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Craig67 said on the 11th Oct, 2012

I found out from Getup who did a check by my postcode and found that the two MP in my area Ed Husic and Davd Bradbury voted no to marriage equality.

I wrote to David saying that he voted no. I began a dialogue with their office. It must have had an impact because I eas invited to have a meeting with them on 16th November to discuss this issue. I attached a video "it could happen to you" highly recommended with a box of tissue.

See below. You know if everyone wrote - what impact that will have on our future young ones. I longed for the day where I would be chatting to a young one who's come out at school, has a boyfriend and when he is of age will marry and plan for a career and family. It's bit too late for me but it's never too late for young generation, old and young I suppose.

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No to Marriage Equality.

I'm actually gobsmacked shocked because I voted for you. You looked like a honest man with common sense.

I'm Deaf, a Christian who is Gay too. I've been with my partner for over 17 years now. Getup informed me based on my postcode that both you and Ed Husic voted no to marriage equality.

You know, there's so many reasons for why I like the idea of marraige equality. But what I am interested in is finding what do you know about us. What made you say no? What are your reasoning? I would like to meet up with you and discuss this further and iron out any confusion or misconception. Please do not offend me by comparing me with beastity like the other person whom Malcolm Turbul has put into place.

At the moment, my family can object to my partner to having anything of mine should I accidentially pass away and I challenge you to have a serious look at this youtube just to give you the perspective I am working from. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pR9gyloyOjM

Take a look at this please... its got the singular message that is so needed out there... I've shed tears because I worry that its my partner. You can't say it can't happen. It has happened because you said "no". I like the idea of proposing to the man of my life. It's not hurting anyone. I can rest in assurance that everything of mine becomes his and that he can do anything in anyway he likes, to be able to let me go on his terms and not have it ripped from him. I know my family will be mean, and not so supportive. I would get the opposite with my partner's family. They've adopted me.

You know, when I was 10 my uncle said that if he ever sees a gay person, he'd run em over with his car. I wonder why it took me almost 30 years to come out. I hid my relationship with my partner for so many years as if I was ashamed. So in your electorate - you said to me no.

Please take the time to watch the youtube and it may be emotional but I can tell you one thing, its very true. It's what we live with everyday. My super has to be changed every three years because it defaults to my next of kin. I don't want them having my super because of their choice to disown me and treat me badly. Gosh I wonder if our lot is closer to third class citizen. I do wonder why many will committ suicide when they find out that they're gay.

Once again, I would sincerely like to meet with you and introduce you to the most important person who been my rock and love. Many people are suprised to hear that my partner is a "he" because I don't look gay. I put it down to fear and not being accepted that we never show any affection in public because we know why. We didn't choose to be Gay. I've always had the same sex attraction for as long as I can remember.

It would nice to see maybe not in my time but a hope for the future that younger ones can get married if they want. I go to every single wedding on my own and I smile because its such a beautiful wedding and I just love romance but inside I have tears because I know I will never experience those things in life. Committment ceremony means nothing on paper.

I've reconciled myself to the fact that it wont happen in my time and that's ok for me. Thank you for voting "no" so that I may never know what it's like to be married, that I will continue to see others have a family while I have a partner. For now, I can read romantic same sex novels, and cry at movies of same sex marriages, and celebrate other countries sucess.

I do wonder if I was so serious about marriage then we'd move overseas where they accept gay marriage and become citizen of that country. If I have an opportunity to do that with a working carreer. I might put the idea to my prospective husband, sell up and move overseas and start a new life.

A big part of me thought, you could do better.

So lets look at an opportunty for us to meet with you before the year is over.

Many thanks

Craig Maynard.
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