Rupert Everett doesn't wantgaybies

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British actor Rupert Everett was a trailblazer when he came out as gay 20 years ago, at a time when there were very few openly gay film stars.

But he ignited concern at the weekend as a new interview with the UK’s Sunday Times surfaced – in which the My Best Friend’s Wedding actor seemed unconvinced by the notion of gay couples with kids.

The 53-year-old says his mother Sara has met his boyfriend but revealed she “still wishes I had a wife and kids.”

“She thinks children need a father and a mother and I agree with her,” he added. “I can’t think of anything worse than being brought up by two gay dads.

“Some people might not agree with that. Fine! That’s just my opinion.”

He says he wasn’t speaking on behalf of the gay community – “In fact, I don’t feel like I’m part of any ‘community.’

“The only community I belong to is humanity and we’ve got too many children on the planet, so it’s good not to have more.”

Gay equality groups were quick to remind Everett that there are plenty of happy same-sex couples raising kids out there.

Ben Summerskill of British LGBT campaigners Stonewall said “Rupert should get out a little bit more to see the facts for himself.

“There is absolutely no evidence that the kids of gay parents suffer in the way they are being brought up or in how they develop.”

And over in the USA, LGBT media watchdogs GLAAD were also critical. “Since Everett shared his outdated opinion, gay parents, as well as their friends and families, have voiced overwhelming disappointment,” said GLAAD’s president Herndon Graddick.

“Children aren’t hurt when raised by caring gay parents, but they are when uniformed people in the public eye insult their families.”

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MrAsh

MrAsh said on the 18th Sep, 2012

A lot of people adopted at birth agonise over who their biological parents were. The same issue will arise with those raised by same sex parents. Especially lesbians using anonymous sperm donations. It's not a trivial issue.
My father was killed in an accident 46 years ago. I have some memories of him. My older sister has more. My younger sister has none. It doesn't weigh on our conscience at all but there is an undeniable 'what if...'. Our mother isn't a lesbian but even if she was the 'what if' would still be there. This isn't about sexuality.



Reproduction and parenting are two different things. I personally believe it's a human right for everyone to able to know who their biological parents are, especially since we are understanding a lot more about genetics.

Yet when it comes to parenting it's a different matter altogether. Barrin is right that it's not about sexuality, since two relatives of the same gender (e.g. two Aunties) could raise a child. Therefore having two parents of the same gender isn't an issue in my opinion.

What Rupert Everett is saying is that the old stereotypical notion that you need a CIS male and CIS female in an romantic relationship living in a nuclear family structure to be able to raise healthy and balanced children is the best and only way to raise children and this has been proven to be complete nonsense.

There are many diverse kinds of families in the world which aren't based on Judeo-Christian nuclear family model and children from these environments are well balanced and healthy.

You get troubled children when you have unbalanced and troubled people raising them and there are many many families based on the Judeo-Christian nuclear family model who are very dysfunctional out there in the world, so saying that the nuclear family model of a CIS daddy and CIS mummy is the perfect and only way isn't absolutely true.