Census tells us more about ourcouples

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Australia’s Census figures released this week are giving us a lot of detail about how and where same-sex couples live – and what they believe.

The 2011 Census shows 33,714 same-sex couples around Australia – 1,338 said they were ‘married’ while 32,377 same-sex couples (nearly 65,000 Australians) were in de facto relationships.

This is a 32% increase in the number of same-sex couples than seen in the last census in 2006 – continuing a large trend upwards since 1996, when same-sex couples were first counted:

“The increases may in part reflect greater willingness by people to identify themselves as same-sex couples in the Census,” notes the Australian Bureau of Statistics. Same-sex couples now account for 0.7% of all couples counted in Australia.

A data also shows the geographical spread of same-sex couples. In the larger capital cities, inner city areas had notably higher proportions of same-sex couples than other parts of the city.

Just over one in ten same-sex couples had children living with them in their family. 12% of the couples counted noted that they had children, and it’s much more common for female than male same-sex couples to have children living in the family – 22% compared with 3%. In total, there’s 6,120 children under 25 years in same-sex couple families.

The Census asks about religion, so we can now extrapolate information about how same-sex couples differ from others on their beliefs. “Same-sex couple partners were most likely to report having no religion (48%), followed by Christianity (40%),” says the Bureau. “This contrasted with opposite sex couples, for whom Christianity was the leading affiliation (67%) followed by having no religion (21%).”

“Compared with partners in opposite-sex couples, same-sex partners were more likely to be affiliated with Buddhism (4.0% compared with 2.6%) and less likely to be affiliated with Hinduism (0.3% compared with 1.6%) or Islam (0.6% compared with 2.1%).”

Naturally, all these new facts make us reflect on how we are treated in our society and in our laws.

“With same-sex couples increasingly integrated into Australian society, our exclusion from marriage looks more and more outdated,” says Alex Greenwich of Australian Marriage Equality.

“The increase in children being raised by same-sex parents is a reminder of the need for marriage equality because these children are currently deprived of the security and stability having married parents can bring,” he asserts.

“With same-sex couples increasingly integrated into Australian society, our exclusion from marriage looks more and more outdated.”

Read the Australian Bureau of Statistics’ full report on Same-Sex Couple Families from the 2011 Census here.

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Beau

Beau said on the 5th Jul, 2012

To dear Jules,

I am writing this letter to you because I am a bit cranky with you.

I realise that you are a bit cranky with me as well and maybe an email dialogue should be the starting point for amends. I thought I would take the initiative and tell you why I am cranky and leave it open for you to tell me why you may be too.

I simply feel rejected and used.

I have recently realised that I hate being rejected (because it has happened so often) and my way of dealing with it is at it's first whiff I push the prospective rejector away.

I know this is not some freudian, jungian or sociological breakthrough but I am still hurt by it and wish I wasn't. Particularly because you know that that is what I am going to do.

Of course, I would never ring you up and abuse you like I have others. I will though now tell you why I feel the way I feel.

I am cranky because:

you chose to share with me what I believed was what was really important to you and when I chose to tell you what was upsetting and important to me you had very little interest or time.

you told me that you jettisoned a friend a while back because she was always negative. While you have subjected me to the most incessant negativity on a level that no one else would be able to bear and I thought that if I heard yours you might have cared to hear a fraction of mine... at some stage.

of your ageism and racism and essential closed mindedness because you believe it is superior and it simply is not.


Once things are good for you (like last week) you project a smugness and dare I say it entitledeness and then fall back on pretentiousness for a good measure.

I don't care that you are seeing someone who has a nice apartment. I don't care that you are going skiing or travelling abroad as some value of who you are. I don't care that you look good for a 43 year old man. Let alone bother to say that I do or don't. I have moved beyond the surface. You needto escape your own ideas.

When and if we go to the reunion, those who you are trying to impress won't care about what you do. Isn't that why you like them?

I know that you are scared of me when I have a bit of a meltdown like I have been having. I know it is scary and you are a champion for having been able to deal and put up with it.


It means nothing to me. It is meaningless. I know you understand me more than anyone has ever done. This time, I know you are upset and pretending that it is all ok and i know it is not it is just a repeat of what we have been through before.

I love you as a friend and that is so much more important. I had to do what I did. Understand that, please.

I am and have embraced the love that so many dead men created. I felt it momentarily and others did so more than I did and they speak now!

It makes no sense and in your grandeur you can find excuses to make it real for you. But it doesn't and won't as long as you try to impress me.