New Zealander wins Mr. GayWorld

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Our Kiwi neighbours are thrilled that their 32-year-old Mr. Gay World contestant Andreas Derleth has won the prestigious international contest in South Africa.

The hunky retail manager, who moved from Germany to NZ four years ago, is a keen sportsman and adventurer as well as a passionate gay rights advocate, says GayNZ.com.

Derleth is in a long-term relationship and entered into a Civil Union with his partner Tom last year. “He worked extra hard in thorough preparations for the Mr. Gay World 2012 contest and he truly deserved to win the title,” says Tom.

“I take my pride to be his long term partner and gay community and NZ as a whole should be proud of him.”

Held over four days, the grueling Mr. Gay World contest in Johannesburg involved a number of events including a sports challenge, a Survivor style obstacle course and even a written exam with LGBT historical questions.

Australian representative Benjamin Michael also competed strongly, coming second place in the sports games.

Twenty-two nations entered this year, several for the first time. Countries of origin included Argentina, Australia, Brazil, Bulgaria, Canada, Chile, Czech Republic, Ethiopia, Finland, France, Hong Kong, Ireland, Mexico, Namibia, Netherlands, New Zealand, Norway, Philippines, South Africa, Spain, Switzerland and the USA.

See more photos from Mr. Gay World 2012 here.

It’s just been confirmed that Mr Gay World 2013 will be held in Belgium as part of WorldOutgames Antwerp from 1-5 August next year. We’ll let you know when applications open for Aussie contestants.

Meet the men of Mr. Gay World 2012 in our gallery below.

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azulmelb

azulmelb said on the 13th Apr, 2012

No, I haven't. Perhaps you could provide a precis of the relavant points, preferably with your own analysis and interpretation and some indication as to why you feel they are relevant to this particular discussion.

That's how adults discuss/debate an issue. You'll find it's generally a lot more fruitfull and focused than cut and paste at 10 paces.

Hi Dsquare,

I don't think Dave Pearce's blog post requires an in-depth analysis - it isn't an academic article.

Rather it's his personal reflection and observation of how some people treat others. He feels people should set aside judgements, personal beliefs and anger and simply try extending love - unconditional love - and kindness to others.

I'll include some excerpts below:

"Before I go on, I feel I must say something one time. Today’s post is not about homosexuality. It’s not about Christians. It’s not about religion. It’s not about politics. It’s about something else altogether. Something greater. Something simpler.

It’s about love.

It’s about kindness.

It’s about friendship"

"The greatest spiritual leaders in history have all preached love for others as the basis for all happiness, and never did they accompany such mandates with a list of unlovable actions or deeds. They never said, love everybody except for the gays. Love everybody except for the homeless. Love everybody except for the drug users. Love everybody except for the gang members, or those covered in ink, or the spouse abusers. They didn’t tell us it was okay to love everybody with the exception of the “trailer trash,” those living in poverty, or the illegal immigrants. They didn’t tell us it was okay to love everybody except for our ex-lovers, our lovers’ ex lovers, or our ex-lovers’ lovers. The mandate was pretty damn clear, wasn’t it?

Love others.

Period."

"I wish we didn’t all have to find ways that we’re better than others or more holy and saintly than others in order to feel better about our own messy selves. I wish people wouldn’t cluster entire groups of people together and declare the whole lot unworthy of any love and respect."

And then he includes his request or plea to his readers to extend that love and kindness to others.

"My dear friends…

This has to stop. We have to put our ugly picket signs down. We have to be the examples that help make it happen in our own lives and in the lives of the people that surround us.

We have to be that voice. We each must be that voice.

We must tell others that we will not accept or listen to such hurtful and hateful sentiments.

We must show love where love right now doesn’t exist.

Will you please join me?"

So, I'm simply trying to do what Dan Pearce is asking because I agree with him. If my attempts to get you to read his message somehow offends you, well - I apologize. It's your prerogative whether you want to read it or not. I had just assumed you read it because you attacked me for pasting his message on the thread where the link to his blog was featured.

Personally for me, I'm trying to follow his advice and reminding myself to be kind to others as often as I can. I realize in the beginning of my foray into this forum - I didn't do this and had reacted aggressively when others had attacked me. Well, I apologize for that as well (and in fact I had apologized in one of my posts in the Sexual Racism thread) - I didn't know how things worked around here and I'm pretty new with forums I guess.

Now that I've been here for a couple of months and seen how people behave and act - I know how I should behave and act. And I've decided that no matter how anyone responds to me - I will not react negatively (not a promise, though - I will try) because like I mentioned before on another thread - this is an online forum - what happens here does not affect my personal life, my family or friends, my work or my livelihood, etc - so I can choose not to respond nor react negatively. No one here can make me mad, angry or sad unless I let them.

Oops. I ended up writing a long response again. Sorry for that. I know most people don't like long posts (except Fahed - bless him).

Anyway, hope you're okay with this response and have a great weekend Dsquare :)

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