but not so much my 40's
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18th June 2009, 08:37 PM Old #5

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30's and 40's are the best decades, so enjoy....cause then it's all downhill from there geting ready for the retirement home.
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18th June 2009, 08:48 PM Old #6

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I think what gets me down most is that my medical stuff means that once I hit 30, it'll all rapidly get worse. And there is so much I haven't done yet!
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18th June 2009, 08:49 PM Old #7

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I'm 31 this year. My boss looked surprised when I told him my age. He thought that I was in my early 20's - which is a good thing.

Honestly, I hate being in my 30's. I personally believe that by the time someone reaches that age, he/she should have accomplish such and such in their lives. ( Hey, I sounded just like Miss South Caroline!)

I don;t know, I feel like a complete failure in life. My friend is a solictor and my younger brother is a project manager. . . whereas I'm just an admin guy.

Anyway, I know there's really nothing I can do, but to accept this fact.

On a positive side, at least I'm still in my early 30's . . . I should really cherish this moment that I have right now, because next year, I will be one year older and so on . . .

Time just goes by very quickly. . .
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18th June 2009, 08:54 PM Old #8

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did I not say 'cheer me up"? not make me want to die!

yes though, I think it's the whole accomplishment thing. I haven't done anything noteworthy yet. I'm an artist and, well, I haven't even exhibited properly yet. I've got nothing published, haven't got a job.....blah blah blah.....
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18th June 2009, 08:54 PM Old #9

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Can someone bring me my beige cardigan and slippers.....
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I'm allergic to beige.
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18th June 2009, 08:57 PM Old #11

I think I need to go to the toilet.....
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Well ya better get something for ya allergy - cause from 50's onward it's all beige.
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18th June 2009, 09:05 PM Old #12

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nope, I'm gonna steal my mum's hippy wardrobe. No beige there!
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18th June 2009, 09:41 PM Old #13

when they come, they'll eat the weak ones first ... do crossfit :)
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Can someone bring me my beige cardigan and slippers.....

^^^ im coming honey - just let me get out of this arm chair

now ... where's my walking frame
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18th June 2009, 09:43 PM Old #14

when they come, they'll eat the weak ones first ... do crossfit :)
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hang on - th news is on again
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18th June 2009, 10:13 PM Old #15

What the? I'm so confused by this new site !!
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PETE!!!!.... That new pic makes me wanna turn straight! Hotty hot hotttttt!

RIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOW!
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18th June 2009, 10:18 PM Old #16

when they come, they'll eat the weak ones first ... do crossfit :)
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i luv u mindy <3

*big grin*

and im trying to upload a new album but something "keeps going queer" - hahaha
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18th June 2009, 10:18 PM Old #17

wondering what the stunt is going to be... :D
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when you turn 30 we can finally buy you mugs like this -->



which is what everyone has been hanging to do for a long time. trust me.
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18th June 2009, 10:24 PM Old #18

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The dirty 30's are the best!!!!!! Once you turn 30 you become hot. Prior to that I'm sorry but you're only tepid.
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18th June 2009, 10:25 PM Old #19

when they come, they'll eat the weak ones first ... do crossfit :)
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^^^ and th 40s you become 'smokin hot'
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18th June 2009, 10:26 PM Old #20

What the? I'm so confused by this new site !!
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F*ck you Camiseta!

IM HOT NOW DAMMIT :P
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18th June 2009, 10:27 PM Old #21

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Wait till you hit the dirty 30's sTaRiA. Then you will be white hot.
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18th June 2009, 10:38 PM Old #22

when they come, they'll eat the weak ones first ... do crossfit :)
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and with only 7 weeks till my birthday (44yo) for those of you who havent already started saving for my pressy - u havent got a lot of time left
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19th June 2009, 12:17 AM Old #23

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Yes Sneako's gotta agree with Staria - you is looking butch there man. So hot riding a bike on the farm........mmmmmmmm. (thinks to himself, why are all the butch ones total bottoms......)
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19th June 2009, 10:20 AM Old #24

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On a positive side, at least I'm still in my early 30's . . .

So am I. 39 is early 30s, isn't it???

Maybe I need my own thread...
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20th June 2009, 01:21 PM Old #26

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30's is good... im 32 atm.. feel like things are starting to make sense and coming together.. where as in your 20's you think you know how shit works, and then you just get slapped in the face..

i've found im way more confident in what i can do, achieve more and feel more stable in my 30's.. although i do have that nagging feeling that time is slipping though my fingers for what i want to achieve.

i too thought i would have my shit together heaps more, but alas no..

one of my friends at work who is in his 50's said to me the other day that now is the time to start thinking about when your older and planning.. especially financially..

he's and old rockerbilly punk who has no savings and no house.. and is looking forward to a grim retirement..
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20th June 2009, 03:35 PM Old #27

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life is so much better after 30 - without any exaggeration at all.

my 20s were pretty action packed and entertaining, but now i look better than i ever have, i have better clothes, better friends, less drama and a hell of a lot more fun than i ever did.

and now that im 35..well im the sexual equivalent of a 17 yr old male so life is certainly not boring.

im still kinda immature - and most of my friends are younger which wards off the evil mainstream settle down and have a family lifestyle from catching up with me.

dont ever grow up, but age gracefully and you won't regret it.

enjoy!
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Life is so short Bells. Age is so meaningless. You never know when it's going to end. I was resuscitated 2 days ago on my 28th birthday... I thought I had at least 60 more yrs in me... enjoy every minute...

Ignore your age. When you've lived a long and happy life, I'm sure you won't look back and say "Gee I'm glad I worried about turning 30 - that really was time well spent!! Cheer up... go and live you're life!! xxx
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Life is so short Bells. Age is so meaningless. You never know when it's going to end. I was resuscitated 2 days ago on my 28th birthday... I thought I had at least 60 more yrs in me... enjoy every minute...

WTF happened?

Are you ok?
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20th June 2009, 10:53 PM Old #30

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I'm ok now...
Blood clot in my lung. It'll get you every time

I can't wait to turn 30, 40, 50... at least I'll still be alive

Go and enjoy your life everyone xxx
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