Totka is a 43 year old guy from Newtown, NSW. He's gay and in a relationship and last visited us .
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I'm 43, in a relationship of 10 years. My partner and I live in Sydneys inner west .
I have a younger brother who is also gay.
I am not defined by my sexuality, but, I do love being a poof and if I had the choice to change that I would NOT.
At 43 I could easily fill this space and more with stuff about me, but, will spare you all of that and save it for my memoirs.
Varied and perverse as possible, Music is the sound track to life so it depends on whats going on
2 all time favourite movies - Pulp Fiction and The Colour Purple
Anything thats fantasy fiction, love a good bio, nothing better than a well illustrated cookbook
Bookmarked on the 21st Jan, 2010
After a string of hints, the long-anticipated return of Massive Attack has now been confirmed. Fans will no doubt rejoice at news that the Bristol trip-hop trailblazers have chosen some special venues for the March 2010 headline shows.
Bookmarked on the 19th Jan, 2010
It's almost that time again - and if you want a great view of this year's Mardi Gras Parade then get in quick. Tickets to the Glamstand are now on sale.
Bookmarked on the 2nd Nov, 2009
‘The day I came out,’ His Highness Manvendra Singh Gohil says, ‘people burned my effigy in the streets.' Now, years later, Delhi's High Court has decriminalised homosexuality. We chat to the world's only openly gay royal.
Bookmarked ages ago
Step inside Mika's 'bedroom' and take a look behind the scenes at the making of his new video for 'We Are Golden'.
Bookmarked ages ago
For the first time ever the boys from Rising dayclub have joined forces with Rogue Dance Melbourne to create the next big event for the Sleaze Long Weekend - Daywash, to be held at Chinese Laundry in the city.
Bookmarked ages ago
In the past, when loved ones have died, it’s been an open and shut case. Being raised in a Catholic school I had heard more than enough about the ‘sins of homosexuality’ and I threw it right out the door. That was, until I discovered Lisa Williams.
Bookmarked ages ago
Convicted of possession of 'ice' in December, media reports indicate Peter Lloyd is out of his Singaporean prison.
Bookmarked ages ago
BBC1 caused a stir on Friday, and all it took was a kiss - between a closeted, young Muslim and his hunky colleague.
Bookmarked ages ago
After several persistent (but fruitless) rumours in recent times, The B-52s will at last return to Australia this November.
Bookmarked ages ago
New guidelines from the Vatican will see men applying to become Catholic Priests in Melbourne tested to screen out any gay candidates. According to the Herald Sun, those who "appear" to be gay cannot be accepted.
Sun 12th Apr - Mon 13th Apr ~ St Pauls Tavern
If you have never been to a White Wolf party imagine a sea of blokes mostly 30+ dancing themselves silly and heaps just watching or chatting downstairs catching up with mates or making new ones.
Fri 15th May - Sat 16th May ~ Flinders Hotel (UPSTAIRS)
A QUEERTASTIC Pop, Rock & Indie night for the Boys’N’Girls held upstairs at The Flinders Hotel Held on the 3rd Friday on the month thereafter in the same vain as ‘POPSTARZ’ & ‘POPTASTIC’ from London
Fri 19th Jun - Sat 20th Jun ~ Arq
Dress in black: speedos, footy shorts, harness. Doors open 10pm – A Pride week event!
Sat 31st Oct - Sat 31st Oct ~ Hyde Park North
One of Sydneys favourite foodie events, the AIDS Trust Sydney Food and Wine Fair, will be offering Sydneysiders a taste of heaven in Hyde Park North on Saturday 31 October from 12-5pm.
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