We'll give gay players ourfull support, says AFL chief

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Gay players who come out will have the AFL’s full support, says its Chief Executive Andrew Demetriou.

Speaking at the launch of Taking the Tackle – a program that aims to improve respect for women in the Australian Football League – Demetriou sought to assure AFL supporters of its inclusiveness following speculation that some players were gay but too scared to come out.

Jeff Kennett, head of mental health support organisation Beyond Blue, says that he believes as many as 1 in 20 players in the league may be gay, and that they live in fear of outing themselves due to social and media pressures.

The AFL has long come under fire, especially in recent years, including from the queer community advocates who see it as one of the last bastions of socially sanctioned homophobia, until recently offering little protection for any gay player who decides to come out.

Demetriou says the AFL leads the way in implementing anti-vilification programs that cover the spectrum of gender, race and religion, and includes an anti-homophobia program featuring out gay former Olympic swimmer Daniel Kowalski.

According to Demetriou, AFL players had been shown a video featuring Kowalski talking about the issues surrounding his decision to come out publically as gay.

Kowalski told Nine News that there has been ‘a witch hunt’ to ‘out’ a player for a number of years, with media and public eager to expose sportspeople’s private lives.

Western Bulldog defender Bob Murphy agrees, telling The Age there’s a “sick fascination” with how many AFL players are gay.

Demetriou highlights that coming out is a personal decision and still a matter of personal choice. “But if a player wanted to make it public about his sexual preference then he would get absolutely nothing but support from the AFL, and nothing but support from everyone in the industry,” he assured.

“I’m really proud of the way that the AFL family embraces people whatever background they’ve got… I think you’re going to be very surprised by the reaction you’ll find in this particular industry and this family.”

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MrAsh

MrAsh said on the 16th Feb, 2012

I think Irene has a problem with Collingwood but I don't recall any other club having a pink chapter. I think we miss the point and should be giving bouquets to those gay sportsmen in macho type sports who have had the courage to come out, because they realise what a valuable signal that sends to young gay kids who are told by a homophobic mainstream society that they can't play real sport.

I'm talking about the likes of Gareth Thomas in rugby, also the English cricketer who came out last year Sean Davies, Daniel Kowalski in swimming, Matthew Mitcham (I think a lot of the diving guys are probably gay anyhow), and now Matt Cecchin the NRL referee, the American basketballer. I get a bit tired of the gay 'community' being sceptical about these individuals brave efforts.

Just because we think the sporting crowd will be hostile, doesn't mean we should all give up and just accept a homophobic status quo, which is the message I'm getting from some on this board. It takes brave people to effect progress, and that's why progress has been had in confronting racism.

Having said that, maybe I'm just plain wrong. And it's all the fault of gay people that there is homophobia in sport and they don't feel comfortable in coming out. Oh at last, I see it all clearly now. It all makes sense.

I'll withdraw and apologise as I hadn't realised I'd wandered onto a Margaret Court forum where apparently gays all get what they deserve. Maybe we all need to repent now and change our ways....

Goldberry get over yourself. No one here is homophobic or are they accepting the status quo. They are merely raising valid points. Also your remark about how you think most guys in diving are gay is a stigma straight men in that sport face often, it's ridiculous and is offensive as homophobia.

Also we shouldn't be giving them bouquets, we should be giving them a beer and a slap on the back. They are probably in the closet because they don't want to be known or relate to the pansy brigade. :rolleyes:

Tommy Praxis

Tommy Praxis said on the 17th Feb, 2012

Gotta agree with Dillonpete and Travis de Jonk here. I think there's definitely a prevalent sense in our community that all queer celebrities should just come out and they should do it yesterday. And because we're such a loving and caring bunch, we'll support our new-found brothers and sisters throughout the whole ordeal, and anyway they probably don't even need much support because they're famous and therefore don't have to worry about family rejection or financial uncertainty or any of the things the rest of us have to deal with. Not everyone thinks like that, of course, but the sentiment is still there, and it isn't particularly helpful.

Honestly, no matter how much the AFL as an organization tries to support players, and prevent things like homophobic taunts at matches, the first openly gay active player is going to have a pretty tough time. For one, they'll have to deal with allegations that they're putting their own wish to publicly declare their sexuality ahead of the interests of their club. Unfortunately, Jason Akermanis was right when he said that having an out player will damage the fabric of the club. Even if the other players are okay with having an out teammate, fans and supporters of the club are going to cop all kinds of shit at work, at the pub etc. for supporting the "gay team". Will that hurt membership numbers? Maybe not, but it's definitely something that the club will be worried about. And even die-hard supporters who would never consider leaving are not necessarily going to be to pleased with the situation, either. All in all, expect the first out player to receive a heap of criticism about their selfishness and lack of team spirit. When that criticism comes from the usual suspects, it's not such a big deal. But when it comes from your own club and supporters, it's likely to hurt.

If it's someone young and/or not well established as a player, there's also likely to be a perception out there in some parts of the football world that they're seeking a level of attention that they haven't earned. That might not sound like too much, but within the culture of team sports, the suggestion that someone is a preening show-pony rather than a serious sportsperson is one that can really sting, and is probably one of the factors that heavily contributes to lesser-known and less accomplished players staying in the closet.

In addition, the first out player is going to come under a huge deal of pressure to fill a particular role as a gay icon, leader, and spokesperson. Maybe they'll excel in that role, but maybe they won't be particularly suited to it. Being able to play football doesn't automatically make you articulate or media-savvy or good at living in the public eye, as any number of straight players have demonstrated.

And honestly, honestly, do we actually believe that the LGBTIQ community is uniformly supportive of out celebrities? Check out any gay-themed web forum, this one included, and take a look at the comments. Between the shallow queens who see it as their duty on this earth to judge everyone by their appearance, the self-styled cynics who proclaim that said celeb is just cashing in on their queer cred, and the armchair critics who need to inform the rest of us that the person in question is just not that talented anyway, you'd be forgiven for thinking that our support is a highly conditional, fair-weather phenomenon.

Anyways, all of this is why I think it's probably more likely that the first out players will be guys who've already retired from the game (or are nearing retirement), and who are old enough and secure enough to not give a shit about what people might say about them. But I could be wrong.